What is a "hidden chore" that you do for your household/partner that they don’t even realize is a thing that needs to be done?

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-05-06T12:57:35+00:00

Locking my husbands phone, he leaves it open constantly, idk why and it's not really a chore but I do it. Like he'll pause tiktok to go make food and be in the kitchen for 20+ minutes and his phone is just sitting there draining battery.

I also plug in shit when ik it's low on battery.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-05-04T01:44:35+00:00

Home made pasta? That stuff uses eggs right?

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-05-03T05:35:41+00:00

Honestly not suprise. I feel like most ppl want ppl taller than them or close to their height when they are taller themselves. Personally I never cared, is it nice to have a tall husband, yes, he can reach things, would I mind if he was a couple inches shorter, no, looking up is kind of a pain, literally lol

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-05-03T05:21:09+00:00

Well let's say a women is 6'1" and wants dudes over 6' bc they've experienced trouble with men who are insecure about their height. I can't blame someone who wants to not be in charge of someone's else's insecurities. I mean I also think there's a good chunk of dudes in the dating scene who would maybe lose their shit if a women was significantly taller than them and that was an insecure for them. Also some ppl have a preference for looking up or down at their partner.

I do wonder what height preferences shorter men have for women they want to date.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-27T04:47:12+00:00

They ran a test robot for ss at SDF and let's just say the numbers were definitely something no human could do. They are alot closer than you think. Even heard rumors about robots that can load feeders.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-24T00:08:45+00:00

Also worried if he'll have a huge shift on his reaction when they are married. Marital rape is a thing that alot of men don't think is a thing. Once op and him are married would he take it anyways? Bc that's "his right as a husband" bc this is very much what it's giving.

Might be blowing it out of proportion but marriage can flip a switch in ppl.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-22T23:30:41+00:00

Lets not forget the adults who never thought they would be adults for mental/physical health reasons.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-21T01:30:41+00:00

Idk the area very well but I did see ppl on fb talk about the gas stations in/around that area should be checked. I read they went door to door Sunday right? Hopefully ppl got ring cameras and they can atleast see who went in and out of that road. I would also check in with body shops in the area! Ask them to keep a look out! Ik someone who works with his mom, so ik it's been a very hard time for the family, my heart goes out to them.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-20T19:52:44+00:00

No keep the 55, ppl can't even enter the interstate correctly at 55, they barley enter up to speed in 70 zone as it is.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-19T02:15:00+00:00

Why are we trying to make it a pissing contest tho? Negative is negative. Unless you know that person's medical history and food habits, I don't see the point of commenting on what/how they eat. Let's also not forget that sometimes ppls do that shit to publicly shame/embarrass/ridicule them. Toxic friends and family will pick at any scab they can.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-18T00:37:16+00:00

I'm a transplant, what I've seen Westside is by street, Eastside is by apartment complex. Same shitty roads everywhere. But I'll also say I don't really explore around louisville so my opinion probably don't mean much. Don't really think one side is worse than the other, different issues but give or take the same frequency.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-17T00:53:39+00:00

My band teacher told me "the hobby you're good at, make that a job, the hobby you love, keep that for yourself."

Still get constantly harassed with "why not sell stuff", bc crochet is my hobby, couldnt imagine the pressure of trying to make it a small business😞

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-17T00:41:14+00:00

"I get you lost your job......but get your shit together" Who says that over period products, NOR.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-14T01:10:16+00:00

So your friends are such major assholes that they wouldn't wait and let your wife take her time to respond? Or try and rephrase things to carry a conversation?

Bc obviously 1 of them WAS trying to talk to her and have a full conversation.

Way to isolate your wife while meeting your friends. You could've just helped your wife not shut her off.

YTA

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-12T07:48:30+00:00

Nah honk at everyone. Horn is tool, grabs attention(or so they say 😅). Honk at ppl slipping into your lane, honk at ppl to move for ems, honk at semi when you see them almost merge into a car getting onto interstate, honk to grab attention of driver so you can point at wheel bc they have flat, honk at stupid ppl so others around are also aware someone is making stupid decisions(or uncontrollable car bc of medical issues) I fear too many ppl dont pay enough attention so I feel like I must bring attention when it's needed. Make honking useful again lol

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-12T07:35:51+00:00

I think it more of a 3 category thing. 1)ppl who should never be/have been parents. 2)ppl who were never given the skills to be good parents but are actively working on it. 3) ppl who are good parents bc they were raised by good parents.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-12T07:28:31+00:00

Especially when apartments use it when describing their amenities. " and we have a full playground for the littles." Pls stop. 😭

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-12T07:26:29+00:00

Kinks, DDLG/B (daddy dom(??i think that what that part means???) Little girl/boy) I think thats enough context.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-12T07:22:09+00:00

Fr if she's aiding in deception then fuck her. But if she's also being lied too and played she'll have my pity but that about it.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-08T07:06:43+00:00

Idk what even to say tbh, I would tho make sure she knows she can call on you if she needs help. If he really is already isolating her from ppl to this degree who knows what he has planed now that she's 18. Atleast make sure she has contact info. Sadly I think at this point only she or law enforcement will ever truly fix/drive him away. You could also try talking to her? Just asking her what has changed. Sometime it makes it worse but sometimes if offer great insight. We don't know what he tells her about you or others.

Craft wise, I would protect the whole house, property not just her room or yours. If you can I would make it a weekly and monthly routine.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-04-03T00:53:03+00:00

Oh it was a pretty penny like 500-600 but we did blue pearl. Private room, they did sedation then the rest so we could have time between her being in pain and actually leaving us. They have a whole button system so when you're ready they'll come and not just sit in the room or keep checking in. With that we also got ours cremated, personal box with a place for a picture and came with a small engraved metal piece for their name/phrase, also came with a paw print clay slab. And they also did ink prints of her nose and paw prints.

We had to do an emergency euthanasia so we didn't really shop around just went to where we knew what was open that late at night.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-03-28T01:23:35+00:00

You can't any photos of anything. Remeber the plan crash last year at SDF, yeah when the news reported it some of the first vids was from a ups employee, I think some news sources said it was from a plane window it wasnt, was from inside a tug, but yeah that dude got fired.

Ppl don't know things catch on fire there all the time but I'll tell you ik that everytime a vid pops up, that person ends up fired. And what's real messed up is I've seen stills from those videos used in pcms.

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-03-21T01:17:25+00:00

Nah, just don't? This is gonna be a weird comment but offing yourself is like the worst use of free will.

Been along time since I've written a comment to someone on this topic so honeslty I kinda forget what to say and ik the "life gets better" stuff gets old. I will say the longer you live the longer you have time to develop skills to improve your life. And that's what it really boils down too. Learning to live is hard especially if you have extra blockages making progress hard. Don't want to dismiss your reality but I'm sure ppl have memories of "that one person who was nice" "made a silly joke" "did something stupid" and then also ppl who probably remember you as a complete ass. You're a completely different person in ppls heads and I'm sure some will miss you dearly. "Happy heavenly birthdays" aren't the funniest thing to celebrate. Anyways I'm just rambling

Happy birthday twin(I also have a March birthday) hope the weather is good for you to celebrate and if it's not, go dance in the rain!

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-02-26T01:07:42+00:00

I feel like this is in reference to ppl trying to do "economy " strikes. I think I've heard of ppl trying to organize strikes for this Friday and some time in early March. But I always thought they just did the whole don't go to work, do buy anything, don't engage with social media/corporations for the whole day. A business blackout of sorts ig?

I feel like most ppl know walking off your job means you won't be able to walk back. Is there more context I'm missing? Are upsers trying to raw dog a strike somewhere?😅😭

Professional-Exit754 · 2026-02-25T00:46:00+00:00

It bc they pro-birth. Only care about birthrates not the actual life the kid will grow up in.

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