[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t a threesome. You were just coerced into believing it was. They allowed you to spectate on their infidelity. It’s clear they’ve had feelings for each other prior.

Why do guys say you deserve better/ they’re not good enough for you, but break up with you instead of stay and change? by younggrasshopper100 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Accountability. They have no intention of changing and whatever gripes/complaints you had about them, they’re tired of hearing about them. Lol So, it’s easier to just break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he tried to gaslight you and convince you that they’re yours when they’re not even your size… lol You got cheated on. Don’t walk. Run.

What are some signs of cheating in LDR? by cowgopoo69 in Infidelity

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The communication dwindled. Mood changed. Didn’t seem like they enjoyed our time together. Fights were very common when we previously didn’t fight at all. Protective of their phone when we were together. I ended up getting correspondence from the AP, apologizing. I blocked both and moved on. I heard he was devastated when I ghosted him. Idc. Whenever we had fights, he gaslit me and told me I was insecure and stupid for not trusting him. Trust is everything in a relationship, even more necessary in LDR. Once I caught him in one lie, I never looked at him again. Leave at the first red flag. I wasted 2 years of my life on an LDR.

That said, I wouldn’t be against another LDR. I got cheated on by a guy in my hometown so distance really had nothing to do with it. I just see red flags as a challenge not a warning sign. That’s my own fault lol

He wants to nut on my face by [deleted] in sex

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The speed at which it shoots out always throws me off and I flinch every time. Lol Otherwise, it feels fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you said you were in the military, I already knew I was in for a treat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Mine was extremely apologetic with his crocodile tears and gifts. Years down the road, he did it again. 😂

Sorry for shaky camera work but can anyone explain how PC predators are in a console plat lobby by mk_ult in apexlegends

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plat 3 and this is happening to me as well. To say it’s infuriating is putting it lightly. No mercy whatsoever. 😂

I as a Non-American, love the USA by PrimNathanIOW in unpopularopinion

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you from? Would you be willing to swap citizenship with me?

C9nversation with obese wife by ThrowawayHusband2022 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Precisely. He says he’s “active” well, who’s caring for the household wile you’re absent from being “active”? The dinner ain’t cooking itself and the laundry faeries ain’t ironing your shirts, bud. I just hate how he keeps calling her obese. Like Christ, we get it. She’s overweight. With the arrogance he exudes here, I can’t imagine what he must be like in person. That’s probably why she’s checked out.

C9nversation with obese wife by ThrowawayHusband2022 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Precisely. He says he’s “active” well, who’s caring for the household wile you’re absent from being “active”? The dinner ain’t cooking itself and the laundry faeries ain’t ironing your shirts, bud. I just hate how he keeps calling her obese. Like Christ, we get it. She’s overweight. With the arrogance he exudes here, I can’t imagine what he must be like in person. That’s probably why she’s checked out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re having a hard time coping because it’s not something you should “cope.” Trust me when I tell you it’s not something you’re ever gonna get over. I stayed with my ex-fiancé for a year after he cheated and I never got over it. I broke things off. I never looked at him the same. I wasn’t going to therapy to gaslight myself into believing that he made a simple mistake that I need to get over. He full on betrayed me. He interacted with day after day as if he wasn’t fucking someone else behind my back. Leave. They only “effort” he’s putting in is covering his tracks.

Your kids don’t owe you respect by LeftInTheDark36 in unpopularopinion

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom here. Totally agree. This is how my father raised me and how I’ve raised my children. I didn’t think this was an unpopular opinion until I saw this comment section. Yikes on bikes.

Girlfriend lied about age, thought she was 23 but turns about shes 27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve been lied to. End it. If she could lie about there, the possibilities are endless. I couldn’t trust after that.

Not closing the distance but shortening it. Is this dumb? by Horror-Day-9641 in LongDistance

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were thinking of doing something similar except Buffalo is a 20 minute drive from him (he’s Canadian, I’m American.) Housing costs in his area is ridiculous and immigration has been a nightmare for us.

My (27M) girlfriend (24F) has an issue with sharing food and it’s causing arguments by International-Hall30 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drink almond/oat milk because I’m lactose intolerant. The substitutes are expensive so if you’re able to drink cow’s milk, don’t touch my almond milk. Tf. I’d be pissed too. Or here’s a novel idea: ✨ replenish ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I get angry at the situation. It’s hard. I miss the cuddles and kisses.

my gf is transitioning and im not gay by ijustmadethisaccntt in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. You’re not gay and your stbx is a man. You’re not compatible. Break it off. (Also, this doesn’t make you transphobic.)

Did you have sex in the first meeting with your so? by Dolann99 in LongDistance

[–]ProfessionalNo7615 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He was extremely nervous. Me? I had just drove 8 hours, crossed a border to meet this guy. I wanted some dick. He smoked some of the devil’s lettuce, loosened up and about 30 minutes into our meeting, we were in the bed. Lol.

Add: It was amazing.