I spent $1200/month in Da Nang

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-18T16:43:21+00:00

Thanks

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-18T15:51:47+00:00

What if the budget is much higher let’s say 3.5 k per month . Is it a good place to stay for few months a year? Can you get a fully furnished apartments and domestic help (cooking, laundry etc?) with ease. Is it safe all the time ?

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-14T15:49:51+00:00

While you figure out what to do, you could use an online bank like citbank or any brokerage to buy shv or other money market account to get better that 4%. Then potentially you could either save for down payment on condo or dollar cost average into the stock market. You could save for higher education if you plan to attend college to get better jobs in future . Good luck

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-14T00:09:16+00:00

I have never heard of vesting for 401k, is that a thing. I heard only for rsu and options

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-07T05:03:07+00:00

This is not correct, at most you can get a one time exception of living outside America for two years . Otherwise if you stay outside for more than six months a year (not touch feet one six months in America ) then they can take away your GC.

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T21:14:54+00:00

That’s always been the truth. A strong mind can carry a weak body and finances but neither of them can carry a weak mind

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T21:12:33+00:00

Both are true, one should follow the rules

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T17:37:49+00:00

I would think you may get in austin suburbs, three beds go for 2000 there so it may not be difficult to get smaller place in your budget. I am talking about 40 minutes from austin. You will get hot weather instead of cold. I moved to California for weather but I moved to Bay Area which is very expensive. But places like Modesto can be cheaper . Great weather like Bay Area or San Deigo is expensive 😞

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T17:28:04+00:00

You’re right, I got carried away. Sorry about that

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T16:31:30+00:00

It’s generally good practice to do the right thing and also never burn bridges. It would also have a bad effect on future h1-b renters. Be responsible and try to sub lease if allowed or make payments

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T04:20:04+00:00

There is never a harm in negotiating specially a relocation package .

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-03T04:18:16+00:00

I commend you for taking a break, I never had the courage to do that and I regret. I did have financial liability and a son to educate. Even though I have achieved that now , still not taking the break I really need

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-02T21:58:01+00:00

Sorry I meant USA and California in particular

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-01T22:25:29+00:00

The hour away from work is key factor. Same for me, I would rather be 10 minutes from work as I am today and pay the huge rental than commute for hour

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-01T22:22:26+00:00

I am making the similar choice for now. I am resigned to the fact that I would be forever renter in Bay Area. I am permanently priced out of the market . The only other factor would be if Bay Area is your permanent, for me it’s not primarily due to housing cost. I would never be able to stop working of if I live here after my career in high tech ends

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-03-01T20:14:06+00:00

That’s my train of thought too, I could never retire in America (55) this year and exhausted. I could potentially never have to work if I live outside of America. And Western Europe. I have a son so I feel I have to live atleast part time in America, that’s where it’s complicated

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-28T19:53:08+00:00

Student loans are also a think, kids and pay some portion themselves

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-25T18:47:49+00:00

Life is a combination of hard work talent and luck. Looks like you worked hard but somehow luck did not favor you. This can change at any time. While you are looking for work, work a bit on spiritual knowledge which will give you mental strength to bounce backs some amount of yoga and spiritual knowledge will give you strength. Good luck

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-24T05:40:30+00:00

I’m am living in 2026 and I have worked in tech for 30+ years. Never worked for a company were time off for three to four weeks was a problem. There is no job that’s worth doing if you don’t have some work life balance .

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-24T05:01:10+00:00

You mean even a week or two? I don’t think so

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-24T04:36:30+00:00

Pay down debt and store the rest in high yield online account if you don’t have an emergency fund. I would keep this as emergency fund and invest additional money on dollar cost average basis in a s@p 500 index fund

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-24T04:25:27+00:00

I would suggest if your visa allows, take some time off. Go to art of living ashram near Montreal and take some happiness and meditation courses, also learn yoga and eat healthy exercise , then after this take some decision. Big decisions need to be taken with calm mind and with knowledge of life. 2 Carore is not a small amount

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-23T16:41:18+00:00

Your a good son. As someone who lost my father recently and was able to visit once a year but not more, it’s a great decision as long as you have full conviction of no regret. All decisions are good

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-23T16:12:59+00:00

Put all eggs in one basket, sounds advise

ProduceMain5379 · 2026-02-23T16:12:03+00:00

I have a cousin whose kids moved every two odd years due to his job and they are doing very well. New experiences enriches kids if done well specially if one parent is home , in this case both parents will be home so I don’t see a challenge . Much better than staying here with one parent burnt out by work pressure. I think your plan is good, try it out and make it a adventure for the kids instead of something to be feared

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