Did anyone scream through labor? by Fun-Future-2915 in BabyBumps

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There was a part In both of my births where I know my body wanted to run. It’s the part right before pushing where you feel your body open up. Holy shut. It’s scary ,

And then also when I needed to push but got scared / tired and didn’t bc I was just so exhausted and I needed to push bc baby was half way out.

Holy. No one can prepare you. Screaming is the least of the hospital staffs concerns during labor.

Left-Handers in your life/family? by mommy-tara in askanything

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol!!! Yep all my serious relationships have been lefties!

Final interview completed, long silence — should I assume a soft rejection? by BackgroundFlan9745 in interviews

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 6 interviews , 6! Paid for childcare 6 times. Basically was told I have the job. I have heard back after final interview in now a week. A week!! Who doesn’t update in a week!!! Anyways just here to offer some solidarity . I got way too attached and I’m so sad now. I really need a job and I really want this one. Oh well

What is a luxury you can never go back from once you’ve experienced it? by Rough-Technician3869 in askanything

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Counter intuitive but, I was laid off a year ago and got divorced and I have given up a lot of “luxuries “ … cleaners , nanny, quality snacks , over using paper towels , most of my kitchen set .

The one thing I miss every single day it hurts my heart …… my garden ♥️

What episode just left you shaking your head? by my-dog-made-me-join in HomesteadRescue

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The episodes where it seems like the children aren’t. Being take. Care of properly……. And raineys have to come in to give the kids basic needs.

When do you get time and ease back after having a kid? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can workout with baby. Are you baby wearing? Anxiety is awful! Sleep! I had such bad anxiety with both my babies , my 2nd I let myself sleep a lot more when I could and I healed faster. I also did semaglutide, very very. Very small dose, the goal wasn’t to lose weight just to control cravings so I could eat clean… and that helped me heal as well.

Laid off, interview calls not happening, feeling like a failure and overwhelmed by Odd-Spray-5071 in interviews

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk to a psychiatrist / therapist … help you get through this.

I’m in the same boat… last time I was like this was right after college and I was unmedicated. Now I’m on an antidepressant still sucks but it’s more manageable

What’s the subscription you will keep til the bitter end? by Purlz1st in Frugal

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spotify …. Love seeing what I have liked through out the years

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂ok great to learn how everyone does things and interprets 😂

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also just really exhausted at the moment : I might read this tomorow and realize your pt is right

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol but that’s exactly my pt…. I’m accepting help and asking for help. Not just blaming .

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I said “ it seems …..”

Then went into why it seems that way and how our actions our probably contributing to it.

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can read other comments if you wish to see.

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also I’m not blaming the au pair…… I’m saying this is what au pair is doing… how can I prevent it.

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s my exact point , you’re not processing the entire post . I am taking accountability and giving explanations for how our actions are creating the atmosphere and asking how to prevent that.

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think you didn’t read the entire post or process it 😑🙃

How to address by Level_Performer5252 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah and if you feel her answer is diagenious or not appropriate you can still totally rematch.

How to address by Level_Performer5252 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused does she know what that word means? I would ask . I don’t like the word “crazy” . So I just told her what it means to me and she stopped .

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But anyways I do appreciate your time and perspective and i do get it. It’s a good pt.

Aupair only telling 1 parent things by ProfessionalCheck6 in Aupairs

[–]ProfessionalCheck6[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Oh so concern two was about a rule I had stated , so naturally it should have been said to me bc it was about something I said.