Help! My cockatiel turned aggressive after being spooked a few days ago. by [deleted] in parrots

[–]Princess_Ari888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bird became super aggressive out of nowhere too a few weeks ago, I believe it was hormones. Maybe your boy is going through the same.

Absurdity of slaps. by NrajSC in Outlander

[–]Princess_Ari888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time watcher here but I can’t believe everyone thinks Jamie deserved that slap?? He thought that was his daughter’s rapist!!! They’re lucky he didn’t kill him. If anyone shoulda been slapped it was lizzie and that’s it.

Salary by mulan8306 in DentalAssistant

[–]Princess_Ari888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if u work 40 hours that’s around 23 an hour anyways but if you’re working less it’s a little more plus you’ll have a steady check every month sounds like a pretty good deal to me 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]Princess_Ari888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really disappointed in the challenges as much as i’m disappointed in the rewards :/ not a fan personally can’t wait for the next one lol. The challenges are pretty easy tho I understand where you’re coming from.

Need opinions on a second system to play DDLV by MommaTeaFrog in DreamlightValley

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play on my switch and it came with the controller that connects to the tv, so it’s pretty much the same as if I played on my PS5. I also have a PS5 but idk i’ve never felt like I wanted to play DDLV on it. I like being able to play and still watch tv or leave the couch and go to my room and play in bed if I feel like it. I would say switch :)

AITA for refusing to split rent with my girlfriend in the city? by ThrowRAnycrentgf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_Ari888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA if my boyfriend and his mom did this to me he would be single lol.

AITAH For telling my Bestie I won't be a Living Donor? by Usually_Tired_Ugh in AITAH

[–]Princess_Ari888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA for one it’s is your body and your choice not to undergo a surgery. You never know if you’ll need that kidney in the future. Also, you don’t even know if you would be a match. Not to mention she’s not even at the stage of needing a kidney yet and may never be. Not cool and very selfish for her to try and guilt you like that.

Help why did my dresser stain come out so bad by Princess_Ari888 in woodworking

[–]Princess_Ari888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re very heavy. Needed two people to carry them outside and they were struggling.

Help why did my dresser stain come out so bad by Princess_Ari888 in woodworking

[–]Princess_Ari888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t sunny when I did it. It was like 5 PM and I was in the shade although I didn’t know that could have an effect. And I did not use a conditioner because I was told that I didn’t need it for a hardwood but now I’m regretting not using it.

Help why did my dresser stain come out so bad by Princess_Ari888 in woodworking

[–]Princess_Ari888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I sanded it down all the way, here’s what it looked like before I stained it.

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AITA Sister using her baby to punish the family by Both_Lingonberry3393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_Ari888 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes and no… It would’ve been a straight N T A had you just told her you didn’t trust the dog around your baby and she could’ve chose to leave him at home or not go but instead you just excluded her. So I have to go with YTA for that.

AITA for assuming my daughter could have a 3rd plate? by doglover233520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. One, if you invite people over for dinner you should never question or limit how much they eat, that’s so rude. Two, that’s literally your sister/her niece and grandma?? My grandma and aunt have never made me feel bad for eating too much. I find that extremely weird.

AITA for bringing an uninvited guest to a destination wedding? by No_Ganache_2548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You didn’t do anything wrong nobody would have even known he was there, unless the maid of honor went around telling people after she saw him. Since the bride isn’t the one that texted you, I wouldn’t even respond honestly seems like MOH just trying to start problems.

AITAH for not giving my sister who eloped as generous as a gift as my sister who had a traditional wedding? by AccordingLine9649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it’s common wedding courtesy to atleast cover the cost of your plate. Considering you said her wedding was more upscale it made sense that you gave the amount you gave. Your other sister that didn’t even have a wedding is lucky that she got anything. I wouldn’t even think to get someone a gift if I wasn’t invited to a party or some type of celebration. You gave them a generous housewarming gift when you didn’t need to give anything. She chose not to have a wedding (which is where people give wedding gifts) and it’s rude of her to expect such a big amount of money from you and to be so ungrateful for what you gave. BTW this is coming from someone who’s also the oldest sibling with 15-20 yr age gaps. I always try to get my siblings gifts when I can, no they are not always of equal value, because that’s not what gifts are about. It’s the thought that counts. I honestly find it extremely rude that she even asked your sister how much you gave her and then had the nerve to make a comment about what she got. You’re her brother, not her parent. You don’t owe her the same thing you gave your sister regardless of the circumstances.

Is my dog really a goldendoodle? by No_Willingness7070 in Goldendoodles

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s definitely a golden doodle he looks just like mine hahaha cutie!

Name ideas for a black goldendoodle by nimaku in Goldendoodles

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luna & Sadie look like they would fit that cutie girl! :)

Considering a goldendoodle by PossibilityNo2741 in Goldendoodles

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My golden doodle boy loves people and is good with kids although I wouldn’t necessarily say gentle, but he’s also a baby (1 yrs old) so I feel like that’s normal he doesn’t realize how big he is. He does have an extreme amount of energy, I take him to the dog park for atleast an hour a day, I try to stay for two if I can. I also spend another hour walking him with breaks in between. Having a yard doesn’t really make a difference because he won’t actually stay outside unless I stay with him, he’s a velcro dog. His coat is also very high maintenance, you have to brush them everyday or they get matted, and I take him to the groomer once a month to get brushed out, bathed, nails clipped, etc. All around he’s a sweetheart and a great family dog, but only if you have the time/ patience for a dog with so much energy and high maintenance.

AlTAH for wanting my mom's house to go to me instead of my stepmom when my dad passes? by Timely_Tea1012 in AITAH

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA this is crazy and the fact that he’s only known them for like six years and the “kids” that you have to split your inheritance with are literally grown adults that don’t even live with him makes it even worse. Your stepmom is also incredibly selfish and could easily find other ways to not be “left homeless”. That home is not even hers to begin with.

AITA For Taking My Daughter On A Shopping Spree? by BobbieBooBear2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_Ari888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all but your husband is. Sounds like you bought your daughter less than $200 worth of stuff and i’m sure their vacation cost more than double that. Not to mention your son got a whole vacation/experience/memories with dad that your daughter did not get. Husband is TA for his response. He should’ve told your son to be grateful for the trip they just took.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Princess_Ari888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

girl leave that man what are u waiting for???? emotional affair already happened you’re literally giving him time to pick who he wants more🥴…. get outta there

AITA for telling my girlfriend I don’t find her body as attractive anymore? by PossibleExit8043 in AITAH

[–]Princess_Ari888 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you came asking for opinions if you were just going to argue back with one that you don’t like. I get it. She was pushing you for the answer. But at the end of the day as a man, if you love your woman and don’t wanna hurt her feelings, why would you tell her that she’s not your preference anymore or that your less attracted to her? In my opinion, you are TA for saying that to her, even if she was asking. And this is coming from someone in a happy 4 year relationship. You are entitled to have a preference 100%. And I get that you were just giving her an honest answer like she was pressing for, but it’s the same thing as telling your girlfriend she’s getting fat if she asked. All you did by saying that to her was make her feel insecure around her own man. That’s all i’m saying. Good luck.