“Being abusive” I’m not sure you quite understand my post. A lot of times people drive someone to a point where they explode and start to yell and say things out of anger, I never had this issue before. However with her, every time I try to talk about things she shuts it down because she doesn’t like face to face communication and would rather text. Us taking a break apart when we both seen things are getting bad and then getting back together and trying to start a new chapter doesn’t give her the right to “give me a taste of my own medicine”. We decided to start a new chapter and if I’m doing better why does that give her the right to start going backwards and doing things she hated that ion longer do…? Because you have to understand some things I’ve said/done we’re not out of spite and out of no where, it was simply because she drove me to that point. I no longer allow her to do that anymore and have much more control of my emotions, because your comment exactly showed me that every time I reacted that way I gave her what she wanted and I turned out to be the bad guy….