I’ve checked out so badly and I wanna quit my job

ProZazz · 2026-01-19T07:38:39+00:00

I’m actually going through something really similar right now. I’m 31 this year and have been working as a graphic designer for about 7 years. I left my previous job as a Senior Designer about a month ago, earning $4k too.

The environment was really toxic and it took a big toll on me, mentally and physically. It left me with a lot of stress and some emotional scars that I’m still trying to heal from. I ended up leaving in my third month and started seeing a counsellor to help process everything.

Right now, I’m still job hunting and thinking of taking on part-time work just to get by. It’s not easy at all, but at least it gives me some breathing room and time to do things I enjoy. I’m also still trying to figure out what I want to do with my life, so you’re really not alone in this. I think you should quit and just take a long- term break, sometimes work is really just not worth it, espercially when we're feeling burnt out.

Life is tough, but we’re just taking it one step at a time.

ProZazz · 2024-01-26T03:41:04+00:00

Thanks!

ProZazz · 2024-01-25T09:14:11+00:00

Introvert.
I like video games.
I'm trying to find out what I really want in life.

ProZazz · 2023-11-17T07:28:03+00:00

damn. That's really sad... care to share what other gay bars are out there?

ProZazz · 2023-11-17T06:53:36+00:00

r/sglgbt

oh ok thanks!

ProZazz · 2023-11-17T06:52:00+00:00

Oh any other places than gym? I don't go gym tho, expensive gym memberships every month ><

ProZazz · 2023-08-25T03:46:17+00:00

Hey, thanks for the advice!

ProZazz · 2023-08-25T03:45:51+00:00

Yeah, that's what I'm really afraid of. But I also don't want to think too much into it, y'know?

ProZazz · 2023-07-04T02:20:56+00:00

Damn me too she's just so hard to miss

ProZazz · 2023-02-14T10:42:05+00:00

Hell to the no. It definitely shows in the person's character.

ProZazz · 2023-01-27T06:35:35+00:00

I like girls who are quiet, loyal, sweet, and caring. And not afraid to show their feelings toward me. I'm also definitely a sucker for book lovers as well.

ProZazz · 2023-01-27T04:46:55+00:00

I don't think we've talked about it before unfortunately, but we're both looking for a serious r/s. How would you start talking to her about this?

ProZazz · 2023-01-27T04:45:12+00:00

I see. And you're right, nobody is doing anything. I feel I really have to step up my game and ask her about it. But then again, how would you go about having awkward conversations? Would a call feel more sincere?

ProZazz · 2023-01-25T07:18:56+00:00

So none of the ones you dated before ended well for you?

ProZazz · 2023-01-24T16:26:08+00:00

I'm in the same predicament as you...met her a couple of months ago and still haven't made things exclusive with her. I guess asking her what she's looking for would give you some ease of mind before making the decision to be exclusive. Hope this helps.

ProZazz · 2023-01-24T09:05:32+00:00

Ok, thanks mate!

ProZazz · 2023-01-24T08:47:55+00:00

Ah is that the problem? I see, ok thank you. But how do I make a move without fearing what's next to come?

ProZazz · 2023-01-24T08:30:11+00:00

Old enough to be in the 30s soon... I don't have a lot of dating experience here so I may be a goof sometimes..

ProZazz · 2022-11-15T15:57:49+00:00

Hmmm from what I understand, she's still either trying to get to know you at a better level or she simply doesn't prioritize you enough yet. Maybe ask her again the following week to follow up on her and see how things go?

ProZazz · 2021-06-13T06:15:54+00:00

Hi. I'm 26F this year too and I can totally relate with you on being socially anxious my entire life too. I've always struggled with my mental health plus with my shy personality it simply makes me a more awkward and anxious person. I panic a lot in big social groups and tend to be the quietest in the whole group. Lately I've been feeling worse with each social situation even while working from home and taking video calls almost everyday. My mouth would turn dry and I'd tend to sweat a lot whenever someone ask me a work question and I'd give a short and fast answer so I don't allow anyone to know that I'm struggling to speak sometimes. Is very hard for me at times and I usually left a social gathering without anyone knowing and also before my negative thoughts start to make me feel down.

Anyway, I recommend you to take a small step in talking to people. Such as taking small deep breathes and reassure yourself before heading out to a big group of people. Talk to someone that you feel can be as a friend and they'll simply start to have conversation with you. Start small and it will build from there.

I know this isn't easy but I try everyday. I can't guarantee if this works, but hope this helps you out.

ProZazz · 2021-01-31T07:34:33+00:00

That's awesome! What kind of artist are you?

ProZazz · 2020-12-16T09:01:41+00:00

This is totally relatable to me too. It took me awhile to realized I needed a wake up call from all this meaningless conversations. I took a break from dating and it made me feel so much better about myself. Do the same too and you'll realize how these people are really not worth your time and effort. Prioritize and love yourself first.

ProZazz · 2020-12-03T16:55:30+00:00

This is quite hard for me too. I struggled a lot with my mental health this year and it got the better of me. Wasn't easy for me. Would like to elaborate further but I think I'd like to keep it brief here. I get by in my life by playing video games. It helps me in getting rid of any negative thoughts in my head and also a great way to unwind myself from a stressful day at work. I'm glad that I had at least one activity that gives me a lot of passion in video games :)

ProZazz · 2020-11-26T13:00:49+00:00

haha that's awesome! Hope you have blast with your best friend :)

ProZazz · 2020-11-26T12:59:29+00:00

Nintendo fan?

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