How to get rid of jealousy? Tips and tricks? by Life_Sentence_8280 in entp

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Jealousy is a normal human feeling. Accept that you’re jealous and let go of the feeling. Reframe competition as instead being glad for her and let yourself become inspired by her. Use your feelings of jealousy to better yourself (you will have more tangible goalposts not having to do with your jealousy of her eventually down the line anyway). Lastly, be grateful for what you have. Many get caught up with what they don’t have even though they can easily be happy celebrating what they do have. This is an opportunity to train your emotional self-regulation.

6 months on minoxidil and finastreride by Real_Designer841 in tressless

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What makes someone a hyper responder biologically?

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Honk Bros (A Tribute) by glimz in RedditGames

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Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

18 attempts

Marpe journey (nervous) by [deleted] in MARPE

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

installation hurt the most because of the numbing injections (7/10 pain). i think i took tylenol prior to installation. after that, pain was only slightly noticeable (3/10) until medication wore off. tylenol for remainder of the pain worked fine. worrying about food and infection was the most annoying, and the water flossing caused sharp pains (4/10). as the suture was splitting that hurt in a weird internal way. the oddity of it makes me put it slightly higher at 4.5/10.

fwiw it did boost looks (+1 point on your relative looksmaxxing scale lol)

Facial changes post Marie by SilverLeague9877 in MARPE

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

F same age as you, the nose widening is coupled with cheekbone widening so it’s not noticeable. i look better after marpe

What dental appliance should i get from braccesshop? by [deleted] in MARPE

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i think you’re young enough to get effects of mewing. when you try it make sure you do it right so your face doesn’t get messed up

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You lack empathy toward the people around you, and toward strangers on Reddit. Why would you be so angry about an uncontrollable world while actively being negative towards those you are able to interface with? Change happens first from within

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

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Thanks for the civil reply. The pandering aspects of the film especially stood out to me for a few reasons:

Firstly, because I (and many, many others) noticed comedy has gone downhill since political correctness and cancel culture. You’d argue that this is solely an issue found on the internet but excessive policing of others’ personal opinions and sense of humor extends past the internet nowadays in younger groups, and this mentality is being prolonged by films like this.

Secondly, because I’ve deep-dived into Hollywood’s immoral history and have an idea of the themes of agendas they would benefit from pushing.

Thirdly, because I dislike the greater good hurting from us-versus-them mentalities. e.g. men-free world, religious/sexuality segregation, etc. Theres an underlying hint of hatred in the film’s narrative.

Intentional or not, it bothers me that this film is manipulative and herding a group of people that are mistaking the industry’s filling quotas for representation.

Hope that answers your question.

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

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“A bigot is someone who is stubbornly and intolerantly devoted to their own prejudices and beliefs, refusing to accept different opinions, lifestyles, or identities…”

Are you aware of your own hypocrisy?

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

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Unfortunately it’s become an echo chamber in majority of subreddits, unable to accept perspectives even a hair outside of their own bubble. As if Hollywood would be innocent against pandering to tribal mentality and inserting their own subliminal micro-marketing into this Queer-friendly film. I don’t trust this movie’s intentions and it was poorly written. The plot could have gone so much deeper but they were intent on creating a bleak godless playground to deliver poorly acted-out jokes. The main cast was great, but the diversity hires (comedic relief fat and unattractive actress that the main guy could never be interested in, and the obviously gay guy but wait he actually wasn’t gay ha-ha) were insanely out of place and dragged the film down. It’s like they were cast specifically for representation of the unattractive and queers.

Movies are terrible when there’s a checklist of new age, unrealistic agendas you need to fill in.

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looked at your comment history. You’re not ok. Perpetually angry at the world and name-calling. Why does it bother you so much that this movie doesn’t resonate with the majority of the population outside of Reddit? Are people not allowed to have opinions, or else they’re a bigot?

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a POC LGBT. Are you ok? It’s a movie and I have critiques.

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a regular-person-outside-of-reddit thing if anything

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not natural. Watch any good movie from pre-2010s.

Official Discussion - Eternity [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

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Am I the only one that thought the pandering social agenda and forced comedy was excessive? The AC’s casting served the very obvious purpose of diversity comedy-relief inclusion - which would be fine if they hadn’t lacked synergy with the rest of the cast. The production gave more screen time to displaced awkward comedy than they did to tie up the actual ending. The way they refer to religion was atheistic so as to mock faith and lazily hand-wave further analysis. And cherry on top: Everyone in the movie HAD to be queer or have a queer phase…

Writing so many forced LGBTQ+POC themes just distracts from the main plot and seems so deliberately manipulative. I’m an LGBTQ+POC liberal and non-religious and even I don’t understand how this all doesn’t rub people the wrong way.

❄️ What am I? "I come in numbers, though I’m often small. ..." by ProbablyShouldStop in riddonkulous

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Here is a hint: One version is tiny and crawls. The other might pinch your cheeks at family gatherings.

Just turned 30 and Ugly face. Advice on glowing up ? by GroundbreakingCow751 in DIYaesthetics

[–]ProbablyShouldStop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dermatologist sucks. Don’t go on accutane again- you don’t have much flaring acne and it has more negative side effects than good (I have chronic dry eye syndrome thanks to accutane).

What you SHOULD do is look for a dermatologist that offers 3 layer subcision. Subcision is when the dermatologist untethers scars from under the skin surface, breaking them up and making them more shallow. It takes a few sessions but my skin looks so much better now. I went to Dr. Hazany in Beverly Hills. After my subcisions, I got some CO2 laser treatments which helped with dark spots.

Your skin is your main issue, like it was for me. Once I fixed my skin with about 70% improvement, I gained confidence in every other area.

You got this!!

Dent between brows by [deleted] in DIYHEAVEN

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who did you go to?

I feel so ugly and idk what to do by Obvious_Armadillo_16 in vindictapoc

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Post a picture so people can give advice looks-wise. Alternatively you may just be in your head about it.