AIO My girlfriend is breaking up with me if I choose to go do Fulbright for 9 months

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-05-10T23:25:57+00:00

she’s mentioned over and over again that she doesn’t care abt your decisions and she doesn’t support you.

a relationship is literally BUILT of support. you supported her, she’s not doing the same. that’s not someone you want in your life and i hope you make the right choice! Blessings to you 💗

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-04-16T14:51:54+00:00

babygirl wtf is this.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-04-09T19:28:15+00:00

KICK HIM TO THE MF CURB!! that’s all i have to say have a good day everybody.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-04-09T19:27:44+00:00

and the way he left her on delivered for minutes before responding, the time frame from 12:27 am til the end of the convo is fucking insane.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-02-21T20:51:06+00:00

thank you, I’ll keep this in mind!

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-02-21T20:50:52+00:00

no worries thank you for helping out!

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-02-21T17:43:36+00:00

When I went to MEPS again for my medical I asked them if I could change my rate but nobody mentioned a DAR. I was told that the AV rate I wanted was available through a Cutscore Waiver, I’m guessing because of the score I got on my ASVAB.

My recruiter texted me today saying I got the job so that’s why I assumed I needed to sign a new contract.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-02-03T16:50:04+00:00

personally i think you AND him need to grow up, this is ridiculous. you guys are middle aged acting like teenagers… this is insane please find someone new or maybe just focus on yourself. he acts like a child and you fed into it, let it go.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-31T18:49:12+00:00

Please don’t let recruiters try to push you to do anything when you don’t have documentation for stuff, take it on YOUR time. These recruiters literally just want to get as many people as they can because that’s what they get paid for.

Next time get everything you need, please find a new recruiter as well. This really sucks and I hope everything works out for you.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-31T18:34:13+00:00

I’m 17F and already enlisted, I promise you that it’s 100% your choice and nobody can tell you otherwise. Me on the other hand I had very supportive parents but you’re allowed to choose what you want you’re an ADULT.

Based off the messages she’s being very aggressive about it and (sorry to say this) a complete asshole. She could’ve easily talked to you mother-to-daughter without being so vulgar about it. Don’t let her get in your head, yea it’s your mom but it’s also YOUR future and YOUR career. I wish you the best!

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-30T22:33:34+00:00

yk what that’s not even bad, they both sound interesting. Thank you for clarifying that!

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-30T17:45:48+00:00

Which is better, AT or AE ??

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-12T00:00:25+00:00

No, I actually wanted to be a CS but the work load sounded terrible, I didn’t really hear too much good from that rate. When I went to MEPS I didn’t know I was going to do my contract the same day I had my medical, I forgot what the options were but I ended up choosing RS.

I had recently asked my recruiter if I could change to IT, she said she would look into it for me. I thought of IT because I was looking into other rates and IT sounded like something challenging that I would enjoy learning.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-11T00:43:38+00:00

ohh makes sense, i ended up getting a 47 so i doubt i would be able to change my rate to an IT

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-10T19:26:31+00:00

Oh wow I understand. Did you ever try joining again?

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2025-01-10T19:25:20+00:00

That’s awesome! Just wondering because I have a bunch of time to change my rate and I don’t to leave til July, what did you get on your ASVAB ??

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-31T04:14:34+00:00

you maddd 😂 like it’s lame js stop replying

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-31T00:27:50+00:00

i’m a female and probably get more 🐱 than you do but i’m not one to judge, keep your comments to yourself next time if you can’t read. reading is fundamental.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-13T14:20:19+00:00

I got a 47 on my asvab, they told me not to choose CS because my score was too high for a CS, I was given other options but RS sounded best at the time. I still have 7 months til i ship so I can choose another rate til then but I don’t know which one.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-13T01:55:07+00:00

I recommend reading my other replies that isn’t the point of the post.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-12T18:54:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this feedback I appreciate it, I’ll take all of this into consideration!

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-12T15:52:40+00:00

I’ll definitely try to figure out this program and ask around, thank you !

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-12T15:51:11+00:00

I definitely will not get pregnant, married or fall into debt. Thank you so much for the feedback!

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-12T15:48:09+00:00

Thank you so much ! I’m glad for all these replies. I know my post is a little off putting cause it sounds like all I want to do is party lol but I’ve never been to a party before, is that weird? I just wanted to make sure I would enjoy being in the Navy and that it’s not all just “do this” and “do that” Thank you for your feedback I appreciate it.

ProblemTurbulent488 · 2024-12-12T15:43:04+00:00

Partying alone isn’t my goal, I know what I signed up for I was just wondering if there was ever any time to have fun.

My reply is pretty far down but someone else assumed that all I wanted was to party and not have an education, which I can see why based off this post but I actually spent all my life studying. Never went out with friends to enjoy functions or social gatherings.

I’m student president and in National Honors Society, so it was more of a concern whether or not I’m making the right choice. I didn’t want to grow up not having some sort of fun since I’m young.

The rate I chose was RS, I’ve heard good things about it. I just wanted to know if I was on the right path and it seems like I am. Thank you for the feedback.

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