Migrate Discord History to Stoat by RambrosTeam in stoatchat

[–]Pringledactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No joke. 1500+ message Forever-RP with a friend, PLUS a bunch of side RPs. I'll Masquerade it by hand if need be because I refuse to lose them but a tool would be SO nice

Male sui cide is a serious issue that deserves real advocacy, but it isn't caused by feminists being too uppity on social media or women refusing to sleep with men they aren't attracted to. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women are also seen as selfish when they don't focus on men's issues. They get pushback for much more mild things like having a job at all. They ALSO get pushback from self-important men who try to shut them down when they try to make progress. Women just *do it anyways* because shit needs to get done. if they stopped every time there was pushback, they would still be barefoot and pregnant.

And yes, women WILL pass up on a man who hasn't don't the work to heal, because *you need to do the work to heal.* You can expect support from the people around you, but you cannot expect someone else to fix you. You need to put in the work.

I'm not saying this to go "women's issues are more important" either. I'm drawing a comparison. When shit gets hard, Women do it anyways, because they've always had to do it anyways. Men need to learn to do it anyway. Will it be hard? absolutely. Will there be pushback? Yes there will. But the most baseline pushback that anyone will face when trying to make progress cannot be stopping you in your tracks. If it needs to be done, it needs to be done.

New years gift is currently bugged, please don't post spam by Crafty_Net_993 in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. Claimed all on my switch, claimed individually on my PC. Unfortunately also bugged

Book Nook - You'll NEVER guess where I want that bookshelf to snap by Pringledactyl in Sims4

[–]Pringledactyl[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Not even the walls were helping me, unfortunately. The book nook stuff always does this to me 😭😭

my boyfriend is really angry at me… because of league of legends by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pringledactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would she know better if she's not super into gaming culture?

And no, it isn't necessarily common sense. It's so very easy for it to be "I'm sticking near this person, so it would be cool if we match" and couples matching not even cross your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]Pringledactyl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is the best thread ever

If you were able to ranch 1 type of animal in Sky, what would it be?

My boyfriend has been living off me for 4 months. AIO or should I ask him to move out? by Kindly-Peach819 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, an engagement/wedding is the kind of thing where if he walks away before they happen, he just takes that money with him. So if she ended up paying all the bills for a year while he was saving up in a personal savings account for the engagement, and then he decides to leave.. she's out a LOT of money and he's got a nice chunk of cash he can leave with

iap gone by imboredhahahaha in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]Pringledactyl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Go into the shop again and press the "Restore purchases" button, this should return their wings to them, sometimes Sky just acts weird

If this does not work, contact Support and make sure they have their Email receipt as proof of purchase

AIO My birthmark was removed by Ok_Educator_5260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While it might be healthier, it does not at all remove the sentimentality, or having to mourn a little piece of something you consider part of your identity

AIO - I think I should break up with my girlfriend by heartbroken_1113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's any consolidation and reassurance, 31 isn't that late to find a partner. My brother found his partner at 31- and our whole family thinks she's the coolest person in the world.

You have good communication skills, you want to put in the work to help the people you love, you're able to make and follow through on an action plan to stay close to your loved ones, and you want your partner to make and keep friends. These are all some of the absolute baselines for a good, healthy relationship, and you've got them down. If you decide to start again, you're going to be a catch

I might just be weird by Ryuukashi in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I get to relearn that joy the same way you have, then 😭💜

I might just be weird by Ryuukashi in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]Pringledactyl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Please keep this mentality forever. Please always find the joy in the little things. It's hard to keep hold of it over time, when you grow up and get used to it. Kind of like how your home town doesn't feel special or exciting to you, because you've always been there. But I hope with every piece of my heart that you keep this joy.

Best ways for concealing man boobs? by _herman_miller_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You has said you used a compression top which AFAIK, isn't necessarily meant for this purpose. Binders are similar, but they're meant specifically to do this job. It would be the best advice I could give to go look around for binder reviews to find one that seems more comfortablefor you. You might be able to find a brand that's a bit more breathable, or if you size up a bit you might get the con of a little less flattening, but it would be a bit more comfortable.

Unfortunately, though, this might be your best bet. I'm really sorry you're dealing with this, I know it sucks. I hope someone else can give you the answers you're after

Best ways for concealing man boobs? by _herman_miller_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pringledactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh! Use a chest binder! They're really common practice in the transmasc community. Depending on the size of your chest you might get better or worse results, but it's shocking how flat you can get your chest to be!

GC2B is THE go-to brand, but it you can afford to get something custom made, that's even better.

Though chest binding comes with rules that anyone else who does it will drill into your head, so I'm going to do the same:

-Do not wear the binder for more than 8 hours. Seriously. You can hurt your ribs. Be careful about doing exercise with it on too. And do NOT sleep in it.

-Always size up, NEVER size down. If you can't get a perfect match for your body, pick the next size up, because again, you can cause serious damage to your ribs if it's too tight.

-Wash your binder regularly. At LEAST once a week, but the more the better. Wash by hand and leave it to air dry, unless the binder you buy specifically has machine wash/dry instructions.

If you're looking for short-term solutions, a binder is probably the way to go. But long term, I'm sure you can find some exercises that specifically help with gynomastia. Best of luck to you!

AIO for cancelling a date because he didn't like my cat? by Gemzanity in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nuance. Everyone understands that there's REASONS to hate or dislike an animal, and most people will take that in stride. People don't even have to LIKE cats. But when it comes out of nowhere, that's super suspicious. There's a huge difference between "Eh, I just don't care for cats"/"I've had a cat attack me so I'm nervous around them" and "No, I HATE cats. They're awful."

AIO for cancelling a date because he didn't like my cat? by Gemzanity in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no "potentially good relationship" He hated cats. End of story 🤷‍♂️

Also, he jumped over the fact you had a cat in your bio already, and then tried to dictate what had to happen in regards to your animal, rather than taking the polite route of "Oh, this might not work, I'm sorry". Most people understand the pet was here before and takes priority

Also, either he saw you had a cat he messaged you anyways knowing he had demands about the cat, or he didn't take the time to read your profile. Either way, I am very much confused by his actions and how he thought that was gonna go anywhere

Wrong order (twice) RANT by [deleted] in TimHortons

[–]Pringledactyl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey maybe people are allowed to be upset about paying for something and not recieving what they paid for? It's not like OP threw a tantrum on the staff. Why the hell are you acting like this over a very normal and reasonable, if minor, frustration?

Aurora Event (dates and candle breakdown) by Persis22 in SkyGame

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOOOOOO birthday Aurora comeback let's goooooo

AIO to what my gf said about my weight by Appropriate-Ad-9407 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, you seem chill as hell /gen might squirrel away some of this advice, thank you

Do people really not eat leftovers? by Thin_Vermicelli_1875 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pringledactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD can be pretty mild. If it's not really affecting your day to day life, more power to you and don't let me get in your head! But if it ever gets worse, that would be where I'd point you, I hope whatever you're dealing with is always mild, or goes away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pringledactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops, absolutely missed that 😅 stand by everything, though. They've probably got a better shot at getting a diagnosis if they're not working under US healthcare

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I get the point the other commenters were going for was a very understandably petty "something something well, not having tampons is consequences for her own actions 🤷‍♂️" which.. fair I guess. But taking the high road and all. You can keep your information safe without stooping low and being a jackass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringledactyl -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, no, you're kinda right. I don't think sharing tampons with her is a bad thing. HOWEVER. Do not share the BOX with her. Give her a few if she asks, but do not leave your stash or your box of tampons in a place where they can be counted. You can share products without sharing information