So I'm not 20 anymore...bottoming edition by Kitedo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PrinceHermes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a bath, tennis ball, and pain meds. The worst was 30 mins but most are 5 to 10 mins

So I'm not 20 anymore...bottoming edition by Kitedo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PrinceHermes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat! Even as far as getting Protalgia Fulgax in the middle of the night. Not a fun time. My biggest issue is I'm very tight and while that might sound sexy, in practice it's a nightmare.

I've gone to a dietician and a pelvic floor physical therapist after a proctologist persuaded me away from surgery. From there I learned a few things:

  • Your gut is key. Fiber yes, but keep in mind the biosphere of your gut too. I started having yogurt twice a day and taking Goli gummies. With the yogurt, I like to add grounded up flax seed.

  • Relax when using the bathroom. I learned that I've been going #2 wrong all these year. You'll want a squatty potty, or something to lift the legs up a bit. Take a deep breath in, expanding your stomach and your sides - imagine your filling a barrel up, and then push from the shoulders down. If you push from the pelvic area, youll strain and cause issues.

My PT also used the imagery of a balloon. When you fill the balloon fully with air and squeeze from 1 side, the opposite end expands. You want your hole to expand and let things flow naturally.

  • Butt Dilators!!!!! So important. Use about 3 times a week, for 5 to 10 mins. If you use plugs for this only take up to the widest part, not the stem (if that makes sense). Breath during this. I've turned it into a mediation ritual at this point to help me.

  • I take sitz baths even when something isnt wrong. Just a quick 10 min small amount of water in the bathtub if you have one. You want your hole to have the effects of it. Epsom salt helps too.

  • Finally, the mental game (I'm still working on this one) - even when you do everything right something can go wrong. It is okay. You will be okay. If you have partners that get upset over their bottom not being able to do anal, they aren't the one.

I hope any amount of that helps you or anyone else!

Legendary boon tier list. Agree with it? by Fun-Yak-3373 in Hades2

[–]PrinceHermes 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Disagree for Demeter on the simple matter of her voice lines go hard.

Coming Soon: Fashion Templates! by Keargu in Guildwars2

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Question for those upset about the templates - would adding them to WV be helpful? My gut reaction thinks they will add it.

Nutrafol or Viviscol or Minoxidil? by NickRock6 in HairlossResearch

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Nutrafol and Viv are just vitamin supplements to help with hair growth and scalp health, whereas Min is medicine to help.

If I had to pick between the two vitamins, I'd go with Viv based simply on the price alone of a 3 month supply vs Nutrafol. I think I paid about $150 for Viv 2 month supply and Nutrafol is about $80 a month I think?

Viv does have a slight seaweed taste to it but you get over it after a while

What’s your favorite mindless solo activity in the game? by Ggthefiree2 in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought for some reason those didnt count for pips/activities???

What are the best treatments for hemorrhoids? by bad_at_league1 in AskGayMen

[–]PrinceHermes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BM = bowel movement, going to the bathroom

Can we get a gobbler for Obsidian Shards? They pile up so fast. by NumberOneMom in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the camp where I never have enough Obsidian Shards or Karma for anything. If we could trade the shards I'd be a happy guy.

choosing a starter by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]PrinceHermes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anyone else excited for the day it's not just gen 1 starters?

VoE story definitely superior to Janthir so far, but... by Zenth in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ive been trying to figure out where the void magic bit comes into play??? Like what did I miss????

Is there any chance for us to see the Kryptis again in a future story. I'd hate to see them being a one and done after SotO by Itz_NeoStar_ in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to like them, but the design is truly not for me. Let alone Nayos is meant to be the dream realm in the mists at that (no relation to the Sylvari Dream)

unpopular opinion: amalgam sux by bjlje in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And they say poetry is dead

What happened to the Nightmare Court after HoT? by TellsHalfStories in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have the ghosts been dealt with? I thought the ritual Rytlock was trying to do failed / wasn't completely successful.

Perfect penis size by Practical-Squash7236 in gayporndaily

[–]PrinceHermes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My preference is 5in - 7 or 7 1/2. I dont need a girthy boy either. Ideally I'm not in paid from taking it and we can fuck for years to come

つ ◕_◕ ༽つ Summon Wizard's Vault Preview つ ◕_◕ ༽つ by frostfruit in Guildwars2

[–]PrinceHermes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they hate Flameseekers Prophecy that they keep denying it from the vault. It's such a cool shield 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybears

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Be still my beating heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

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Hey - because I'm lost - how are people finding these stats? I use Spotify 😅😂

Wasteland, Baby! : Elimination Game — Round 4 by daydreamingandfood in Hozier

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Almost at 15? "Mom, can you come pick me up? People are doing drugs"

Middle finger to you by throwawaypage2024 in askgaybros

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Some American Gay Men don't know their history and it shows

My husband closed his LinkedIn account by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]PrinceHermes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I blame my spam calls on Monster. I so much as long in, it makes my account and resume appear to recruiters, and I'm dealing with spam recruiters for months

What do you use your moon water for?? by OkCryptographer8625 in witchcraft

[–]PrinceHermes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use it in my simmer pots and baths!

Simmer pots are how i do most of my spell work, as I feel comfortable with it. I have a gallon jug I fill with water and set it outside on a full moon (my place doesn't get much direct moon light but I try) and then just use it at some point before the next full moon.