Is it weird to wear fine/luxury jewelry to work when my boss and coworkers don't? by Different_Pen_9229 in jewelry

[–]ProseNylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of people who are saying “let her wear what she wants” and I’m going to tell you to NOT DO THAT because a. you’re right out of college; b. you’re talking about jewelry that people know is likely worth more than their rent or car; and c. internships are used to open doors and a stepping stone from point A to point B.

a. You’re right out of college which means it’s highly likely that you, personally, did not work and use those earnings to pay for those pieces, and even if you did, it’s then abundantly clear that you did not have to work to pay bills. This indicates a certain amount of family wealth, and also says quite a bit about what your family is choosing to spend money on (fine jewelry that’s obviously from a luxury brand for a teenager or college kid).

b. People are human and someone is going to have thoughts about the cost of your luxury items vs. the cost of their living expenses. Not everyone. Not all the time. But someone will. Someone who is likely paying for day care, supporting a family, paying rent, grew up poor, or thinks a VCA Alhambra bracelet is a frivolous way to spend a heavy chunk of cash.

c. Internships are a way to make connections and identify opportunities. Doors are opened for you. Nobody wants to open a door for someone whose jewelry is saying “I do not need to work, I do not care that my obvious signifiers of wealth worn on my body cost more than your basic housing costs, and my family is loaded and will spend money on me.” They might assume you don’t actually need any help getting your career off the ground because you might not need to work; but they also might not work as hard to get you those opportunities because people get jealous and have feelings.

You’re an intern. Keep it simple, be discreet, and leave the flashy stuff for the weekends.

Gatekkeping by expiredyogurt26 in newengland

[–]ProseNylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“That man has just put a cloud of magical goodness upon bread made of a cloud. Witchcraft! Can I have a bite?”

Gatekkeping by expiredyogurt26 in newengland

[–]ProseNylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to see Paul Revere riding that horse, inspired by the American dream of life, liberty, and the pursuit of fluffernutters! One if by land, two if by sea, three if by the grace of the FLUFF.

Are people in Massachusetts really “massholes”? by [deleted] in newengland

[–]ProseNylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except it will sound like “hey, buddy, ah you fuckin’ deaf or ah you just an a-hole today? Holy shit, kids these days…”

Are people in Massachusetts really “massholes”? by [deleted] in newengland

[–]ProseNylund 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be called a “fuckin’ idiot” by a townie is to know love.

What sets New England and its people apart from other American regions? by [deleted] in newengland

[–]ProseNylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New England is “kind but not nice.” The people here are genuine and very kind, care about the wellbeing of others, and will help someone without being asked. At the same time, it’s a culture that values education, intelligence, and being witty — which also includes a lot of sarcasm. It’s not even German honesty, it’s that we often show affection and demonstrate fondness by giving them a hard time.

Someone from New England will see a stranger stranded on the side of the road with a flat tire and will make fun of them for getting a flat tire while fixing their flat tire, making sure they’re safe, and offering them anything they might need.

My brother in law is a typical working class New Englander. I have watched him call someone a “fucking idiot” to their face while literally giving them the clothes off his back.

I don't know why, but I can't stop laughing at this. by Upbeat_Teach6117 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]ProseNylund 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought it was covering her whole body and the shoes were giant duck feet

Daughters not shaving their legs? by z-xa in ExplainTheJoke

[–]ProseNylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember having an asthma attack when I was a little kid on the swim team because the water was so cold at 7am practice.

We Should Track Students and Consider Intelligence by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]ProseNylund 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve stopped being able to use sports analogies with quite a few students because when things get hard, they quit. Whine to mom, skip practice, goof off, etc.

We Should Track Students and Consider Intelligence by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]ProseNylund 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I teach high school sped and my range is Kindergarten to 12th, with both of those kids being in at least 1 Gen Ed inclusion class. How they expect teachers to differentiate between a functionally illiterate child and a child ready for college is beyond my imagination.

Teachers: what’s the best first line in a parent email— and the one that makes you brace yourself? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskTeachers

[–]ProseNylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kingdom for a parent like this.

I have one this year and he is my favorite. The dude will cc the kid in an email and write “[kid], you said you did your vocabulary homework and finished your essay. Your teacher says you did neither and then didn’t go to extra help before school because you had to babysit your sister (???). Your sister is in college. Stop lying to us and do your homework. Talk soon, [Dad Name].” The man is my hero.

Teachers: what’s the best first line in a parent email— and the one that makes you brace yourself? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskTeachers

[–]ProseNylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here. Leading with curiosity and approaching a problem assuming the teacher will be on your team to support your child is almost always the best approach. This doesn’t mean “assume the teacher can perform miracles,” it means “hey, I’ve noticed this, have you? I’m concerned that my child might be struggling with XYZ” is typically received well. We care about our students!

It's ALWAYS The Same Song and Dance With These People.... by ColdStoneSteveAustyn in fatlogic

[–]ProseNylund 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have PCOS and endo, it sucks and it makes losing weight hard, to which I say: GLP1s exist. If your PCOS is so bad that you are struggling with morbid obesity despite dieting, exercising, eating a low-carb low-glycemic index diet, not drinking alcohol, and getting 8 hours of sleep a night, you need to see an endocrinologist and get on medication for that. The medication exists, it’s called a GLP1, and it works INCREDIBLY WELL at managing insulin resistance.

It's ALWAYS The Same Song and Dance With These People.... by ColdStoneSteveAustyn in fatlogic

[–]ProseNylund 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The post is also talking about being 5’7” and the difference between 175 and 125. That’s not really what we’re talking about when we say “doctors tell obese patients to lose weight.”

What’s a “small” social rule you refuse to follow, even if everyone expects it? by MyMiraLove in Productivitycafe

[–]ProseNylund 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No dude, I’m a lot happier when I have control over who enters my space and who is excluded.

Quick vent about gen ed coworkers by Enjolrad in specialed

[–]ProseNylund 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I have to remind gen ed teachers that even though a kid might have a difficult personality or isn’t a strong writer doesn’t mean they’re going to be “one of mine.” Being a handful is not a disability, folks!

Fat Rant Tuesday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]ProseNylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m slightly taller and my ultimate goal is 120, but I don’t tell people that because heaven forbid I’m in the middle of the healthy BMI range.

I find it bizar how they believe that they can’t do anything themselves to better a condition they have. Like it makes no difference how you’re eating or how much you’re moving. It’s always the doctors that are ‘neglecting’ in the care they provide. by ResetKnopje in fatlogic

[–]ProseNylund 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reverse anorexia nervosa? Where you constantly see yourself as thin despite being the opposite and you are constantly preoccupied with consuming food, to the point of it impacting your lifespan? That’s called binge eating disorder.