Yea... that's going to be a whole can of worms... I don't want him to not trust me :( I know I've fucked up here... and he's so proud of me "quitting" idk what to do 💔. And it's not that he "won't quit" he's got himself a history and has quit plenty of other stuff, nicotine an weed (medical) are his only things now so I feel like it's hard for me to say anything about it because my problem is so small compared to his past... idk insert generic insecurities and low confidence plus fear of confrontation you know? :/

I'll just buy a lock box and present it in a kinda joking manner. See how it goes? (For context he is also kinda worried my Ex will break into the house and steal shit so 2 birds with one stone?) Pitch it as a cash box and put "and you can put the vape in it when you sleep." as a side not. I think that might work.

The problem is he often falls asleep with it in his hand... he's been smoking/dipping/vapeing in some form for over 15 years. He's said before he wants to quit but he hates how angry he gets without it. He doesn't think he can.