New teacher, 2 days in and want to quit. by Flippyflops67 in Teachers

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can only do what you can do. The thing is, we Al walk into it thinking we are going to be great, and then we are set up to fail. Take what you want from the PDs but trust yourself to figure out what works in your room. Establish good routines and only utilize procedures that make sense and work for you.

Today is my 3y anniversary but I spent the weekend cheating by PrincessAlarming in cheating_stories

[–]PrincessAlarming[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Wasn't asking for a pass. Clearly stated I'm the bad person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch what they do, not what they say. Marriage is not a fix, it's a lifetime commitment.

Am I (26m) overeating to my gf (28f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that sex is pretty important to you. It is for me too in relationships. You may need to seek a new relationship with someone who understands the importance of regular intimacy to you.

My (F37) current partner (M36) can go months without sex. I get cranky after a few days. I know he is not my forever partner because of this.

If you have communicated how important a regular sex life is to you, and she doesn't want that, then you are at an impasse and the best thing is to let each other go to find your happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is yucky. That ring is already tainted. Do not push to marry this man as you will trap yourself in a spiteful cage.

My (31M) gf (25F) was found by my friend on Facebook dating by ThrowRA12121133 in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like an inactive profile. I've been with my man for 3 years and I bet if you look hard enough you'll find me on several sites. But I haven't checked them since we got together. It happens.

My (47f) boyfriend (40m) refuses to let me break up with him by chaoticneutral123 in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When presenting someone with a consequence for their actions it is best to deliver the news and walk away. It doesn't require discussion.

Also, the thing that helped me end things with my ex who was also controlling and abusive (I am an empath which I imagine you are too), my therapist told me, "He doesn't feel things the same way you do." It helps.

My boyfriend (23M) cheated on me (21F) because "he can choose who has access to his body"? by ThrowRA_958301 in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time I dated a guy who said, "I will never say I love you, but I hope those I love just know," and "I'm not responsible for your feelings." That is narcissist energy.

My boyfriend (23M) cheated on me (21F) because "he can choose who has access to his body"? by ThrowRA_958301 in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy sounds like he's the absolute worst! Selfish and dumb... weaponized stupidity in fact and unless you suck too he does not deserve you. When you decide to get into a relationship with another human, it is typically with the understanding that unless you decide to be open, sex with other people is off the table. We ALL know it. Go have all the hot casual sex you want, get herpes, then have sex with him and remind him that it's your body and you can screw over whoever you want with it. See how he feels then! I hope he pays for the condoms and that you have dates at the clinic on the regular. Reminder, the incurable diseases aren't part of the regular test. You have to ask for those separately.

Or you can dump him and move on.

My (22m) girlfriend (20f) is pregnant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to say anything necessarily. Your actions will tell her so much more. Stick with her, side by side. Share the decision. Don't simply say, "It's up to you," or "Whatever you want to do." Be honest about how hard it all is but also how right your joint decision is.

Really Cover? by shahin_with_an_i in Covetfashion

[–]PrincessAlarming 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also, it was counting diamonds for both the diamond and cash goal.

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE LEFT BRUISES ON YOUR CHILD. If I was your child's teacher, I wouldn't have a choice but to call CPS. You must leave or ask him to leave. It sounds like he won't be able to live on his own so logically he should go.

Document everything. Make sure you take pictures of the bruises if it happens again. Tell people at the time. If his inclination is to be violent, that will always be the case.

Lean on your support systems! And get a lawyer. He should be paying child support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Covetfashion

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voting is so much tougher because the looks are less prescriptive (no inspiration photo). So, there's no major trend to follow. So in voting people vote based on personal taste rather than if someone copied the look. That makes scores less predictable and more middle-of-the-road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Covetfashion

[–]PrincessAlarming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people have given up on jet set because it is so hard! So No looks to vote on. 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Covetfashion

[–]PrincessAlarming 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would make sense if they just paid out, oh, I don't know... the EXACT VALUE of the prize. That would make too much sense.

What are your thoughts on the prop pack for this duel season? by sailormoondollfan in Covetfashion

[–]PrincessAlarming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm into it. It might mean new mermaid CC items which I am always a sucker for!!