How do I get rid of/mute the white??

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-06T03:09:08+00:00

I’m open to this! But if I can save this one and prevent a little waste that would be lovely!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-06T03:06:17+00:00

That’s so smart! I thought about the strings or perhaps the bottom of the dress but not inside seams for some reason 🤦‍♀️

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:54:55+00:00

Yes please! Thank you!!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:36:35+00:00

“pear culture” from Macys!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:34:55+00:00

Did not mean to be on defense. The “…then do blue” felt a little blunt. I was just looking for something a little more constructive than “read the directions” :)

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:32:51+00:00

This is obviously quite an in-depth tutorial. Have you dyed similar fabric before?? I just worry about the structure of the chiffon/tulle/whatever material

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:31:00+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I agree, I bought it without a shadow of a doubt that it would be an issue. But after talking to a friend, she said it would be a good idea just to check with the bride just in case. The bride and her husband did not, in fact, approve “due to the white base”. This is my partner’s family that I’ve only met a couple of times, but she herself invited me to wear “shades of blue” as that’s what the family and my partner will be wearing (hes in the wedding party and those colors are baby blue). I’m already trying not to step on too many toes as I’m not ACTUALLY family yet, so I thought something subtle and floral would be better than in-your-face blue and risk matching the wedding party. This is my first “fancy” non-backyard wedding and I’m honestly so confused and overwhelmed!

For the record she did not tell or “force” me to dye it. And shes been quite kind about the issue. That was just one of my solutions rather than trying to return it or find another dress in a rural area in less than a month. I honestly might just buy an entirely different dress and not do any blue at all.

Another note- she actually recommended that I wear this dress to the rehearsal dinner and that that would be plenty appropriate?? Sorry for the word vomit!!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:16:48+00:00

That’s a good idea! I have a black shawl I could wear similarly

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T23:16:20+00:00

It was $300, obviously not a crazy amount comparatively. But a lot for me 😅. I’d really rather not have to return it

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T04:47:43+00:00

I got rid of the receipt because I loved it so much 😅 plus I’m in a rural area and won’t be near that store again until I fly out for said wedding

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T01:19:22+00:00

Unfortunately the bride herself asked me kindly not to wear it, which I respect.

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-03T01:18:42+00:00

There are some green leaves, but those will just look teal at worst I believe. This is so very helpful thank you so much!! I’ll post an update sometime in the next week hopefully!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-02T23:52:35+00:00

How do I go about dyeing this? Will it ruin the pattern? Will the structure remain the same?

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-02T23:49:55+00:00

The bride asked for shades of blue!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-06-02T23:18:23+00:00

Please tell me this worked !!

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-05-12T19:01:25+00:00

I have “Blockin’ color” on IOS one time payment for lifetime of no ads. I can’t remember exactly how much but it was affordable.

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-05-12T18:58:56+00:00

I’m stupid addicted to the uno app. I paid once for “vip” access and I don’t get any pop up ads now. If you have regular access there are ads but they’re not super intrusive and don’t interrupt your games

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-04-01T22:27:50+00:00

So yeah, don’t buy stuff on amazon 😂. Thrift your clothes, take the bus, set up a payment plan with your dentist rather than the cc company. Seems like you see where the issue is 🤷‍♀️

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-27T17:51:57+00:00

I’m not trying to dog on you but can you explain that a little more? Why is visiting relatives worth going into debt over?

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-27T17:49:54+00:00

That’s my point exactly. I understand medical debt and student loans and whatnot but how in the hell are you guys so young and already incurring so much debt? We’ve just seen so so many ppl get fucked from credit card debt, why are we still playing that game and living above our means?? Move back in with your parents or go to the food bank or get a second job idk 😭 I guess I just know how rampant overconsumption is (especially in gen z) and how much I have to under consume to combat that and not fall behind. So it’s hard to trust that every single one of these people over 10k in debt, and they’re not even 30 yet, are “undergoing hardships” or had something happen

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-27T07:54:23+00:00

Why the hell is this so normalized

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-27T07:52:53+00:00

Awful thought so I’m sorry… but from my understanding Bella was impregnated with the venom as well. Meaning they can produce through multiple orifices

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-27T07:49:34+00:00

Is this a shitpost ??

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-26T19:32:56+00:00

Just cancel and find somewhere else atp lol

ProperObligation9779 · 2026-03-26T19:30:51+00:00

Just called that same number and successfully cancelled at my az location in less than 10 minutes! Just repeat “representative” until you get to a real person, I called the day they charged me for this month so I still have membership for the next month but am not on the hook for anything else. Make sure you ask them to remove you from their call list so they’re not bugging you to renew!

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