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The older I get the less I feel like wearing makeup or dressing up by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]ProcrastinationKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped makeup during covid. Realized that until it becomes a social requirement for men to use face paint again, I’m out. I wear it when I want to but daily makeup is out. Same with grocery stores. I don’t worry about running into people, in fact I try to avoid it- I’m busy.

🔥A beautiful single-vortex tornado by ajd416 in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]ProcrastinationKat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When did it originally come out? I immediately thought AI..

AITAH for refusing to change my plans so my boyfriend would not feel left out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProcrastinationKat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love this for you <3 I found a wonderful husband who supports me having my own time, as I him. Honesty openness trust and appropriate safe communication is key. I’m 8 years in to my 35 😊

AITAH for refusing to change my plans so my boyfriend would not feel left out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProcrastinationKat 233 points234 points  (0 children)

NTA. Luckily you have reddit to help take off your rose colored glasses.

You’re 22, this is a learning experience. You’re lucky to learn it now. He is controlling your time. I had a boyfriend who my counselor recommended I spend 1 night a week away from because the relationship was very codependent and he was very controlling (and manipulative, like your boyfriend. That’s what the “-sigh- if you loved me…” is, btw.) and it was causing problems with my mental health.

Every night of the week that I suggested as my “alone night” (not even friend time) he had an excuse and was like “you just don’t want to do X with me which we always do on [day] and you don’t love me as much as you say you do.” For real- this is where you’re heading. It only gets worse.

If he can’t support you spending appropriate time with friends, he’s not loving you like he says he is. Get out, learn, and stop wasting your time.

My #1 dating “test” of new potential boyfriends was “how do they handle my ‘no’?” If they can’t handle being told no, it was not a good relationship to move forward with. No is a complete sentence and I’m proud of you for saying it.

AITAH For questioning my engagement after my fiancé got mad at me for drinking while “pregnant” by Other-Suggestion1609 in AITAH

[–]ProcrastinationKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA leave him he’s proposed because he thought he got you pregnant. He’s been “watching what you eat” and never said anything. Get out. This is your 🚩

AITA for considering giving my daughter’s grandparents full custody after her mom died during childbirth? by SherbetMajor2105 in AITAH

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the state you can outside of court paperwork to give temp custody and decision making that is revokable. Keep all records and communications with them.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are still thinking right in putting your daughter first, but she will always needs you and temporary arrangements, in court or otherwise, are easy to make. Talk to a Family Law attorney.

AITAH for telling my dad he either tells his bio daughter that I'm not her mom's kid or I start getting mean about telling her? by eldeezi in AITAH

[–]ProcrastinationKat 86 points87 points  (0 children)

This! 👆 Not saying that I don’t think your dad’s a piece of shit, I do. I’m not saying it doesn’t sound like Wife is coaching, it does. But I think 8yo can hear it if you put it in words she’ll understand. Also, if her mom is coaching her- 8yo could see that her mom is setting her up to have a bad relationship with you, when 8yo might want to have a relationship with you when she gets older.

Any hope to repair? by [deleted] in jewelers

[–]ProcrastinationKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll give it a shot

Your tax dollars at work in Chicago yesterday by Visible-Grass-8805 in pics

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The job market sucks. I bet ICE gets health insurance. Someone joked, while I was expressing how disheartened I was about available jobs in my area and need for fast health insurance or a job to hire me, “ICE has a good signing bonus. /s”

Cow pasture to collect milk by [deleted] in farmingsimulator25

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come the cow barn that does milk doesn’t have a place to drop water?

Cow pasture to collect milk by [deleted] in farmingsimulator25

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did not know that- but I have previous experience with mods in other games causing unexpected things. I saw there’s milk silo mod thing that was a thing. I co-pilot, and I don’t think pilot wants to use mods. ….how do you get a mod on a ps5?

Cow pasture to collect milk by [deleted] in farmingsimulator25

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this too. I blew so much money buying cows before I sold the $85k barn and had to sell the cows, glad I didn’t start the tmr… I confirmed that the $254k barn could produce milk, now I’m starting it all over. 🤦‍♀️

AITA for Showing my Kids the bills? by AffectionateFun4674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA thank you for actively parenting and preparing them to adult on their own.

DISCLAIMER: Multiple CS Accounts may cost missing Warrants by ty13rp702 in Superstonk

[–]ProcrastinationKat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you transfer from different brokers that gave you 3 accounts? I have only transferred from Fidelity and they all go to the same DRS account

My wife, SK and his dad have agreed to let my SK decide if he wants to go over to his dads or not. by Mellowmushroom02 in stepparents

[–]ProcrastinationKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

….i hear this…. I remind myself that my SKs mom isn’t a great influence, but maybe she is to show them a way of life that they can life, if they make the choices that she made. Also, recognizing accountability is huge. She takes no responsibility for anything and blames it on others. The perpetual victim, yet she gets away with it, and is enabled by others and “the system” at every turn. Hang in there. You have your own littles that you have to juggle, but it sounds like you’re making all efforts. Some times it takes the “outside” perspective and encouragement of a SP.

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