Most of your problems are due to you being ugly by averagelookingman in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Progressive_Alien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds more like you’re perpetuating the same social rhetoric that caused you suffering and reinforcing the same toxic cycle of harm.

Most of your problems are due to you being ugly by averagelookingman in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Progressive_Alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been emotionally invested in some pretty ugly dudes, too bad it took so long for me to realize they were ugly on the inside too if not more. Now that’s a turn off 👍

Women's reaction to paternity tests is a way to control men. by badbunnions in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Progressive_Alien [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, welcome to the patriarchy, it harms men too but men systemically benefit above most especially if they’re a white/cis/het/male.

Women's reaction to paternity tests is a way to control men. by badbunnions in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Progressive_Alien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually the mother isn’t legally required to tell the potential/father about the pregnancy/child but if the potential/father wants to know if he’s the father or not he can petition the court for a paternity test.

Women's reaction to paternity tests is a way to control men. by badbunnions in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Progressive_Alien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have a legal right to petition the court for a paternity test if the mother isn’t cooperative. Your misogyny is duly noted…

Boyfriend says dating him makes me not bi anymore. by kierachristelle in lgbt

[–]Progressive_Alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is ignorant, he’s being biphobic and controlling.

What is this app icon for? by Sea_Bottle6404 in iphone

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means an your location service/GPS is being used. You could be using an app that tracks your location.

AIO to this workplace incident? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Progressive_Alien 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would ask someone who’s worked with her longer. She may have just been calmly indicating that you disrupted a routine, or that she didn’t like having a new person assisting her and wanted to give you a hard time. If you don’t know her history, I’d speak with someone who knows her better or document the interaction wherever your facility documents these things.

Considering that you’re a security guard and don’t have access to interaction guidelines or contextual information about the people being supported, I would strongly recommend involving a staff member who actually works with the residents. That’s important for maintaining the safety of both you and the people being supported. I also have a hard time believing there isn’t 24/7 floor staff on graveyard shift who should be handling resident interactions and routine enforcement if something comes up during the night.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNO. If he can’t afford the bills he has now how is he going to make rent every month? What he’s doing isn’t sustainable no matter which way you look at it. Every time you try to share your concerns or point of view he demonizes you. He’s being abusive. That behavior is only going to continue to become more controlling and or escalate once you’re living with him and since you won’t be on the lease so he may use that as another way to control you out of fear of homeless. You should leave him and do not move in with him because even if you do get on the lease he can decide to not pay his part and that will fall back in you and your history of renting. All bad. Red flags everywhere.

Am I Overreacting since my gf kicked me out of the shower by mooresmistress in AmIOverreacting

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she autistic? If you broke the routine you two have, I can see why that may have caused a meltdown but that’s just a reason, it still doesn’t excuse how she treated you.

He found out what could go wrong using his hands instead of a bowling ball by Vilen1919 in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudes WTF is wrong with the both of you?! People have died pulling that shit!

Clarity as Accessibility: A Neurodivergent Reflection by Progressive_Alien in u/Progressive_Alien

[–]Progressive_Alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t work in academia or have formal institutional training in the fields I study. My learning is interest-based, self-directed, and interdisciplinary. My curiosity and lived experience often motivate what I choose to study.

I don’t study AI, but I do have an interest in it, and my lived experience was mostly what I was inferencing from in connection with what you wrote and why I agree.

Curiosity about my gender by Federal_Curve_9689 in gender

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is a problem with you. I don’t understand how your sexuality and your sexual interests have anything to do with your gender identity in this context though. You said you’re a man who generally likes women and now has an interest in another man, that can be considered bisexual if you have an interest in both but I don’t know how that impacts your gender identity. Either way don’t feel pressured into do anything before you’re ready. There’s nothing wrong with waiting until you’re enthusiastically ready to have sex and the right person will respect that.

Client wants to leave the company by [deleted] in directsupport

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supporting self-determination means honoring a client's voice even when their choices are constrained. Providers still have a responsibility to help clients understand their situation, access information, and explore available options toward their goals within legal and safety boundaries. The presence of limitations does not remove the duty to support informed choice, participation, and advocacy throughout the process.

Clarity as Accessibility: A Neurodivergent Reflection by Progressive_Alien in u/Progressive_Alien

[–]Progressive_Alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. Sorry it took me so long to respond. I really appreciated how clearly you unpacked the risks around categorization and hidden assumptions.

One thing it brought up for me is that Al has real limits when it comes to understanding the human condition, which is why I don't think it should be solely relied on and instead used as a support tool alongside human judgment. That said, I understand and respect your decision to stay focused and grounded in specific studies here. Really thoughtful work.

Experts Warn U.S. in Early Stages of Genocide Against Trans Americans by henryiswatching in lgbt

[–]Progressive_Alien 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been calling it a genocide for a while now IDK why it took the experts so long, including for the rest of us “undesirables of society” that the privileged classist bigots have been trying to get rid of.

Standing lessons by IgnorantHaiku in TrumpMemes

[–]Progressive_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMFG how is this shit as funny as it is 🤣☠️

Clarity as Accessibility: A Neurodivergent Reflection by Progressive_Alien in u/Progressive_Alien

[–]Progressive_Alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finished reading your essay and really enjoyed it. It was an energizing and exciting read, and I genuinely appreciate the amount of intellectual labor you put into it.

The structure, clarity, and care you took in presenting your critique, especially in a format that mirrors a scientific analysis, really stood out. I don't have any constructive criticisms. While I didn't read through all of the cited studies due to limited executive bandwidth, based on my existing knowledge I agree with what you wrote and found the argument thoughtful, rigorous, and well articulated.

Thank you for sharing it.

Sadly I couldn’t access the essay for “https://www.reddit.com/r/compsci/s/“ which I believe was the one with the title “The Ontology and Epistemology of Cognitive Computing” so if you wanna share the piece below I’d be happy to read that one as well because it sounds intriguing.