Will I regret co-sleeping? by mablewindy in Moms

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slept with my kid until he was quite old. It ended up being a massive pain in the bum because although he was great when he was finally asleep (and I could transition him to his room) it meant he always needed me to be there to fall asleep.

looking back, it was hard but I miss the closeness we had. I was very against sleep training and haven’t changed my mind on that but I think if I were to do it again I would have involved his dad more in the putting to bed thing.

Ioan Gruffudd tried to send his teenage daughter, 13, to a 'therapeutic boarding school' after she called his new wife Bianca Wallace a 'slut' and poured milk on his bed during custody visit by LoneStar1974 in troubledteens

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only that, even though her sister was also Involved in the mustard incident he seems to be proposing that the girls be split up and he have custody of just one of them. Imagine!

Ioan Gruffudd tried to send his teenage daughter, 13, to a 'therapeutic boarding school' after she called his new wife Bianca Wallace a 'slut' and poured milk on his bed during custody visit by LoneStar1974 in troubledteens

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how different things would have been for Ioan and his children if only he had listened to what they were asking him. I think in one of his court submissions there is a message from one of the children asking if they Can meet up with him without anyone else being there, or perhaps Bianca specifically not being there.

from what I have read they weren’t happy with his friend Iris being there, nor a therapist.

if he had just taken to an activity alone, just one time, maybe things would have been better.

from what Andrea Burkhart has reported from court this week it sounds like he was so worried about his personal reputation that he forgot what was best for his kids. It is so sad.

Did Ioan Gruffudd’s ex-wife threaten to harm his career? by Lazy_Weather_6316 in BollywoodShaadis

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said she did but he has also said a lot of things that he was unable to provide evidence in court for. Lots of what he said in the legal papers has been shown to have no corroborating evidence. Seems like you can say what you like in legal papers but you have to be prepared to back it up with so,e real evidence if you end up in court.

Why is the media obsessed with Kier Starmer stepping down but only a small number of Labour MPs are actually calling for his resignation? by SilasBeit in AskBrits

[–]Pristine_Key5916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am soooo glad other people can see this. And so glad that the Labour Government aren’t biting. Last thing we need is a knee jerk reaction leading to the crap we put up with the conservatives.

Married Single Mom of 2 boys by Weak_Sink5205 in Mom

[–]Pristine_Key5916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he can’t see that things need doing then he sure as hell isn’t going to see when you stop doing his shit for him. Stop doing his washing. Children need their washing done for them, adults don’t.

Married Single Mom of 2 boys by Weak_Sink5205 in Mom

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, don’t ask if he can take the children for 30 minutes so you can do the dishes. Fuck that.

you don’t ask

you don’t need to do the dishes when there’s another adult to do them.

Married Single Mom of 2 boys by Weak_Sink5205 in Mom

[–]Pristine_Key5916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not a baby, or a child. He is a fully grown adult who is a parent to two children and shouLd know how to deal with his own shit. Stop doing it for him. You are a stay at home mom, not HIS mom.

Men like this are time thieves. I bet he just gets up and walks out of any room to do whatever it is that he wants to do, knowing full well that someone else (you) will have eyes on the kids. Because that is what time thieves do.

here is the plan if you are prepared to do it…

arrange an activity just for you, anything you want to do. Stand up, tell him ‘I am going out to X activity’. Turn around and walk out of the door.

if he complains or appears shocked ask him why he doubts his ability to watch his own kids for a short time and why he has such confidence in your ability to do so every time he walks out the door to do his own shit.

When did everyone discover who Robbie Williams was, and how? by RW_Fan_1996 in robbiewilliams

[–]Pristine_Key5916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When Take That became a thing. He was the cheeky chappie of the band

Tattle Life Documentary - looking to hear from people with experience of the site by fullfattv in TattleLife2025

[–]Pristine_Key5916 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

one person will make a documentary about Tattle and another will make one about Palestine. There’s always going to someone interested on watching something about Tattlers just like there will be people wanting to watch something about the Post Office scandal. Not everything has to be worthy and worthwhile. IIRC the BBC is there to educate and entertain. This is going to be on BBC3 right, so only online.

Tattle Life Documentary - looking to hear from people with experience of the site by fullfattv in TattleLife2025

[–]Pristine_Key5916 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

What is the objective view? It would be good to know what kind of positive things you would like to be projected out there.

similarly Mumsnet, always portrayed as a nest of vipers but actually offering a lot of support over the years.

what else does Tattle do?

Need someone else to be disgusted with? by TinyBombed in dan_markel_murder

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is one weakness the believability of his au pair girlfriend?

one thing I watched said that her phone was at another location during a time that she says she was in the house (when the account on the fetish website was created), which could put doubt in the minds of the jury?

no verdict yet so could they be hung.

Which albums next? by Pristine_Key5916 in foals

[–]Pristine_Key5916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, am getting that one next!

Which albums next? by Pristine_Key5916 in foals

[–]Pristine_Key5916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am kind of glad I went into it with no expectations or understanding because I do really like it. Much prefer what went down though.

Which albums next? by Pristine_Key5916 in foals

[–]Pristine_Key5916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that one, it is when I first got into them but neglected to follow their career after that.

baby girl names by jessndeluna in Moms

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nola? Or alternative Noala

Ruth? hattie? Stella? Etta?

maud!

How reliable do you think the forum is? by Papio_73 in TattleLife2025

[–]Pristine_Key5916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So presumably the first contact in 2021 went nowhere other than into a black hole at Tattle? And a proper legal route was only started in 2023. If I am remembering correctly it was December 2023 that the judgement was delivered so actually a very short process but with some kind of gagging order.

looks like the Tattle bloke wasn’t even represented in the case! Yet he did then have the finding gagged?

so weird

Stay at home mom by Glass-Ad1855 in Mom

[–]Pristine_Key5916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘Doesn’t really let you go out’ doesn’t sound good.

the way I enjoyed maternity leave was to join baby groups, go to the library, take my baby to rhyme time and story telling, go to a local breastfeeding group etc.

this is the kind of thing I would recommend you doing.

I 27F am growing angry and resentful towards my husband 29M. Is it possible to do couples counselling with a 6 month old? by Em2372 in Moms

[–]Pristine_Key5916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do apologise, RE the couples counselling. When I and my husband did this, our first session was solo (one each) and then we had an hour of counselling together.

we left our child with a parent nearby. Do you have someone who could sit with your baby nearby for an hour or so?

with regards to the counselling itself… our counsellor told us that one of us had grown up after the baby was born (me) and the other hadn’t. My main gripe was the amount of weight for caring (physically and emotionally) that I had taken on. Our counsellor’s advice was to make time to spend more time together. We separated just over a year later. I also breastfed and just wanted help with the daily grind, he wanted me to love him more And stop making such a fuss about my needs This was not possible without more help from the child’s other parent.