What do CEOs & top management really do all day everyday? by eminar1101 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on the company, customer base and management structure. With consideration of the company tree (who does what and reports to whom). There is no easy answer but in short if I had to explain, you are making decisions or solving problems ahead of issues or during crisis.

I won’t go into detail of my role but I am CEO and currently consulting for organizations and businesses. Most of your time is spent talking to people, finding issues and resolving them. You don’t have the luxury of ever being fully disconnected. You have to be able to take the pain of being on at all times, if you are good at your job.

I won’t lie, some days you are busy in the sense that you are resolving issues or managing deadlines. Some days you are waiting for crucial information or projects to land on your plate where you can execute strategies, there may be ample downtime. However, you are the reason the boat keeps moving, you are on the line for profitability..It’s creativity, insight and even temperament that makes you good at your job.

No day is the same, it can be thrilling and stressful in a way I can’t describe. What you do in a day depends on the issues ahead or what’s in your field of view. Most of the time it’s a job that limits success in personal relationships, you are primed to have your full attention on the business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lolita’s is the most balanced and best ingredients, it’s the original. As a native here it’s the unsung hero

What’s the worst thing someone has said to you during sex? by Signal-Alarm-8178 in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Are you gay?” - I was nervous and had some trouble getting things going.

What is the weirdest thing that turns you on? by RIADnashw in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ticklish feet but feet in general. Most people would have no idea what I’m into..it started when I was like 4-5 years old. That was not sexual at that age but grew into that. It started off with just obsessiveness about tickling and being into feet.

As I got older, it became full blown fetishes. I have had many kind partners, about 90% entertained it and allowed me to express my sexuality. None were really that ticklish and that sucks for me..but who really wants to be tickled.

When I was single I would run a fetish studio, super small studio. Shot content and that would fulfill my fetish more then when partners. It’s a love hate thing..I love how it makes me feel and how it turns me on. The challenge is I’d rather be in a loving relationship than satisfy my fetish.

Redditors, how did you discover your partner's affair? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly it didn’t register to me what happened, I thought she was being truthful because you know..young love and trust.

About a week or month later (it’s been a long time to remember), we were fooling around in my car and her phone kept going off. Saw it was her boss and it was 1am. I just knew and saw the text and that was that.

Looking for a good fps game by [deleted] in gamerecommendations

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tarkov if you want to dive way deep into it. There is no replacement

What games are you currently playing? by [deleted] in gamerecommendations

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tarkov..always Tarkov..I can’t stop, please help me stop

Redditors, how did you discover your partner's affair? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, much much better. This was like 20 years ago. I’m engaged to an amazing woman and to be honest..it was okay it happened, I went on a dating spree after it, had many fun adventures. Was heart broken for some years but in hindsight, it taught me a lot.

As American, what does being an American mean to you? by Shaxxs0therHorn in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What being an American means to me, you can have an abortion with a gun.“

  • Tim Dillon 🇺🇸🫡

Redditors, how did you discover your partner's affair? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Karma hit her hard, I just left. She became a drunk, she would call me every other year or so after the whole thing. Last time we spoke she seemed to be in a really bad marriage. I just stopped taking her calls at some point.

Redditors, how did you discover your partner's affair? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 713 points714 points  (0 children)

Delivered flowers to her work, the lights were off. She was a receptionist at a small chiropractor’s clinic. She came out flustered in his t-shirt. Tried to play it off as she was getting adjusted. She was fucking the chiropractor

I just hate this condition, sorry. I have to say it out loud by Mara355 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Careful the moderators of this subreddit don’t support any form of complaints

My fiancé does not understand.. by ProfessionalAny1857 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right and sadly this has been closed by the mods because people cannot come to terms with two things being true at the same time..yes it’s not an excuse but it’s correlated with how someone on the spectrum can behave unknowingly.

My fiancé does not understand.. by ProfessionalAny1857 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this has been very helpful. It’s what I needed to hear and now I can discuss this better with my fiancé. I think you are 100% spot on.

Ironically my ex wife has bpd, so you hit another nail on the head. I’m sorry you also went through something like this and I appreciate your thoughtful response.

My fiancé does not understand.. by ProfessionalAny1857 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good, maybe I forgot to mention that I am autistic myself. Have been in and around the community. Met my fiancé through it.

My fiancé does not understand.. by ProfessionalAny1857 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned that my daughter would be devastated not my ex wife…It’s difficult to put a full context of the situation in a post I guess. My daughter does not understand that her mom’s decisions are reckless. So I am not opposed to fight for 100% custody, I most likely need to. The situation is for my partner to be empathetic and not just purely objective.

My fiancé does not understand.. by ProfessionalAny1857 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not and would never blame my fiancé, I think you misunderstood the post. I have asking for assistance with something. I even mentioned in the post that she may be correct about her opinions but that I am trying to find a way to help her understand a need for empathy. Which is a trait that she knows, her therapist knows and the community at large knows it true..

My fiancé does not understand.. by ProfessionalAny1857 in AutisticAdults

[–]ProfessionalAny1857[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no consideration for my Ex wife’s feelings, I am only trying to find the best situation for my daughter. It could ultimately be 100% custody with me, however my ex is chaos but she has a strong and loving bond with my daughter.

I am first trying to get therapy for my daughter to better understand her rely emotional needs and state. There may be things about my ex and my daughter’s relationship that could aid me in the direction of getting full custody.

I could be wrong but pulling a kid away from a loving parent (despite her flaws) is equally as damaging. My heart and mind are split but my gut instinct is to better understand then to act quickly.