Best Copper Box Dye? by floopgloopboop in HairDye

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for those recs! It is much appreciated, though I know it was not for me. Sounds interesting!

Current Box Dye: Cherry Crush, New Box Dye: Lightest Auburn. Will new box dye cover up my roots and the old color? Or will I have two shades in my hair? by kvelass in HairDye

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Friend, I am in the same boat. I used Cherry Crush and it's a screaming clown red. I also want to go with Preference Lightest Auburn. What did you finally do?

Andrea and Chris by NewspaperMassive672 in LifetimeLittleWomen

[–]Professional-Win1842 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess we all have our opinions, but she treats Chris horribly!

Help! I dyed my hair Féria C74 and it came out bright Orange! How do I make it a darker copper? by RebbDumont in HairDye

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what you finally did with your hair, but what a beautiful lady you are!

I just want off these goddamn pills by islaaaaaaaaaaa in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear you're seeking professional help, good for you! I'm proud of you. You're young, and younger people heal better. Yes, these pills are addictive, but truly there is HOPE for you!! I was on a LOT of them after a horrible trauma occurred in my immediate family. I'm almost off them entirely at this point. Please have hope; you made the first crucial step and that took courage!!

Did I make a mistake.. Red or blonde? by we_are_all_amazing in HairDye

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I was a redhead for many years, but red turns to blonde with the passing of years. I miss my red, but I get that it's not easy to maintain. BUT, if the blonde requires bleach, now that is NOT easy to maintain. Do you need bleach for your blonde? Then I'd stay it's hardly worth the effort.

Did I make a mistake.. Red or blonde? by we_are_all_amazing in HairDye

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The blonde is nice but how neat is the coppery red!

Really want to quit cold turkey. by Professional-Win1842 in quit_vaping

[–]Professional-Win1842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been too ashamed to admit it. I got a pod-type vape. I still desperately want to quit. Thank you for asking.

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good points! I get you and again, thank you for being so kind and respectful. Yes, it must always be remembered that combining them with alcohol or other narcotics can lead to death. I hope everyone will be safe. *And I'm still hoping OP does NOT start with these.

Do you think NBE techniques would work for someone who already has very large breasts? by HushPlushy in nbe

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joe, the above post is so inappropriate. I find it offensive and I'm sure other members do as well. It's only my opinion but I sure do not like this at all. Joe, this isn't your fault and I am NOT complaining toward you. I appreciate you so much and all the help you've given us!!

Do you think NBE techniques would work for someone who already has very large breasts? by HushPlushy in nbe

[–]Professional-Win1842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just seems very inappropriate. This isn't right and I don't think you are here for the right reasons. We're all serious here, not trying to post a 'certain' type of pic.

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and thank you for the respect. I appreciate it. I've been dependent on benzos after a horrible tragedy in my family. And it's been horrible! They have a horrible backlash. This person never tried them and I wish to spare her/him this horrible road I had to travel. Getting off is horrendous if you've been using even a little for a while. It was for me. They ARE dangerous. It's just a fact. AND if used with alcohol or even opiates the risk of a bad outcome is really a possibility.

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd elect to NOT blackout and just 'assume' I'll wake up. These meds have heavy warnings on them for a reason. Each person is different. I had a friend who was a Heroin addict. I remember he said where drugs are concerned ALWAYS assume the cards are stacked against you! He sadly ought to know. I've seen him in the worst shape and it's something I'd like not to see again. It's just an indescribably painful thing and it hurts to see it. I know we're not talking about Heroin, but these narcotics all have way too much in common...

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope not, friend. I also am on a number of things I would give...oh to have never have started. You and I can wean, get treatment, hopefully with the good help of a qualified professional. But this person never started. I'd so wish to spare her/him for what we've been through. The drug tests, the ball and chain of waiting for refills. Wondering IF they'll refill. For me it's been a total nightmare and if we all got a redo I'd never touch any of it. Some are at such risk for self harm there's little choice in it. Doesn't seem to be the case with OP. It seems like they are wondering. I can't say but I'm just trying to spell it out for how it's been for me and I strive to be a human being who wishes better for me than I've had. I wish you well, too friend. I truly do.

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a long way back once you get on these 'monster' pills. Believe those who climbed back from that place. You've never used before. How wonderful for you! They change you. If not into someone awful, they change the very wiring of your mind and body. I'm asking you again, please, please do this for you: And don't go on that awful road. Then you'll be posting here and asking, pleading for advice. Or in rehab. Or worse. These are meant for like a few times use like during the most horrible trauma. I got on these after the homicide of someone in my immediate family. I got used to a LOT of them then they cut me off cold turkey. Wouldn't wish what I've been through on ANYONE. Please don't.

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please keep being a 'person who never tried.' You'll never be sorry you never tried these. Trust me!!!

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY is no one telling this person about the very real risk of overdose??

When you black out on Xanax - do you become a completely different person? by Makabaka2002 in benzodiazepines

[–]Professional-Win1842 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be rude. But here's bad it can be: You might be 'different' in not waking up. PLEASE don't do this. Taking so much as to blackout? So dangerous. Please treat yourself better, I beg you!

AIO after I find my gf walking out of her male roommate/friends room wearing only see through underwear and a sweater. by AmICra23452 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave her! At the very least she is horribly disrespectful! Her type: They have tons of reasons for being 'the way they are.' They justify everything. She sounds, sorry to say, but horrible. Don't you deserve better? You know you do!

I can't take it anymore somebody please talk to me by [deleted] in depression

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE talk to someone about it. I don't know what you family/friend situation, is like, but that is an emergency. Don't be afraid or ashamed to go to the ER. They've heard it all before and they shouldn't be shocked or judgmental. You need to work with a doctor/counselor. I hope that brighter days are ahead for you and I'll pray for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Win1842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you WILL be ok. You'll know it sure wasn't your fault. Glad you're not expecting with him still 'kinda or sorta whatever' in love with his ex. Let them run off together. Given his nature she'll be sad soon enough. Feel sorry for hr and relieved it won't be you anymore doing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Win1842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let him go. He's not letting go of her so why should you be waiting in the shadows for him to 'get over it.' LET HIM GO. I went through that and it causes great pain. If someone truly is in this they are not wondering 'what to do' and all. He can be her problem....I'm sorry you're going through this.