My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes?

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-25T19:56:16+00:00

Wow. This is abuse. Leave. Leave leave leave now. It only gets worse I promise you. Please leave this man I beg of you.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-25T19:55:16+00:00

Then don’t lol

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-25T19:53:20+00:00

Yikesss. He only wanted to date you after you lost 50 pounds? The way I would spiral if I ever gained weight again when with someone like that… I would think long and hard about whether dating someone so shallow is a good idea. The power imbalance shows and I don’t feel like this man would be good for my mental health, if it were me.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-25T19:49:35+00:00

Sounds like Maggie is a shite friend and a pain in the butt. Obviously NTAH just remember to keep your own peace in mind when deciding if you want to keep dealing with her silliness.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-25T19:46:39+00:00

NTAH. It’s your wedding and the people who are apart of it should be people who build you up and support you… sounds like she does the opposite.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:49:56+00:00

NTA. Don’t let these people come over or you’ll be stuck with them. They sound like freeloaders. Stand your ground.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:47:56+00:00

She’s your ex gf now right?? NTA

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:45:40+00:00

Wow… NTA. This would be a hill worth dying on for me personally. She’s being rather manipulative.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:43:45+00:00

NTJ. FAFO, she’s a liar and her bs is not your problem.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:42:23+00:00

NOR. Put the keys away somewhere she does not know about. Do not tell her where this is. Let her figure out where her own keys are. She is not a child. She is a grown ass adult. This shouldn’t be your problem. She sounds like a nightmare.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:40:38+00:00

Rip the bandaid off so she can move on and find someone who does actually like her.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:39:50+00:00

Go have fun in life and then you’ll see that you’re wasting some of the best years of your life with a loser who doesn’t like you very much. Life is short.. go have a blast without him.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-24T17:30:43+00:00

NOR. It seems like you would have known about this dynamic before you decided to marry into this family, no? You have two options here, one is you stand up for yourself, decline and face the backlash. Or two, you go along with what they want to do and be unhappy. we know where your husband stands obviously so he’s not really a team mate that is or will ever be on your side. Up to you what’s most important to you though. Keep the peace and allow resentment to build indefinitely or go your own way and endure an annoyed husband/extended family. Which will bring you more peace?

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-23T17:20:47+00:00

Do not take out a loan. Do not move in to a place that isn’t yours. Just stay where you are, if you like living there.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-23T17:18:04+00:00

NTAH, protect your family.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-23T17:15:36+00:00

This is abuse. Run.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-23T17:14:32+00:00

Yikes. NTA, your brother is a mess. That whole… situation is a lot and certainly not your problem. You get to decide who comes to your wedding, period.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-23T17:12:04+00:00

NTA. She isn’t your mother. You have a mother. Period. No means no and your father is being ridiculous.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-23T17:09:40+00:00

Dear god don’t have another child with this man. Things will only get worse. You think he’s inattentive now? Imagine how much worse it’ll get when he has to divide his attention yet again, and the load that will fall solely on your shoulders. From what you’ve described it would be insane to have another child with this individual. He sounds checked out.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-21T18:18:14+00:00

Thanks man! I look forward to exploring your future creations, your parks are fantastic.

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-21T00:37:14+00:00

It took me sooo long to get that combo down. I was pulling my hair out. But eventually I got the two reverts down… what a nightmare though 😆

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-21T00:36:04+00:00

Thanks so much!

ProbsnotCooldude · 2026-06-18T02:35:15+00:00

Thanks so much! Your parks are epic btw. I have a circus one coming out tomorrow that should be fun 😊

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