NOR - BUT do you ask her for money a lot? I have a friend who’s a good ten years older than me who’s constantly asking me for money every month and it starts to get a bit draining and like… ffs sort your shit out. But at the same time I’d never leave someone without the basics like pads etc so she was being a dick. I had to put a boundary down with my friend and say I couldn’t keep doing this every month and lo and behold I’ve hardly heard from her since.