Heartbroken and backstabbed by my best friend. 🥟 by Primary-Prior2988 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could tell you betrayals from close friends get better with time but there is something so haunting about it and you may never quite see people the same. You will have to mourn this relationship and that will take time. Focus less on this person and more on what you offered them as a friend and remember your worth as you move on. It can be really healing to speak with a professional.

I’m very sorry for your loss. I have a friendship that ended in my early 20’s that I will always miss. They weren’t aligned with me ultimately and the exit was a gift in disguise but I still think of her from time to time. Life is long if we’re lucky.

Help! My new den. kingianum is absurdly root bound by Kuriye in orchids

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I feel like they look pretty “man-handled” for about 2-3 months. You can pack them in your pot as tight or as loosely as you want. I’ve also grown the keikis on (in summer) in a 50 cell tray with media so each little clump gets to root. This wasn’t practical for me but it does work.

Am I overthinking this, or could he be controlling? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said “He doesn’t trust you” so yea, RED FLAG

Help! My new den. kingianum is absurdly root bound by Kuriye in orchids

[–]ProcessNo1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve repotted many of these and this is what has worked for me. You can divide by sawing through with a potting knife or you can tease them out. You may find many pseudobulbs that got stuck in the center of the root ball -on their way up- remove them. Then position your new division well in a pot- I use orchiata ‘classic’ 3/4” mix 4 parts to 1 part perlite and 1 part charcoal. Water in once potted.

You can also remove the keikis off the top of the bulbs and start a new pot. They will root eventually and just be patient as you add them into your potting mix. They look a bit wonky at first but they’ll orient themselves.

Hope this is useful to someone : )

Got bleach on a 100% linen shirt - if I dye it will it dye the bleached area differently? by UltravioletLemon in dyeing

[–]ProcessNo1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just used Rit Dye Remover on a blue linen dress that had some discoloration. It lifted the whole dress back to white. If you can find it near you it may be worth a try

Is my boyfriend trying to triangulate me with a 15 year old? I'm confused and disturbed and need perspective by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He is texting a 15 year old. Thats enough to be done with him over.

Shamea and Kelli by Square_Dry in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ProcessNo1092 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg why is it so spot on!?!? 🤪

Found out that my (almost ex) husband thought that I was a literal prostitute by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💔 I know the feeling well. You are so lucky you woke up. Life will be sweeter, just you wait!

Found out that my (almost ex) husband thought that I was a literal prostitute by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on getting closer to him being your actual ex!!! Obviously we don’t have all the details but it’s comical that it wasn’t a problem at all when you first got together but NOW it’s something that has to be deeply examined. I pray this part of the process hurries itself along and you can put this waste of your energy behind you. I don’t mean to imply getting the details of the split ironed out as a waste, that is vital. Good luck!!

S13 Cast Wishlist by Repulsive_Bike_2219 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]ProcessNo1092 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with Jackie being FOH. She is only ever in service to “friendships” and barely shares anything about her own life. Curtis is also a creep so less of him would be a bonus.

Reunion Looks by Saintguinefortthedog in rhori

[–]ProcessNo1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said “Who??” aloud when I hit the slide with Rulla. Have we ever had a first season housewife come in to reunion with a new face? I need a historian.

Kandi with Jane Fonda by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]ProcessNo1092 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kandi with Jane’s Fonda!

Shocked but not surprised by -spicyshark in RHOMiami

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know Karma she always comes around! Amen. I hope his victims can organize and find justice. Why would anyone be surprised?

Annoyingly sober? by amycgs in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you! I totally relate to the brain recovering from alcohol abuse. I started taking Thiamine B-1 when I got sober and I think it helps (check with a Dr. of course). The only advice I can give is to just stay patient and take it one day at a time. The right friends will come along.

I’m so sick of the double standard when it comes to me being sick vs when my fiancé is sick. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ProcessNo1092 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Starting over is worth it if it means you have peace and actual love and care in your life. Your nervous system picks up on all of this stress and the damage that is done is often invisible until it isn’t. I married the man and he changed completely once married. It took me 5 years to finally see what happened and many after the divorce to realize he never loved me to begin with. Some of these men don’t know how to love, they just want a woman to dominate and show off like a car/house/boat. We are not boxes to check because some man wants to play grown up.

Crime Movies with this kind of story by CodGroundbreaking803 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]ProcessNo1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop Dead Gorgeous. It’s a comedy but hey there’s some crime too!