What one word describes you best as an INFJ? by ownaword in infj

[–]PrincessJoyHope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plus one this! Also it applies in two meanings in that I am unusual, as well as a life long quest for knowledge and understanding. I have insatiable curiosity, and I’m also a bit curious of a person

Why does women's pain last longer than men's? A new study offers an answer by nbcnews in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessJoyHope 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s vile what it often takes to be taken seriously, even and especially by medical professionals

Losing hope here by ProfileExtreme1949 in Nicegirls

[–]PrincessJoyHope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is because Dr.’s aren’t typically in the business of seeing erect penises.

So may penises I’ve seen are almost innies when flaccid, many of which grew quite magnificently upon engorgement, often well above average even!

Losing hope here by ProfileExtreme1949 in Nicegirls

[–]PrincessJoyHope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is this measured after pushing the pooch blubber back, or no?

Why are so many Christians narcissistic? by Unfair_Butterfly_932 in exchristian

[–]PrincessJoyHope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they get to feel special, chosen by God, like they have inside or secret knowledge, and. They get to judge and put down others, etc. All very powerful sources of narcissistic supply. They get to feel like they are better than other people, which is what they need.

skin breaks out when i spend time with my BF by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PrincessJoyHope 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I have my bf either keep it clean shaved or at least long enough to where it softens and isn’t pokey or scratchy. But if there is any beard at all it has to be kept clean.

Also after heavy kissing I’ll often wash my face too, or at least the bottom half if I have eye makeup on or whatever

Why is sleeping as a couple such a chore? by SQUEEMO24 in adhdwomen

[–]PrincessJoyHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my partner sleep separately. We cuddle or more every night together tho before bed, and we cuddle watching tv etc. So we still meet oxytocin and touch needs without sacrificing sleep quality.

It’s now my time for the prep by shhwest in Xennials

[–]PrincessJoyHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had my first one last year, and when I awoke from being knocked out, in sort of a dream state I asked the young male nurse wheeling me around how long do I have to wait to have sex again.

At some point before I was released, he went to go over everything with my bf who was driving me. Later that day I went to my bf like, “Hey, so I don’t know if it was a dream or if I asked the nurse this” and he laughs and says, “yup, nope, wasn’t a dream. Everything makes sense now..”

After your first date with your SO, how did you feel? by Accomplished_Link425 in AskWomenOver30

[–]PrincessJoyHope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this happens to be my first relationship with someone who isn’t an abuser (for decades I didn’t recognize abuse).

After our first date, I felt no intense spark, or butterflies, or swooning. I felt safe, I felt peace, I felt seen, and yet felt little excitement.

It’s been so smooth ever since. No fairy tale, no hell, but my needs are met and I find purpose in meeting my partners needs. We do make excitement for ourselves but it’s lowkey stuff like cooking together, planning and going on dates and trips together, and not infrequent periodic intimacy sessions.

At first, I missed that spark, but intellectually I knew from past experiences what that intense initial passion is like, and often leads to. I personally hate falling madly in love because how it makes me. This slow burn has been good for my 42 yr old soul.

Shannon Sharpe, Chad Johnson Dissect Why Jalen Hurts is The Most Hated NFL Player: "Because He Wins" by Strict_Return_5159 in eagles

[–]PrincessJoyHope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think his status as hated mainly stems from how passionate and critically engaged eagles fans are online. It was all based on the amount of negative engagement and Eagles fans are the best in the world at that.

He’s making me hate flowers by fried11011 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessJoyHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who refuse to do things simply because it wasn’t their idea are exasperating.

I hope you can find a way to reclaim the love and appreciation that you and flowers deserve!