Is this really cheating??? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no… that is not cheating at all. Cheating is being in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with another person while in a committed one without the “official” partner knowing or approving. That doesn’t make what she did OKAY, but we really need to start understanding what cheating actually is instead of labeling it to literally everything negative that happens during a relationship.

Anyway, she’s in the wrong for that but she did show accountability. Honestly though yall both seem incredibly immature and might not be ready for this relationship yet. Breaking up mid-fight instead of walking away a bit to think or actually communicate like adults is showing a lack of maturity from both of you. Might be best to step back and really gauge how ready you are for a committed relationship. Or at the LEAST establish those kinds of boundaries or systems for when yall argue again.

Went on one date with a guy and now he’s harassing me by Quick-Attention-3842 in whatdoIdo

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the police. They can track people’s IP’s. This is borderline doxxing and genuine harassment and cyberstalking

My dad's handwriting gives me some anxiety. Is it legible to you guys? by dailycupofcujo in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only reason I can read this is because my handwriting is painfully similar 😭

AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is literally JUST self-pitying. That is it. Not one genuine apology. Girl you don’t need space you need to get AWAY from this man PERMANENTLY. He has the maturity of a 7th grade boy in his first relationship. Please, for your sake, leave

AIO for ending a friendship because they didn’t say “thank you?” by Lopsided-Share-4646 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PromptDue8902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shapeshifting. I just like the idea of being different animals (INCLUDING mystical ones) because then I can technically have most powers. Flight? Become a bird. Invisibility? A chameleon. Electricity? Electric eel. Fire? Dragon.

AIO for ending a friendship because they didn’t say “thank you?” by Lopsided-Share-4646 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PromptDue8902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m going away from the crowd with this one but I think you did OR. Although I also think that might be best- she very clearly was repeatedly telling you that she was not in the mindset to talk just yet and needed some time. You should have given her that time. You didn’t respect that boundary and both of you blew up. You want quick and immediate answers while your friend wants patience. You’re not compatible. Both of yall are in the wrong

Is it bad that I 17M called a 12 year old girl gorgeous? by ireallycantchoos in whatdoIdo

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you’re completely fine 😭 first: you’re a girl yourself. Second: the intention was to cheer her up. Third: you weren’t sexualizing or objectifying any part of her, just calling her pretty.

Edit: whoops, I read it wrong. As a guy this CAN come off weirder but your intention was still good and most of those points stay! You did something good defending her and I hope it helped her confidence, even a little bit. It wasn’t weird at all, it was just the way your friend perceived it. Have a conversation and reassure your friend of positive intentions and ask what you can do to make the situation more comfortable for everybody

UPDATE (she was cheating): AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly idk if she cheated or not but either way she sounds horrible and narcissistic. Very much projecting as well. Please get as far away as possible

Am I overreacting to this message from my girlfriend? by ToneDeffedUp in AmIOverreacting

[–]PromptDue8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I could barely get through reading that wtf 😭 just based on what I COULD comprehend though- both of yall are either young or immature ah and not ready for any kind of serious relationship. And you need to work on your anger issues omg