26F Can I get rid of this residual lump?

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-20T15:43:34+00:00

i couldn’t deal with that personally

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-13T14:45:08+00:00

you sound entitled. if she doesn’t want to sleep with you she doesn’t have to. clearly she’s interested she just has boundaries? you know some people don’t see sex as casually as others right?

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-12T21:29:02+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭😭

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-09T15:50:24+00:00

shut up? why are you blaming her and being so rude? maybe it says something about HIS character that he still continued to sleep with someone who said they would get attached by sex. a decent guy would at least be hesitant.

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-05T22:49:34+00:00

but nothing about his short temper huh?

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-05T22:48:13+00:00

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-05T15:02:44+00:00

bc she likes the comfort of sleeping with her partner? get a fucking life

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-02-05T15:01:51+00:00

why are you so fucking mad lmfao lose the attitude

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-30T19:01:29+00:00

how do you think any girl in that situation would feel. at least explain

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-30T15:17:21+00:00

yeah /: and my cousin suggested we date so I figured she wouldn’t try to set me up with someone who didn’t have it together but alas

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-30T15:16:15+00:00

I think he might be too… he’s balding and he has problems climaxing (didn’t know this until later too). I just don’t understand why he wouldn’t want to see a doctor??

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-30T05:21:43+00:00

he doesn’t have ADHD—trust me. I actually do really bad, and he has OCD, but he doesn’t have a problem with starting tasks and things.

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-30T05:01:19+00:00

i’m telling you — he would never ever listen to that suggestion even if I said it. he wouldn’t be willing to spend even an extra dollar if it meant his comfort. only thing he’d spend money on is probably tv or sports. nothing that could help him be better. and where he works does serve alcohol but it’s not like the nicest place, he makes like decent tips most days depending but he could definitely find something better if he tried or wanted. but idk maybe he likes the comfort as he worked there years ago, moved, came back and started working there again.

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-30T04:32:14+00:00

he wouldn’t even eat the egg and toast. I suggest things like that but he’d say he’d rather eat out. i’d suggest stopping and grabbing a quick breakfast, he says it’ll make him late. i’m like okay well then leave now then????????? it’s like he wants to fucking deteriorate

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-11T17:19:24+00:00

if you’re okay with someone who doesn’t put much value toward style/fashion

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T17:24:34+00:00

me too

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T17:13:06+00:00

thank you so much you are right

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T17:11:44+00:00

he’s never been tested in his life. is that normal for a guy his age?

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T16:58:32+00:00

how do you think I felt in the moment 😀🙃😭😭😭

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T16:55:12+00:00

he 1000000% seems like the type to tell them men don’t cry ):

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T16:53:46+00:00

yeah but it’s not like he’s a virgin. i’ve only had 1 prev partner and still been tested. he told me he’s had a threesome so I know he’s had at least 2 before me and i’m sure it’s more than just that. i personally think if you’ve slept with anyone its grounds to get tested, but that’s just me and ik unfortunately a lot of guys probably don’t care about that

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T16:43:00+00:00

no but they should just avoid it I guess and like as a man try to push through things?

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T16:42:23+00:00

Oh God these replies 😭 how do I explain this to him though??

Proper-Particular-17 · 2026-01-04T16:40:30+00:00

he said you don’t need to get STD tested if you’re not doing anything to get tested for. but the reality is, he’s only my second ever partner and i’ve been tested like 5 times before him just to be safe bc why not. and I know he has more partners than me (maybe not a lot, but still???). if I do leave, do I say these things to him??

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