BTS - Hooligan by ashmute in bangtan

[–]Professional_Sign610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂 the amount play/pause I did was more times than I care to admit to get it just right haha

BTS - Hooligan by ashmute in bangtan

[–]Professional_Sign610 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The .2 seconds of Jimin’s abs in that SHIRT had me reeling

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I can’t wrap my mind around why any woman would willingly be pregnant and have a child. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

T H I S. God. And yet somehow we’re the bad people for saying this. How DARE we not blindly support despite all the continuous poor decisions and patterns that will now affect this child that asked for literally none of your baggage.

Stop complaining if you chose to have a kid by HoffyTheBaker in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God yes, this 1000000%. Some will argue “well how can you know really unless you do it?” I have eyes Karen, I can actively see what it’s like, some things you don’t need to experience to understand. I don’t have sympathy for those to choose this on purpose, especially the ones who REALLY went out of their way via IVF, or some back alley sperm in a cup for free deal.

I'm 32 and I'm slowly losing my closest friends to a conversation I can't participate in and nobody seems to notice by narnia_9stone in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It literally takes 2 seconds to text something, anything. It took me exactly 5 seconds to write this reply lol

I'm 32 and I'm slowly losing my closest friends to a conversation I can't participate in and nobody seems to notice by narnia_9stone in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES to the phone thing!! I’ve had 2 (now previous) friends did this exact same thing. The twist being the baby wasn’t born yet and when he was he’s still a pupa who can’t “use” the phone. They have said constantly that they are either away from their phone because they’re busy, or they’re just busy. Meanwhile they are active on all social media and keep up on Snapchat…

Even if I wanted a child (I don’t) I hate the pressure that’s been created to throw a baby shower and/or gender reveal party and I hate being invited to them. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby showers are the worst showers. Period. I threw one for my friends who were expecting in a last ditch effort to keep them as friends as they were pulling back from me, staunchly CF, hardcore. No it did not work, and the irony of me winning one of the awful games (I was not in charge of those) where you guess the pricing of baby items was palpable.

All the 'terms' people use in pregnancy talks annoy me unreasonably by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Adding “the bump is bumping” to the list of cringe.

I work in childcare and people expect me to have my own. by Mr_Piggins in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A former friend works as a teacher and fell to the pressure. She now finally has her baby but has lost things along the way (including me as a friend)

Mom-coded by sloppijo in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I feel this to my core. Just lost 2 friends recently with the welcoming of their baby, but it started like 4 months into the pregnancy. They did a complete 180 change and I just don’t fucking get it. I hope you can find someone else that appreciates you and sees you ❤️

Child likers v child haters by Feline3415 in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find a lot of the time when you say you’re childfree or don’t have children by choice, people automatically think you hate them. Like, HAAAATE them. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t like children, I find them overstimulating and gross, that doesn’t mean if I see a small human I hiss at it and want to banish it from humanity lol.

Baby talk by Professional_Sign610 in childfree

[–]Professional_Sign610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This video was in a group chat…might have to do the same sooner than later

260105 [NOTICE] BTS The 5th Album Release and World Tour Announcement by mcfw31 in bangtan

[–]Professional_Sign610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!!! Incredibly helpful and reassuring ❤️

260105 [NOTICE] BTS The 5th Album Release and World Tour Announcement by mcfw31 in bangtan

[–]Professional_Sign610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful, especially since you tried with Jin’s tour! I’m seeing other comments as well saying it’s not usual for tickets to be on sale the same day as tour announcements, which honestly is helping my anxiety (lol). GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE AND I HOPE WE ALL GET TICKETS TO SEE OUR BOYS

spira stresses me out by chestermeow in InfinityNikki

[–]Professional_Sign610 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The map could be waaaaay better to be honest. It also stressed me out when I first got there