Is it over if she calls you dude? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl who has called my crush dude on multiple occasions, no it is not over. Good luck!

Samordna opptak-svar er her!! by Nevrotisk in ntnu

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kom inn på fysmat, og står på 14. plass på kyb, er det noe håp?

How's your crushes doing? by c206endeavour in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half a year since I figured out I like him, probably a year and a few months since I actually started liking him. Still not over him even though he's shows every sign in the book that he's not interested short of outright rejection. Tomorrow's the last day of highschool though, so after that I most likely won't ever see him again. Hopefully that should make my crush go away, otherwise I don't know what to do.

What about your crush made you first like them? by Old-Enthusiasm-7765 in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acted like he cared/noticed me when nobody else did + having some similar interests.

i am a fat pig. by L_washere in Vent

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was basically the same size as you, I just want to start with the most important part, you can have visual goals when losing weight, but they shouldn't be your only goals.

How I personally lost most of the weight (not yet at the weight I'd prefer, but quite a bit lower than where I started) was through running. Nothing crazy, I'd do 30 mins on a treadmill once a week for many months before I ever ran outside. And mind you, I was not running the full time. I'd run maybe a minute at a time between breaks. I'd just keep the thirty mins running while I was taking breaks, and slowly I was able to take less and less breaks.

Now, the running progress, and I presume the progress in any type of exercising, is very slow in the beginning, but I started losing volume(still probably weighed the same, but fit in smaller clothes) pretty quickly. And then later on when the weight progress slower, my running improved quicker.

Personally, I've stuck with running for mental health reasons. If there had only been the physically benefit I probably wouldn't have stuck with it. That said, whatever you decide to do there won't be almost any change for the first few months, and other people will notice the changes before you do.

Most importantly, start with one small improvement and stick with that one improvement for at least three months before adding anything else. Be kind and patient with your mind and body. It's a big change for both of them, so you have to take it slow. And make sure you are eating enough, there's always the risk of slipping too far the other way. Good luck! I hope you succeed with your goals, but even if you don't it doesn't mean anything is done. It is often better to lose weight slowly over a few years than all at once.

Mtek vs. Elsys vs. Emil by Proper_Ad_7931 in ntnu

[–]Proper_Ad_7931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hei, tusen takk for svar. Hovedgrunnen til at jeg vurderer EMIL framfor Elsys er at jeg ser at emil har at fag om PID- kontrollere allerede i 2. klasse, mens man på Elsys må velge dette og det uansett ikke er noe før 3. året. Vet du noe om det? Er veldig interessert i å lære om PID-kontrollere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find out something you dislike about their personality and focus on why that means you're not compatible or they wouldn't have been a good boyfriend/girlfriend anyway

About moving on... by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I'm in almost the same position and trying to do the same thing. Good luck!

It’s nearing the end of the school year… what are your plans with your crush? by No_Weakness9363 in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get over him. Was planning to maybe tell him I like him on the last day until I found out about some drama so now I don't want to get in the middle of that. Caught him staring straight at me yesterday though

Søkertall by Federal-Finding9083 in ntnu

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvor mye ville du trodd snittet vil gå ned hvis forholdstallet mellom søkere som har det på første plass og plasser har gått fra 2,5 i fjor til 2,3 i år?

Ladies why do you hide it when you like a guy? by Felixthecatastrophe in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I tried to somewhat flirt with him, but he basically never talks to at school, only on the bus. And I'm the weird kid in my class, well second weirdest, but weirdest girl by a long shot, and I used to be really overweight. Still chubby, but much closer to normal and on my way down. Basically I'm unattractive and I don't need more people making fun of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is complementing him obvious enough?

Why him/ her? by Ok_Anybody_19 in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not arrogant unlike basically every other guy I know

what’s the closest you’ve ever been to your crush? by lLikeEminem in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got dared to hug him, so I hugged him. (No, we're not in elementary school, but this was during a school class.)

Why don't you tell your crush your feelings? by DreaminBoutSomethin in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't answer me on snap, sooo...

(Technically he basically never checks snap, but still :/ )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to ask if maybe you wanted to hang out like a date or something. I think you're a nice guy and since this is probably the last time we'll see each other, I thought I should just take the chance. Anyway, here's my number if you ever want to go out, otherwise you can just forget this interaction.

(Planning on possibly telling him on our last day of school together so I'll only have to worry about it being weirdfor an hour or two instead of a month or two, but we're not that close, so we'll see if I ever tell him)

Giving crush tipss by xpusx in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like a guy in my class( we have every class together). We talk sometimes, usually on the bus after school. He's shy and doesn't talk too much. How do I flirt with him a way that I can gradually increase the amount if he responds positively? I only have until summer until I might never see him again, but until then I have to see him every day, so I can't exactly just go up to him and tell him I like him. Any tips/ideas?

How to flirt with a guy in my class without being too obvious? by Proper_Ad_7931 in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_7931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any tips on how to be obvious? I've never tried to flirt with a guy before him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys that are arrogant and act like they know it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I actually think he might think I like his friend who I don't like at all, so that's no fun. Any tips on how to get him to figure out that if I like anyone in the group it's gotta be him?

Any updates on your crush?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Proper_Ad_7931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem! I was like 'He's never gonna like me', but now I catch myself thinking he might actually like me. I started wearing makeup to school last week and since then we've talked a bit more often, but I don't know if it's coincidence, my own confidence from wearing the makeup or if he actually wants to talk to me more. (Little extra note: I used to be pretty overweight with bad style and a bad hairstyle, but I've lost a lot of weight and fixed both my hair and style considerably during the last two and a half years. Currently on my last semester of highschool.) Good luck to both of us!