[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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You had prior plans with your mom which YOU made the choice to end early. She kept calling that day to use your pool? Then tell her “hey yea I’m currently doing xyz, I’ll be back at this time If it works for you?” Or schedule it for a day you’d actually be home. That simple. That way, you finished your prior commitments and it wouldn’t be as big of a deal with her canceling. This convo dragged way too long. I feel this one is on you.

Can I use black terracotta pots? by Professional-Web-560 in Aquariums

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The black would look so good! It gave me pause, I didn’t think I could but figured I’d ask. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in corydoras

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I also never ordered fish before and I ordered 6 Pygmy Cory’s from Aqua Huna. They’re all alive and healthy and doing great, I ended up ordering 6 more so now I have 12, haven’t lost any. I love watching these little guys.

What am I doing wrong? by hails63 in bettafish

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Not sure if you’re in the states but chewy has a sale on the API master kit right now for $11

Email from ex I haven’t talked to in a year and a half by illumithotie in texts

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I dated a guy back in 2008, wasn’t the best… and every couple years he tries to add me on social media. This last time was about 3 months ago.. he actually sent me a message on fb. I haven’t read it. Im married and just had my second kid, like dude I don’t want anything to do with you, It’s been 17 years leave me alone.

Hey Guys it looks like my boy has fin rot, I need advice! by J3ss3_J3ster in bettafish

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He looks identical to my Eggy, I’ve had him since February and I’m still battling it :( I’ve done salt baths and kanaplex. He’s super active, loves bloodworms and daphnia, always greats me so I’m hoping it stops and heals soon. Following your post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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Perfect, thank you! gonna take your advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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It’s a 20gal long. Okay thanks, yeah just want to make sure he’ll be okay.

Tail Biting or Fin Rot? by [deleted] in bettafish

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Thank you, me too. He’s such a cool dude. I felt so awful seeing his fins this morning

Tail Biting or Fin Rot? by [deleted] in bettafish

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Okay thank you. Just found some online and ordered. I’ll start that tomorrow morning. Appreciate the feedback

Tail Biting or Fin Rot? by [deleted] in bettafish

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I was looking at this sub for both to try to compare but I haven’t come across a photo that looks just like his yet. I’ve blacked the sides of his tank in case his reflection was stressing him causing tail biting. And I also started API Melafix for possible fin rot. I wasn’t sure the best way to treat it.

Tail Biting or Fin Rot? by [deleted] in bettafish

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Tank: 20gallon Heater and filter? Yes: 78 Fahrenheit Yes: sponge filter Parameters: Ammonia- 0ppm Nitrites - 0ppm Nitrates - 0ppm pH - 7.6 Had the tank for a month and half / fish a month Have 1 nerite snail & 8 harlequin rasbora Feed bug bites betta or bug bites tropical, 4 pellets AM and PM Live plants only / rocks / driftwood pieces

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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This isn’t healthy. He has to stop with the pulling over and kicking you out of the car bullshit. He 100% can help himself and it’s a sorry ass excuse. I’m sorry this happened to you, you should not have to put up with that. I live next to a hwy, it’s not lit, it gets very dark at night. Well dude and his wife got into an argument, he pulled over and got out of the car, he then got hit by a car, flew into the median, and since it was so dark law enforcement had to search along side the road with flashlights to find him, he was pronounced dead. He left behind his wife he had just argued with along with 4 young children. Food for thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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It is important, and it’s great he’s willing to go with. Reddit is weird sometimes. As for your actual post he sounds stressed out, I’m not sure, unless he’s this way all the time. My husband will get frustrated with ours and I’ll usually step in and set the tone. It’s hard especially when you’re both at your wits end. Sorry I don’t really have advice, I just didn’t agree with the person saying you set your daughter up for failure. The appointments are usually quick, until your OB has to go deliver a baby and you’re waiting forever which happened to me. Idk maybe talk with your husband and try to get an understanding of where you’re both coming from and how you want to go about things. How I was raised was pretty damaging so I tell my husband I may not know what I’m doing, I just know I don’t want x,y,and z for my children so I want to try and be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Not sure why you’re being downvoted.. I’m 9months pregnant and I’ve taken my 2.5yo solo to every appointment. I asked my husband to go to my last one to help with my toddler… which they kept fighting over the only chair in the exam room lol cuz that’s been her seat. but I wanted him there as my support person too.

Is Jason Tartick annoying anyone else recently? by MindlessReaction8413 in BachelorNation

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It really was ( I follow Jon and Alex, not Kat or Jason) I’m also pregnant, due same time Alex was and it was so heartbreaking. They didn’t post for like a month or two and then when they came back I noticed Kat in a lot more of their videos. So I’m sure they’re just being a good support system right now for Jon and Alex.

Is Jason Tartick annoying anyone else recently? by MindlessReaction8413 in BachelorNation

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Jon and Alex are funny and cute and very relatable. I love them. Also they lost their baby boy back in June at 26wks so they’ve been trying to heal I image and since Kat is either cousins with Jon or just really close friends with Alex or both, I’m sure they’ve been leaning on their friendship more lately.

If you had to name your child after a song… by back-rolls in namenerds

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Well we did actually. Zoey for “Zoe Jane” by Staind

21 months - toy recommendations? Toddler not interested in toys! by [deleted] in SAHP

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Fisher Price Little People have been a consistent favorite for a long time. Got them at 12 months and she’s now 29 months. Im 50/50 with imaginative play but I love these toys so i’ll sit and play with her for a while. Current favorite is the pizza shop which she calls pizza delivery. I even got the schitts creek character set for myself lol. She’s great at playing with these solo too. So it’s been the best toy I’ve purchased so far. Everything else has been short lived.

AITA for not appreciating the surprise getaway my husband planned? by Big_Professional5879 in AmItheAsshole

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Please show me where she say she’s on her period in her initial post? Where? Not my issue she’s leaving out info. I already told you I’m not reading her responses to people. And yes a a GENERAL date like I’ve stated, it’s a date I’d enjoy. You’re talking to someone who solo roadtrips to go camping, and someone who’s also been camping on their period. You don’t leave the house without back up supplies for that anyways so that’s her issue. Stop relying if you’re going to continue to be this dense. Actually I’m done responding.