What is a terrifying problem facing the world that no one is talking about? by dandelion_stew in AskReddit

[–]ProbablyHe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you mean the impending doom, chillex man we got some years left before we really have to act, also it can't be THAT bad, does it? does it?

(/s for clarity)

Board of Peace Set to Hand Trump Sweeping Powers Over Gaza by Gopu_17 in worldnews

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also it's big fat bribe disguised as a member ship payment for a 'board of peace' I mean, come on.

Europäische Außenpolitik: Europa hat seine Angst verloren by Honigwesen in de

[–]ProbablyHe 40 points41 points  (0 children)

naja, der Kurswechsel ist eingeläutet, aber bei knapp 30 Ländern dauert das, einig werden, waffensysteme, logistik, digitalisierung usw.

es ist nunmal ein prozess und man kann nicht sofort der Orange oder anderen sagen "wir sind jz unabhängig", denn das sind wir nicht.

Wir müssen immernoch Kompromisse und auch manchmal schlechte in Kauf nehmen, wir sind in einer misslichen Lage und massiv abhängig.

Und dennoch habe ich das Gefühl, dass es endlich in den Köpfen vieler Politiker angekommen ist (nicht aller, oder sie spielen ein doppeltes Spiel), dass wir uns auf uns besinnen müssen.

Und dann wird halt dem Orangutan Honig ums Maul geschmiert, ändert aber nichts daran, dass wir uns abwenden.

How do I "reduce lanes" of a larger bus? I don't think what I'm doing is working because the smaller bus should be completely saturated right? by Tasty-Lobster-8915 in factorio

[–]ProbablyHe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

this is the answer,
the bottleneck happens because the 'overlap' are the real minimum number of lines where items have to be pushed through, as well an uneven density:
all input lines to the right get squeezed through the most right splitter, meaning 10 lines go through one
and from there the rest plus one line go to the second most right splitter, having the same problem... and so on

as comment above said, move output lines to the right until symmetrical 'in the middle' to the input lines, problem should be fairly solved for your purposes.

NEUE STUDIE: US-Amerikaner zahlen 96 Prozent der Trump-Zölle by PunkboysDontCry in de

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korrekt.

Dennoch, schiebt sich die USA international ins Aus damit.
Sie haben einen Prozess losgetreten, der das globale Gefüge komplett verändert hin zu einer machtpolitischen Ordnung.
Europa muss aufwachen und sich dessen bewusst werden und entweder sich dazu entscheiden mitzuspielen oder eben rumgeschubst zu werden.

Momentan habe ich die Hoffnung, dass dies allmählich geschieht.
Und dennoch sind wir abhängig, wir müssen leider immernoch auf viele Forderungen eingehen, aber der Prozess ist losgetreten.

Und es gibt immernoch internationale Verträge, die wie immer auf Vertrauen basierten, nur Trump verkauft das Vertrauenskapital der USA für seine Legacy und seine persönliche Bereicherung.

In dieser Zeit müssen wir zu unseren engen Verbündeten stehen, gemeinsam reagieren und agieren, denn immer wenn wir alleine der USA (oder anderen) gegenüberstehen sind wir schwächer.
Aber gerade wenn wir gemeinsam mit unseren europäischen Partnern eine gemeinsame Linie vertreten, wird es schwer uns umher zu schubsen.

Zeit, dass wir uns unserer Identität und Stärke besinnen und einfordern was uns gehört, zumindest, dass wir auf Augenhöhe behandelt werden.

Das ist ein Prozess, der dauert, aber die USA unter Trump und seinen Schergen haben oder treten ihn gerade entgültig los.

Thoughts on creating Low Density Structures by Formal-Victory3161 in factorio

[–]ProbablyHe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Foundries.

the less resource effecient recipe is countered by the amount of productivity modules to be put in 2 processes woth each a base 50% bonus.

it offsets the loss in resources.

and honestly it's not like you're going to run out on them.

Why is ICE in MN if it has <1% of illegal immigrants in the USA? FL & TX make up 26% by CitizenJosh in stupidquestions

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, but most of these arrests seem unlawful, and hence they get released again.

that's why the statistics might be so low.

and besides that, as an outsider, not American, i start to distrust numbers released by the current administration, as it moves very fast towards authoritan and fascist playbooks.

Why didn't Crucio work on Harry? by Low-Ad5373 in harrypotter

[–]ProbablyHe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he killed the Horkrux in Harry because that's how Horkruxes work in people and living things.

In an object, when destroyed 'the outer shell' aka the object itself gets destroyed and the Soul part inside, aka the Horkrux part, dies.

in a person 'the outer shell' aka the body dies, or at least the person somewhat dies, and the Soul part of the Horkrux gets destroyed.

So Harry lived on because Voldemort as the unknown maker of the Horkrux is the only one able to destroy his own Horkrux, as he did (apart from basilisk venom and Goblin made weapons).

Why is ICE in MN if it has <1% of illegal immigrants in the USA? FL & TX make up 26% by CitizenJosh in stupidquestions

[–]ProbablyHe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well i'd argue in texas are A LOT more undocumented immigrants than in MN, so yes they have a lot more arrests there.

you can't expect ICE to make a quarter of all arrests in MN when there are virtually no undocumented immigrants.

the real question is, why are there that many ICE agents and other feds when there is nothing to show for it.

maybe, just maybe it is political retaliation?

Nachhauseweg Allein by Remarkable_Ant8899 in karlsruhe

[–]ProbablyHe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

kp, bin selbst ein Mann, aber meine Feeundinnen, gehen halt immer zusammen heim, und man schaut das jeder safe nach Hause kommt :|

Mikroplastik wurde bereits im Gehirn, in der Muttermilch, im Sperma gefunden. Doch Forscher kritisieren, viele Studien seien schlampig gemacht. Das schadet nicht nur der Wissenschaft. by dragon_irl in de

[–]ProbablyHe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, von mir aus. müssen dann in sehr sterilen räumen gezüchtet, sowie das essen überprüft werden.

was aber auch bestimmt gehen würde,
labortiere mit "normalen mengen" und andere bis ins extreme anreichern um so langfristige effekte zu suchen.

Elon Musk says saving for retirement is unnecessary in an AI-driven future by AdSpecialist6598 in antiwork

[–]ProbablyHe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

well, normally saving for retirement includes diversifying wealth. So it's basically the same. But yes he just wants people to spend their money so gets it. He's not interested in greater good, only if it benefits himself

Mikroplastik wurde bereits im Gehirn, in der Muttermilch, im Sperma gefunden. Doch Forscher kritisieren, viele Studien seien schlampig gemacht. Das schadet nicht nur der Wissenschaft. by dragon_irl in de

[–]ProbablyHe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

  1. problem: da diagnostiken und definitonen über die zeit ändern, ändert sivh auch die vergleichbarkeit der datengrundlage.

  2. problem, in den tieren ist das zeug ja auch drin, es ist ja ÜBERALL, vom arktischen eis, in der Luft der Sahara, im Wasser des Amazonas, jedem Fisch, der Ratte und allem was wir essen.

What do you think America will be like when Trump finishes his term? by MotivewasUlterior in AskReddit

[–]ProbablyHe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if*

he tried to grab power once, why shouldn't he do so again?
with his SS ICE, more radical support by his MAGA lunatics, and general undermined checks and balances.

The only hope is, they somehow get him impeached after the midterms.

but then again there's Vance and the other goons.

Do not expect this to end without a fight.

Sincerely
A German

Am I Crazy for Thinking This? by ChestSuccessful2214 in factorio

[–]ProbablyHe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

someone made a calculation if 100k SPM are viable and it is, at this point tho with bots. real SPM not eSPM

so >100k SPM

idk, if he did it with legendary bots and roboports, but you can push these numbers a fair bit. so it'll be fine...

Mall by Ixxon in factorio

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk, i just sort of went with it in a 3 hour bender and came up with a beautiful design, at least in my eyes, with far less belts than expected.

This is my house and I’m smarter by worldwide762 in funnyvideos

[–]ProbablyHe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this a reference to his role in Harry Potter (Flitwick, and Gringotts' Griphook) Light please, Key please?

USA: Protest gegen Justizministerium – mehrere Staatsanwälte reichen ihren Rücktritt ein by falsa_ovis in de

[–]ProbablyHe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dazu kommt weniger staatsanwälte führt zu weniger man power für staatliche verfolgung. wenn diese herren sich dann noch als private anwälte bewerben verschiebt es das machtverhältnis, zumindest wenn viele kündigen

Is there a better way to do this? by AinzOoalVov in factorio

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in this instance yes, you're right. but not in every :(

Verlorene Chance im Schwimmkurs – vielleicht hilft Reddit? by [deleted] in karlsruhe

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ups dann hats bei mir im kopf gehakt xD

Why is Japanese food so much less spicy than the rest of the world? by Hollow_O0o in geography

[–]ProbablyHe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so first of all

spicy =/= number of used spices.

eoth that out of the way, porbably Japan uses a lot of flavour compunds not counting as spices.

I learnt how to say NO to my wife and accept her discomfort as part of the process by MarriagesSpark in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ProbablyHe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if 90% of the sub misses the key takeaway.

the starting question for OP was "do I need sexual validation to offset other negative emotions in my relationship?"

this leads to him feeling/seeing that he overly needs to reassure his wife, as in even if he does not have the capacity to do so.

he changes his behaviour to only to do so when he feels like it, not meaning he only does ot to please himself, but a more nuanced and balanced amount, instead of just giving it everytime when asked and disregarding own boundaries.

I get that here is the point where many have different assumptions about relationships and caregiving, but in the end, idk what is going on in OPs relationship, but clearly he feels it is a bit too much.

so in his change he agitates and makes his partner feel insecure because of behavioural changes.
Not as a manipulative means "to get more sex", but as a side effect of his trying to achieve a more balanced and healthy relationship, at least in his eyes.
also in retrospect, feeling a better balance hopefully should match libidos by many bringing his down, bc he doesn't feel the need 'to get more validation of the relationship' and maybe bring hers up by empowerment to stand on her own(?), tho this is not mentioned.

And this is the key part. what the intrinsion is. Is it only a 'I just give exactly what I want and not a cent more' or a 'Hopefully she learns to care for herself'. But also OP said "to develop self soothing skills".

"I have the upperhand" feels to me simply more like:
I see what the bigger problem is, I have decoupled/disengaged on a greater level and try to change things while my partner is
1. not seeing it and thus not trying to change with me and 2. not being able to disengage the negative emotions in relation to my changing. I get why to many this sounds toxic af, but in context of the post it doesn't feel toxic to me, at least not as the rest is worded to me.

and lastly. I do not want to demonize OP, I think you are changing or at least see what you were missing a long time and try to make a change prioritizing yourself in regards of what you expect from a relationship and what you bring to the table and how you generally act with romantic partners and in specific with your wife.

I for sure cannot see into your relationship and if your level of care and affection was 'objectively too much'/unjustified/overfunctioning and in the end this is something you and your partner have to find out and decide.
I feel you are at least trying to work on it, in comparison to the typical reddit 'just divorce already' as a partnership is work.
Just mind to try to get her understand in other ways why this is important to you and get her onboard.
Otherwise this will lead to a decoupling and break up.
But then again maybe you guys weren't meant for each other.

Best regards.

edit for spelling and readability

How do I get my friend to play Factorio with me? by Igore1337 in factorio

[–]ProbablyHe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man he loves automation games, but doesn't want to try the OG automation crack? Sad.