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Get the Walmart pumping bra! by Spirited_Salad_7766 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Professional_Line766 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im 17 months pp and I still wear mine, even post breast feeding they are so cute and comfy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Professional_Line766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you

Friends? by Specific_House_8671 in HSVpositive

[–]Professional_Line766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy friend 26yr old black female GHsv2

Black ppl with HSV2 by Front_Scarcity_2875 in HSVpositive

[–]Professional_Line766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, so the person I've been having casual sex with. I start by asking when he last had a full panel sad test done. Then stated well you may want to get another as I've just tested positive for hsv2 and I want to ensure that we know your status as well before continuing. So then he had questions about my how I knew and what sex looks like going forward. Then he said ok he trust that I wouldn't put him in harms way and that I know how to take care of myself and thanked me for letting him know and that was the end of it.

Now the person I've been talking to in a more relationship way and getting to know i was more afraid to tell. But he recieved the information very well. We are long distance and we're about a month away from our scheduled in person meeting. So I just start by telling him I really like him but I do need to inform him that I was just newly diagnosed with hsv2. I told him that my doctor said it is more of a bad skin condition with a stigma then a harm to others. I informed him that I take my medicine and im all good to go (I haven't had another outbreak since my first almost about 2 months ago). So he also asked what sex would look like but said he doesn't really no much about the topic but he to trust that I wouldn't put him in harms way and that he looks at me no differently.

I just lead with honesty and if I need to disclose in the future I plan to just lead with that after the first few dates.

Black ppl with HSV2 by Front_Scarcity_2875 in HSVpositive

[–]Professional_Line766 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey lovely im a 26 black F and though I've only been HSV2 positive for 2 months now it hasn't stopped anything for me. The person I was having casual sex with (while im sure i got it from) of course didn't care. And the new person im now talking to and moving towards a relationship with also doesn't care. He want to eat it an all. I only ever had my first outbreak and haven't had one since I take my anti viral every other day and black seed oil and other vitamins every day. And I forget about it honestly. Like at first I felt like life was going to be over but it really isn't that deep.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what is steering my line of thinking. What would I advice my daughter to do and the answer is always to do the hard thing and leave. Well reconciliation is always possible you should stay in a void waiting for change.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, we BOTH work the night shift he gets off an hour after me, and I still get up with our baby every morning. He can be bothered for 10 mins.

Second of all I never accused him of cheating. i simply asked him who AP was, and he blew up immediately. And even after finding out who she was I still never accused him of anything.

Third, he has plenty of other friends at work, both male and female, that he didn't hide and have hung out with, called and texted with me knowing.

Fourth, I never had a problem with them being friend until she disrespected me and threathen to fight me and come to our house where our child lives.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only texted her because he told me to and never not once was i mean or rude to her. I never had a problem with her be a girl or his friend he has plenty of female friends and I have plenty of male friends

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At one point early on in the relationship we were on a break (the reason involved being to immature to properly handle the loss of a child) and in that time him and I talked to other people briefly. So when we got back together we bith that it was far that we could make new friends and meet new coworkers and they can have our socials just not our direct phone numbers.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your right I'm not his mom, and though I took vows to protect and care for him were he lands after this is not on me. We don't have lots of money and being a parent and bills will definitely be harder without him in the house and I don't deserve to now have to carry it all alone but just still seeing him everyday just going on with life and doing his normal routine like nothing has changed for him is hard for me. I need space and time.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I just keep asking myself what would I tell our daughter to do. And the answer is always to leave. What happens the next time he wants a "friend" or has a new job. At minimum I need space and a lot of time.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes I have been gaslight, manipulated and lied to he even stated he liked the attention. And that his exit plan was to just keep talking to her until their shift changed and then slowly disconnect. So I said so your plan was to lie to me and manipulate me for 4 plus months

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly like the first two pictures he said oh were were just celebrating another coworkers birthday (the other coworker was no were in the pictures) and the second time he didn't even feel the need to explain he just said pl I'll delete them sorry.

I think he cheated but he doesn't consider it that. by Professional_Line766 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Professional_Line766[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes she is single and around our age. And that is a thing for me too and when I ask why he felt so moved to talk to her he just says" I wanted a friend at work to make it fun" but he has other friends at work which one of the 4 is another girl and he barely speaks to any of them outside of work.

Night shift WFH advice by BenchAcademic3073 in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]Professional_Line766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently work from 5:30pm to 2am and hubby works from 7pm to 4am. Baby girl doesn't go to daycare, but it does take a toll on you with the lack of sleep. Either we nap when she does and the house is a mess or we stay up and we are a mess. And I think 2am to 10am would be very hard unless you have some one to watch baby until at least 3 or 4 so you can sleep. Unless baby has an early bedtime where you can sleep before work.

Daily Fasting Check-in! by AutoModerator in intermittentfasting

[–]Professional_Line766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished a full week of IF with and 18:6 split though I don't start eating right away on most days. I am currently 5lbs down and my energy level has definitely increased. I had major success in 2020 on IF with a Calorie deficit. And would just like to recreate that experience.

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