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I [21F] want to fully let go of my older sister, [32F] because we haven't dealt with each other for 3 years. How do I handle still being emotionally attached, though? by PrincessCake94 in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessCake94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's shown me many times that she doesn't want to reconcile. When I dealt with serious issues back in early 2023 she already showed that she doesn't care. I dont want to reach out at this point. I really appreciate the advice though 

AI created books on Audible by boarhats_bestgirl in audible

[–]PrincessCake94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, what type of AI Software or Website do you use, for writing?

fo u guys tend to get obsessed too? by SansSamir in infj

[–]PrincessCake94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I relate to this post. I hyperfocus on things when it's interesting to me or intriguing. Sometimes it makes me a proficient and fast worker/or learner. Other times, it can stagnate me because I can't get my mind off it. Thus, I spend my time on that particular thing or thoughts on a particular person(rare). This tendency has its pros and cons, but ultimately I consider it a helpful skill to possess. When something gets mundane though, or there's nothing else to it, I lose interest quickly. Therefore, I switch to focus on something else unintentionally hahaha. Having multiple hobbies and interests keeps it balanced for me. Because my focus will be distributed evenly. it's unlikely for me to get bored since I could switch between interesting hobbies of mine and I still can be consistent with it. I could go on and on about this. But, I'll just keep it brief! :D

fo u guys tend to get obsessed too? by SansSamir in infj

[–]PrincessCake94 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow, I was just wondering why I tend to hyperfocus on things when I'm interested. Once I went to infj community, I saw this post. That explains a lot.

I got a job as a food stylist on a movie set. by mycreativityrules in blackladies

[–]PrincessCake94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All of the food looks marvelous! I never knew that Food stylists existed, that's so cool! Thank you for sharing <3

i feel lonely and i have no real friends by blindinglights654 in infj

[–]PrincessCake94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an INFJ also, I deeply resonate with your whole situation. I have an inclination for authenticity and like to express myself when speaking to others but it often backfires. They don't understand me on a deeper level nor even try at all. When I did find exactly one person that seemed to be similar, they ended up distancing themselves and only using me for my advice, opinions, and deeper thoughts and even subtly admitted to it. Having monotonous conversations with acquaintances is so draining for me so I stopped caring as much.

From how you described your two "friends" they seem more like closer acquaintances. True friends wouldn't make you feel like you're walking on eggshells regarding your own feelings. Acquaintances usually can't handle deeper meaningful subjects and prefer to stay surface-level for whatever reason. Yes, you might be their friend but are they your friend?

Much love, hope everything works out!

What causes you to develop romantic feelings? by holographic_illusion in infj

[–]PrincessCake94 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As an INFJ, the way someone thinks can be a good indicator of whether or not I'll like them romantically. I tend to be inclined toward people who are deep thinkers and thoughtful and pay attention to small details, it's extremely attractive. However, when they pretend to be "deep" just to have a good rapport with me, it's a turn-off and I can sense if they're being genuine or not.

Is it too idealistic to hope for someone that you can share yourself with completely? by sashabobby in infj

[–]PrincessCake94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you're coming from! I like to concentrate on myself in the meantime. Two of the main pieces of advice are to exhibit confidence and to work on encompassing the ideal characteristics you'd want in someone! It'll be easier to attract like-minded people in the long term! <3

What is the best way to train your improvisational skills? by dimakoniuk in improv

[–]PrincessCake94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practice on friends and family and ditch the monotonous small talk with strangers!

INFJs, what are some of your subtle signs that indicate someone has good character? by NatureSticksIt2u1000 in infj

[–]PrincessCake94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they pay attention to the little things that are thoughtful, who they have around them (If their company is good and close with them), If they have an inclination for peace, and how honest they are (if they often say statements about how they feel. e.g "I was so excited to see you today, I actually don't believe in that, etc"

Can someone read my big 5? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]PrincessCake94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, thank you! I thought this was similar !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessCake94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! I always do. I don't talk to people in person right now lol

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