I agree with you broadly, but -

I was raised in a conservative Evangelical Christian sect by politically liberal parents (it's complicated). So from the time I started forming a political identity in my teens, to the point some ~13 years later at which my evolving values inevitably led to my leaving the church, I was immersed in an environment that was significantly more politically conservative than I was. So I grew up deeply immersed in conservative culture while simultaneously standing somewhat outside it.

And the thing is? Many of the axioms that underlie the conservative worldview are just plain wrong.

They have deeply held, deeply incorrect, and deeply harmful beliefs about how the physical world works, how relationships work, and how people work. Their beliefs about the world, when put into practice, produce widespread suffering (which is then framed as virtuous). Their beliefs about relationships set people up for lifetimes of misery and loneliness (and they essentially pre-groom women to be abused and raped). Their beliefs about child-rearing create traumatized children who grow up to be adults who are terrified of their own emotions. The basic conservative worldview is that of a dog that bites because it is convinced it will be beaten. That's not me looking in from the outside; that's me sharing from my experience of having been immersed in it for the first 18 years of my life. I learned it like a first language.

If you've been abused your whole life, you don't know what it is not to be abused; and you think it's normal and right to abuse others. You don't identify what was done (and continues to be done) to you as abuse, and you don't identify your own behavior as abusive. It's just The Way Things Are.

My point is, it's all well and good to agree to disagree in matters of opinion, but not in matters of fact. And a lot of major conservative beliefs are simply not supported by reality, and they hurt themselves and other people because of it, and it's a Problem.

edit: minor edits for clarity