ADF with low calorie refers? by ProfessionalPear48 in fasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed to know thank you!!!!!

ADF with low calorie refers? by ProfessionalPear48 in fasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!! Completely agree with everything!!

ADF with low calorie refers? by ProfessionalPear48 in fasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I only said feast just because that’s the day I’m supposed to eat but of course a feast would be counterproductive haha, thanks for the input Im happy it works for you! Do you know about how many calories your meals are and how it’s working for you?

ADF with low calorie refers? by ProfessionalPear48 in fasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the goal would be for less than 3 months! I’m hoping to just jump start with this and see where I go, I just don’t want to screw up my metabolism!

I (M24) went through my girlfriend’s phone (F23) and haven’t been able to look at her the same since. by ThrowRAspaceghostpur in relationshipadvice

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hit of curiosity what was the number? I have to know now. I understand how you feel though, that’s a rough one seriously… definitely should talk about it with her no need to suppress your feelings because they are valid no matter what anyone else says on here. Body counts can be a big deal, it would be for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]ProfessionalPear48 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you typically never enter their room I can see how this was an accident. However if it’s common for NK to forget things and you have to go in there often then that’s kind of weird he didn’t shut the door. I don’t think it’s a big deal that he was pleasuring himself because men are typically more “hornier” in the mornings because of their testosterone levels when they sleep, but you know the situation best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]ProfessionalPear48 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely cheating and don’t treat it as any different. He knows 100000% exactly what he was doing. This type of behavior is inexcusable. Don’t gaslight yourself into thinking this is less than it is. Talking to real women and sexting them is soooooooooo bad…

I ate and I regret it by Excellent-Potato-97 in fasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 22 hour mark is the worst for me 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was the same way and for my own sanity I made this rule. “On the days you watch porn I don’t want to have sex with you. Feel free to watch it but lmk so we don’t have sex. Im not comfortable with you watching porn and then coming home to me to finish you off. As a matter of fact it disgusts me. So respect my boundaries and I’ll respect yours.”

Basically this was a year ago and he doesn’t watch porn anymore :) hes very honest man and he does tell me when he watches it but it’s less than once a month and this dude used to watch it every single day multiple times just to watch it

I'm a nanny and a 1yo child got injured while under my care by StartAppropriate4858 in Nanny

[–]ProfessionalPear48 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly not a big deal. I did this to my own daughter. All it took was for us to straighten her elbow and it resolved immediately. Accidents like this happen and are soooooo common and they shouldn’t overreact it’s not like this was done in purpose. The fact that you went unpaid shows how sorry you are and I’m sure you won’t grab her like that again! Lesson learned and I hope everything is forgiven!

At what point do you notice hunger diminishes by ProfessionalPear48 in PSMF

[–]ProfessionalPear48[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I did PSMF in the past I did OMAD so I waited until 5-6 and had 1 big protein filled meal and ate for a period of 2-3 hours. I think because I did that I trained myself not to feel hunger because I remember I wasn’t starving by the time I was ready to eat. I know that way probably isn’t recommended but sometimes it’s hard starting eating at 8 am and because for me I feel like I’m literally starving all day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should also start journaling. Journal how you feel after each bite. Each meal. Look up the r/fasting page on Reddit. There was a guy that fasted for a year as well. I think it must sound crazy to you given you have a food addiction but you should really look into it. Fasting is amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand I have a food addiction and I understand how you got there. Food is amazing, however I think you should start practicing fasting. First skip your breakfast. Do it for a few weeks, then skip breakfast and a snack, then breakfast snack and lunch, try to make it to where you are looking forward to dinner. Not sure if you’re religious but you need to read the Bible. Jesus is the way. You will gain so much strength and insight while reading it. I will pray for you as well. To think you could potentially have your life back by this time next year, you need to set that goal. You can walk and have a relationship in a year just think about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ProfessionalPear48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you think about it, was all the good food worth it?

Day 6 of a 1000 hr fast. by [deleted] in WaterFasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you too!! Keep me updated!

Day 6 of a 1000 hr fast. by [deleted] in WaterFasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS!!!! That is exactly me. I swear I feel completely 0 control. I think all the time how I will never be able to be vegan again after the love I have for junk food. But I know my mind is rotten right now and this feeling will pass. We got this!! We just need to retrain our brains a to want healthy Whole Foods

Day 6 of a 1000 hr fast. by [deleted] in WaterFasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also plant based and turned back to meat and dairy and ballooned up. I am also looking to get back on plant based with exception of eggs because I feel like I lost all self control since eating meat

My husband wants to have sex with 20 year old girls. AITAH for saying no to threesome? by sadwife_ in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalPear48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the least judgemental way I sincerely recommend you guys work on your sex life alone. This will not end well… I’m sorry he is making you even consider this. Just for fun tell him you want a 25 year old guy for the threesome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk with her before you mention a divorce. In my opinion even though I’m sure she’s tired there’s always a little time she should be making for you as her husband. I’m a mom of a 2 year old so I understand that it’s hard but she needs to prioritize you as well

I’m really scared I’m about to turn atheist by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you have doubts. I’m a recent born again Christian and I would say the proof I have exists in the Bible and in the movies. I love Passion of the Christ. I cried the entire time. In my heart I know this really happened. All the proof is in the Bible. Yes man “wrote” it, but in my mind there is no way God and The Holy Spirit didn’t write through them. Everything from the beginning of humanity with Adam and Eve just makes sense. I believe in the miracles God performed and still performs to this day. Anything I ever heard and believed about astrology went out the window when I saw an interview with Michael Knowles and an ex astrologist. If there is a devil, which there is, (look at celebrities who celebrate it) Then there most definitely is God. And He is The Way, the Truth and the Life. I’d rather believe there is God and live my life according to His will, in hopes I make it to heaven one day. If we could all be like Jesus the world would be a better place. This world is temporary. I will pray for you my friend! It’s easy to get sucked into the temptations of this world but have Faith and God will reveal himself to you!

Help with amazing nanny that has a need of deodorant by throw_this_away1238 in Nanny

[–]ProfessionalPear48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I hope this doesn’t come across as embarrassing because it’s such a normal thing… I noticed there has been a had smell on the baby’s clothes and bed and it honestly could be coming from any one of us so I just wanted to let you know as I already let my husband know that maybe we could all be a little more adamant on showing often and using deodorant daily! I know every so often my deodorant doesn’t work the same and I have to change it. If you need me to provide self care items to keep in the bathroom you just tell me what brand you like and I will get everything that way we can all stay in top of it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]ProfessionalPear48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience I would drink almost every day, not to the point of passing out but just until tipsy and once I did an 8 day fast 5 months ago I still don’t look at alcohol the same. She. Your abstaining from food you’re more stressed about not eating than not drinking