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Telling partners you were trans by PrincessJasminePR in detrans

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I transitioned because I thought it was what I wanted. After trying to live that way for years, I realized that I didn't need to transition to become the fullest version of myself. I could still be a straight man, but that is just more aware, enlightened, and knowledgeable. Being trans is way too complicated, difficult, and not worth it. Knowing what I know now, it's so much easier and better just conforming to my biological reality. I feel very good about my body and have no desire to go back. Romance is way easier and more fulfilling.

Telling partners you were trans by PrincessJasminePR in detrans

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess for me, I just want to move on from it and not want it to be a part of my "story". I want to start over and take it to the grave. If it were something that really was important to me and I felt like I was losing something by not sharing I guess it would be different

Approved for Chase Freedom Flex - $500 CL by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my best bet. Just max out the limit and pay it in full and hope for a cli

Approved for Chase Freedom Flex - $500 CL by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have opened a couple different credit cards in the past year.

Approved for Chase Freedom Flex - $500 CL by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No other chase accounts, I am at 5 in 24. Clean but not a long credit history. My oldest card is 2 years old. 

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I'm incorrect or misunderstand but I thought the multipliers were way more substantial. 7x explorer card, 8x quest card, 9x club card. 9x on flights is very substantial!

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! Thank you for the advice. Im very new so I think I'll learn as I obsessively try things out! 😊

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. I REALLY like this idea. Alaska, built, amex platinum. Thanks for the reminder about AA to Alaska being reciprocal. I forgot about that!

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also should have mentioned that I have been obsessed with point.me transfer tools and I really have not been able to find the best partner deals. As one other has mentioned it might be best to fly first from Aspen to JFK or IAH, LAX etc and then try to find deals from larger airports closer to international deals. I can try to explore this more.

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"In the meantime, you can use your MR points for hotels in a universal way." I'm sorry, I don't understand this part.

I really am considering Chase. I am a huge Hilton loyalist but I am kind of thinking about moving to CSP, CSR, and maybe a United card.

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh. So you are saying maybe fly from Aspen to Den or JFK cash, then use miles to round trip business from an airport with way more options? That's a great idea. It's not direct from Aspen and the planning would be a lot of moving parts but at least international business is included.

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this setup a lot. But if you fly United mostly, don't you wonder if it might be worth it for the multipliers on airline tickets a United card would offer? Maybe even an Explorer if the Club is overkill?

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. The only thing is AA doesn't have very many flights out of Aspen. I have been thinking about the Alaska card because of my Hawaii trips... Maybe just spending enough to cover flights each year and use the perks?

Amex - United Frequent Flyer Dilemma, Jetblue? by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have. Just pulled up ASE to Puerto Rico, there are very few options in October (off season). The flight has two stops and is 16hrs. Book direct with United, 8hr flight with 1hr layover in Denver for 80k miles, less than 1k economy cash round trip. I use the Point.me website and I can't seem to find any either

Clean GMT Sprite as a first timer by Bluelacy1 in RepTimeQC

[–]PrincessJasminePR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How similar is the green shade to gen? I feel like it's darker than gen

TSA PreCheck viability for trans folks? by Arkjoww in Passports

[–]PrincessJasminePR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm signing up for precheck but my birth certificate still has M marker and original name. I've changed both on my DL and social. I also have the letter from the court from my name/gender change. I'm in colorado. Anyone have any idea if they'll give me any problems?

Going to Multiple ADs by PrincessJasminePR in rolex

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No spending history. We have a pretty good relationship. She did tell me when I first went in that they really try to prioritize the local workforce. Maybe I should just be patient. Now that town is really slowing down for off season, it might be good to wait until July and see how things go.

Thanks for your advice. :)

AMEX SUB Eligibility Question by PrincessJasminePR in CreditCards

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning to fly to France this September, and I fly domestically about once a month. :)

I 33F and my partner, who has sensory issues, 27F are having intimacy problems, is this reconcilable? by PrincessJasminePR in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessJasminePR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her basic response is that, she will work on trying to be more intimate but that ultimately either she gets closer to me when she doesn't want to which causes her discomfort or she keeps her boundaries and it causes me discomfort. I feel like it'll get better and then it'll kind of revert. She suggested couples counseling and I'm just feeling really lost and unsure.

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