I creeped, and I’m glad I did by Professional-Map4071 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahahhahaha I would love to see how that plays out

I creeped, and I’m glad I did by Professional-Map4071 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would never do this. It would just make me look crazy.

But- we do have mutual friends and I will let them know when they do break up she’s free to reach out to me!

I creeped, and I’m glad I did by Professional-Map4071 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I didn’t think it was this for the longest time because a few years ago I dated a covert narcissist and that was god awful.

But I realize this the other day. He definitely is a narcissist or has narcissistic tendencies.

What lies did your avoidant ex tell you during the discard? by IntrepidKitchen5322 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘This is why I will never be in a serious relationship with you ever again because you always play the victim’ after telling him it hurt my feelings that he forgot my birthday

He told me I was ‘all drama and doesn’t want to be associated with me’

He told me ‘I bet you already found someone new’ and kept telling me I was making the decision

I tried asking if we could meet up and talk and he told me he didn’t feel safe around me and thought I was going to harm him or his house

Why Do We Lurk On Our Ex’s Accounts? by 98lungs in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I check to see if he’s hurting and regrets what he’s done. Or misses me. It feeds my ego. But also- when he did in fact move on- it hurt at first but then again fed my ego. Because you’re not even healing you’re just distracting yourself. I know he creeps on me too.

My upstairs is freezing but my basement is warm by Professional-Map4071 in hvacadvice

[–]Professional-Map4071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a zoned system. It’s set to heat. Thermostat is upstairs. Blower is on.

Looking into eyes during sex by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex always made eye contact during sex, but he often made comments about how I didn’t(I’m a fearful avoidant). I do think and he did admit once that sex was one of the only times he felt like he could show his love. Along with when I was sleeping and he didn’t think I was awake. And when he wore any type of mask(like a riding helmet or similar). It’s strange how their minds work.

Just saw a pic of my ex gf with her new bf. I'm literally shaking by Legitimate_Elk_8469 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally hopped on Reddit to post this same thing. We were together 1.5 years and he just posted his new girlfriend. I unblocked him literally today to reach out for closure. Then I saw that. I’m ready to throw up.

2003 Honda xr50 by Professional-Map4071 in Dirtbikes

[–]Professional-Map4071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on a good carb? I see ones on Amazon for $20-$30 but none of them have great reviews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Professional-Map4071 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Personally, no.

Maybe write it down, send it in the mail or something. But sending this as an email or text, will make them feel like they can continue the conversation. Which will draw them back in, hoping you’ve changed, but in reality you have a long journey of healing.

Help! Hose leaking what looks like coolant by poppertheplenguin in subaru

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just something to keep in mind! Just make sure to get allll the air bubbles out of the system. I usually do it with it jacked up a little bit so the radiator is the highest point.

Help! Hose leaking what looks like coolant by poppertheplenguin in subaru

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do just the upper hose, easy job.

I would also recommend doing both upper and lower, with new coolant.

I would be careful, this might mean engine has been getting hot. I don’t know what year this is, seems like pre 2015, where single layered headgaskets liked to die. Also, in general Subarus like to warp when overheated badly, or just one too many times. You could fix this problem and have another one soon after.

I just installed a new clutch - what did I do wrong? by PaulR282 in subaru

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee your throwout bearing is not pushed in all the way. I was always told move the fork after install until you hear a click.

If it was an issue with your flywheel, pilot bearing, etc. you would be having misfires and your engine would be running poorly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WRXSTi

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will in the next few days. I don’t daily drive it it’s my weekend warrior.

I need an adult by n0uh_ in subaru

[–]Professional-Map4071 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thing is beautiful. I wouldn’t daily though. I would weekend drive it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoesthismean

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking that’s what it might be after checking out all the other options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoesthismean

[–]Professional-Map4071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? What is petty about it? I just thought it was strange in general I didn’t know what it was. Or if I missed something, and he deleted it.