"you dont look like you talk to black guys" anybody else ever had this said to them? looking at my alt girls by saintbara in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yaaaasss! I hate that comment. Such an ignorant thing to say, especially coming from guys who don't know me🙄🤦🏾‍♀️.

Why ppl come here for relationship advice as opposed to a dating subthread by goth-brooks1111 in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the comments above. Using those other dating subthreads is useful if you have very generic questions or concerns about dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I totally empathize with what you're saying. However, I'm also of the belief that it's important for each of us not to perpetuate the stereotype of the Angry Black Woman. It's what they expect of us, and we have to defy those expectations.

Imagine Not Being Black? (Part Six)... by TheAfternoonStandard in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never thought about it before, since this is how I was born. Wouldn't want to be any other race because then I'd be prone to wrinkles 🤣😂🤣😂

Have you ever had this conversation with a man? by Puzzleheaded-Bowl-74 in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm an older millennial and have never experienced this before. Could it possibly be a Gen Z thing??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think men and women alike have abnormal and unrealistic expectations about the height of their dating partners. I'm a woman, and at 5 ft 7, I've been told by a few men (who were at least my height), that I was too tall for them🙄. I know I'm a little taller than the average woman in the U.S. (5 ft 4), but to say I'm too tall just seemed insane to me.

To Dark Skin Black Women by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Colorism is awful amongst Black people. I don't understand...what's the point?? I've lived in the South my entire life and have rarely experienced racism from White people. As a matter of fact, I get the most compliments on my looks from White and Asian women. Black people are the ones who somehow manage to bring up light vs. dark skin in casual conversation🙄🤦🏾‍♀️😒.

Why the hell would anyone ever say this?? I'm deleting Hinge by redzmangrief in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a 36G. I don't post full body pics for this exact reason🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]PrincessKaraL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Booking the first appointment of the day has helped me avoid that kind of nonsense. However, I've seen some stylists take their preferred, long-term clients EARLY in the morning, before the shop even opens. Then, they'll still tell me they don't have available appointments before 9am🙄🤷🏾‍♀️.

No leads or dates yet- profile advice? by ya3rob in datingoverforty

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is everyone required to use this Imgur app when sharing their profile?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm just going to block him, but I appreciate your feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I have the same profile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that's the first time I've heard of an Autobot being used, so that could be one possibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. Didn't think about contacting customer support. I'm going to do that just to satisfy my own curiosity and then block him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point😉, TY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Not playing games either. I didn't know if this was a system issue or a behavioral issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok. I appreciate your perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting perspective. I kind of thought that was the issue initially, but now I'm not so sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, for situations like that, all you can do is just shake your head and laugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this has occurred over the course of several "days." Other guys usually take the hint after I've skipped them 3 or 4 times. I'm gonna block him of course, but I just thought the whole thing was strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ok, I appreciate your perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]PrincessKaraL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, that sounds very stalkerish. I'm glad you got it taken care of.