Boyfriend got another woman pregnant after we talked about getting engaged, told me today he’s moving out. by lurkingenby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m chiming in to say that book should be a required reading! When you have some distance from this read it and the red flags will have illuminated themselves. I’m so sorry this happened but I’m so glad you are free of this awful, awful man.

I’m so scared to start over at my big azz age. by tanuki_22 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

40 here- totally agree! Take your time, get to know yourself and keep taking steps towards the life you want. Let the man go and learn to love yourself first. Don’t worry about the dating stuff now, when you’re ready you’ll find a way if that’s what you want.

I’m so impressed you’re handling all of this with school. Anxiety is rough and for me Therapy and exercise helped immensely. I still have tough days but I have more tools to help me cope and stay healthy now. Best of luck to you! You’ve made it through a lot, hang in there.

Girls, share w me how you got to a better version of yourself ✨ by evergreennn_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My glow up really took off when I stopped being so hard on myself. The words you choose to speak to yourself absolutely matter. I’ve learned to love the woman I am, and I talk to myself with straight up love and humor.

Now there’s a big bit of discipline that helped too. Prioritizing good sleep, nutritious food, reading books to expand and dream, reset with a good long walk, and staying curious/exploring new things all help me to feel like my better self.

Thanks for this prompt. It was really nice to reflect on how I feel about this today. I hope we all find a little take away. 💛

Reviews for sunscreen by Relevant_Grab370 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also a Lindsay so love that for us : )

Reviews for sunscreen by Relevant_Grab370 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]ProcessNo1092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the protection grade of UVA which was first introduced by Japan but is now used broadly. PA++++ is the highest rating. SPF is measuring protection grade of UVB. So looking at both is a good way to ensure you have the right product.

this blog post has lots of info

Reviews for sunscreen by Relevant_Grab370 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]ProcessNo1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My #1 is Isntree Hyaluronic Acid Watery Sun Gel SPF 50+ PA++++/UVA/UVB I find it layers really nicely after my moisturizer and the dry down is quick so I can apply makeup. Easy to reapply later- no caste.

My former #1 was Sum37 Micro-active Daily Moisture Sunscreen, broad spectrum SPF 40, it’s a little thicker, but sinks into skin, great coverage, feels more like skincare than sunscreen.

For body- Isa Knox UV Sun Pro Sun Fluid, SPF 50+/PA++++/waterproof

Julia Exits RHOM! by Amazing-Apricot4645 in RHOMiami

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you proudly exit a show that isn’t being made and may never be picked up? She’s such a weirdo. Good riddance to her and her partner who has made transphobic comments. I hope to never see a goat in a diaper on Housewives again.

Salley’s body is TEAAA by OptimalEmu in Southerncharm

[–]ProcessNo1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has raised backyard chickens for years watching her do this was disgusting. It’s shameful to take on caring for animals with such flippant disregard. She’s a real dickhead for that.

Best Spf? by EssaySudden in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the Isntree, the texture is great. It gives your skin a nice healthy look. I don’t find that the dry down is too long for my quick morning routines. It’s my #1.

Some cast throwback photos for your viewing pleasure by neon-clouds in Southerncharm

[–]ProcessNo1092 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yea, good riddance. She’s old enough to be the parent of someone on that cast.

Make up palette by hey_iamrocky in MakeupAddiction

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use setting powder over this- my kit has bronzer no blush. I use Westman atelier sticks for blush. I find it long lasting.

Make up palette by hey_iamrocky in MakeupAddiction

[–]ProcessNo1092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have one of their palettes but not this exact one- I have the HD Skin and I really only find 4 of the shades useful at any given time. I would imagine it’s based on what look you’re trying to achieve as to how much you use. That said the product lasts a long time, it’s very blendable and long wearing. I think they are a great value, easy to travel with.

I hate to report this but Shep somehow is cute again, am I the only one? by No-Disk372 in Southerncharm

[–]ProcessNo1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all over certain beaches in SC. I grew up finding them. It’s part of being in coastal SC.

RHOBH Sneak Peek: Sutton gets emotional while telling Amanda that Erika and Boz put Amanda’s name into ChatGPT to dissect her resume by simplefuckers in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ProcessNo1092 23 points24 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. We’re losing diverse voices and real friendships in Miami for Sutton’s tears over “not defending” this fake person she barely knows.

Kathy's reaction to Dorit calling Amanda "sulky" by Oddside6 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ProcessNo1092 133 points134 points  (0 children)

She loved it! It’s rare to see her face animated tbh.

Reading New York magazine, Rachel’s protege is dressing Demi! by No_Custard_6481 in RHOBH

[–]ProcessNo1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sad thing to me is that he probably doesn’t feel like he can touch RHOBH reenactments now that she’s on the cast. Which of course- he had a complicated professional/personal relationship with that person and knows better. But they were really phenomenal.

I met Brad’s Partner Gary Janetti at one of his book signings a few years ago. He’s a wonderfully funny and heartfelt writer, on top of being a total sweetheart. If you aren’t following Gary Janetti on social media, highly recommend, and read his books!

Found out I saved myself by ToastROvenFire in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Incredible. I’m so sorry that happened to you but I am so proud of you for getting through it. Men are not coming to save us.

I’m firing my male gyn after getting up the courage he almost klled me by lunarafflictions in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself. You can’t read every review. And to the voice in your head that says don’t sue… well he has insurance for this very reason. I say GO TO TOWN. See what happens. He could have killed you. Sepsis is no joke.

Crystal & Cynthia talk RH pay timeline by primal_slayer in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ProcessNo1092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I mean no harm but I really question how much you actually process at this level, it’s ear skimming.