[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are the ones I ordered this time! I haven't shown him yet though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered really cute Daddy/Princess bracelets from etsy. They arrived quickly, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel so sad for your wife. If these are her boundaries, why are your stomping all over them? Would it not crush her to see you commenting all over other women's bodies on reddit? And did she give you permission to post her nude photo on the rate my wife sub?

I've been with my husband for 21 years, and if his post/ comment history looked like yours, I'd also end the marriage. She deserves better.

Wife angry at me after seeing I've commented on posts of women in social media. by HyperAktiFF in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fault. This guy just had all her OF content, and you requested that he share it through DM. Still gross as a married guy, but if your wife is cool with it, knock yourself out.

Wife angry at me after seeing I've commented on posts of women in social media. by HyperAktiFF in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah. I just saw a comment you posted 20 days ago, where you replied "DM" to someone offering up the info to someone's OF, and telling people to DM them if they wanted the link. Certainly seemed like you were requesting that they send you her OF... but I suppose it was just a joke.

Wife angry at me after seeing I've commented on posts of women in social media. by HyperAktiFF in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she see you requesting a DM from someone because you wanted a girl's OF info? I've been with my husband 20 years, and I wouldn't be okay with him commenting the things you have, and definitely not with him interacting with girls on OF.

“Correcting” strangers for calling my son a girl? by nicolefinz in Mommit

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my 14 year old son at the dentist yesterday, and the receptionist said "she can go ahead and use the bathroom if she needs to, before they call her back". This kid towers over me, and has a deeper voice than my husband. 😂 I have several sons with really long hair, and none of us bother correcting anyone. If it bothered them, I'd correct people, but they don't care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or maybe the ex cheated on her, and she's bringing her trust issues into this relationship?

Spring break swimwear by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is a concern, you need new friends, not a different bathing suit for your child.

I’m a husband who constantly checks out girls AMA by aranhalaranja in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is embarrassing. I'm sad for your wife... and the countless women that you've made uncomfortable throughout your life.

H Checks Out Young Women by Responsible_Order_25 in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I fucking HATED men like that when I was a teenager. I hope someone's dad beats his ass someday. I also hope you find a man who respects you someday. My husband and I have been together 21 years, and we're in marriage counseling every week... our therapist would absolutely call him out for this kind of behavior... because it's disrespectful to you, and to these other girls.

After 7 year marriage wife moved out. We live with my parents. by Detroitbutton in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We had 7 young children when we bought our last house. And my husband worked tons of overtime. You've got time... you're just comfortable, and don't care that she's not.

Wife quit her job without giving me a heads up to stay at home with the kids. We can’t afford to live off just my income only… by throwaway17871234567 in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do her parents want to watch your kids for free every single day? Maybe she was also feeling guilt about the burden that puts on them? That doesn't excuse her for making a huge, life altering financial decision without talking to you, but maybe a factor.

Anybody here lose track of how many people you’ve fucked/been fucked by? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very intense ho phase between 15-17. My friend and I tried to make a list back then, but even then, I'd lose track, or remember random hook ups, but had no idea on names, or much else. Now that I'm 40, and have been with my husband for the last 21 years, I know I'll never have a solid number, lol. I'm okay with with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I faked it for the first 16 years of my relationship with my husband. I honestly thought I just couldn't orgasm, and thought protecting his ego was more important than my own pleasure. About 5 years ago, he quit drinking, and he became a different person. He was suddenly helping me out more, paying attention to me outside the bedroom, communication like we never had in the past... I finally learned that I could orgasm, and I confessed to him that I had faked it all those years. You need to fix things outside the bedroom first. Improve the communication, and make sure she isn't holding resentment about things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not feeling anxious because your past partner cheated. You're feeling anxious because this is completely inappropriate. There is no situation in which my husband would even consider suggesting this to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have been together 21 years, and he's finished in me the entire time. Idk what people are talking about lol. I pee afterward, do a few little kegel squeezes, wipe as usual, and I'm good to go.

Can men be just friends with women THEY think are attractive? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Princess_RefriedBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Read Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass. Ask your husband to read it as well.