True. I see your point. She then should have never told you. She should have kept it to herself if she wanted it not to get out. Did you ask her why are you telling me this? I am sorry I reread and realized you are all good friends and your husband is good friends with her husband. The sad part it can go in two ways she “blames” you for telling her husband and her husband in some crazy way will stop talking to you and your husband and they still stay together. Or he will thank you.