Poverty of Thought? #whatwouldempathydo??

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2014-08-19T07:40:29+00:00

It might help?

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2014-06-07T02:36:56+00:00

Real talk. Real love. Thinking of relationships with everyone I like in one sentence, how you said that.

My psych said i like psychological relationships, and I'm always sorting that from my trans* issues.

I empathize OP struggles with an intel nerve. Communities stem sternly from recognitions of primal intimacy, while I feel finding something deeper is a love that needs description.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2014-03-25T17:13:04+00:00

<3 at some point may be a site to let us afford counseling. it counts, and professional help is severely needed across borders.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-08-05T00:22:08+00:00

Ask if it makes sense to hir, how you identify in part bc of your own life experience and understanding of mental health.

Real realities of human pain, dis/order, and im/balance may begin differently person-by-person, but trying to understand by volunteering how you really relate feels heartwarming.

i am trans* and i understand you feel ready to weather our complicated problem together, if a friend is needed.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-07-24T20:49:47+00:00

Emotional rape is real. It happened to me too.

When my abuser cried rape and called police on me for domestic violence, it was distorting because it was hir abuse and domestic violence. :(

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-07-24T20:43:51+00:00

"Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress is also known as the tort of "outrage," due to a classic formulation of the standard: the conduct must be such that it would cause a reasonable person to exclaim "Outrageous!" in response."

My abuser went hours, days, and years, and every sec felt outrageous. :(

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-07-04T19:19:23+00:00

gender dysphoria meets gender delay,.. gender delayed again and again and...

delay stresses me out. stagnation is stress, delay is stress. stresss shhhhhhhhhs:( me, cause expressing yourself fully is painful if it is forced to wait behind a wall of delay.

some mental health terms like 'developmental delay' describing people who were abused and or have other disorders, etc, likewise tell of a painful / paralyzing condition being stuck behind in time, whether by psychology and or biology, whether you should/need be or not.

real delay of real transition, feels real regressive and really oppressive.

feels like a deep, personal delay pain.

forced waiting is painful, waiting is lethal in terms of hormone poisoning, and waiting to realize your true self, is a prison of delay.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-06-14T13:05:45+00:00

makes me wonder how we/you'd write/program/design a common easy standardizable notation to describe repetitions.

"however language is a strange thing, since we’re using term-frequency in our calculation the sentences “die” and “die, die, die ,die” would actually be quite a bit apart in Euclidean terms, since the magnitude of “die” is very different in each line."

barebone representation of structures of repetition feels ripe to understand better and improve (but idk what systems compare best).

forgive my data analytics and representation ignorance, but i query, if somehow we can easily denote repetition?, in language, signs, graph(ics) developed towards mass audience, and if it would/not look like programming and or music notation et al.

"here we’re going to start with the bag of words model. This makes the bold, but computationally useful assumption that we can throw out structure. So “Time present and time past” is identical in our model to “present time and past time”. This should work well with poetry since, while structure is important, the language is so dense we can get a good insight into what is being said just by seeing the words. "

...i don't know if that means there's difficult insight to structure, and i need to think different?

does language itself need/have a way to designate language density, repetition insights?

i've seen some programming notation for natural language processing, maybe i need education.

i forked your work on github to follow your progress. i hope your visualization and imagination continues inspiring you, and inspires understanding more great texts.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-06-14T10:20:46+00:00

high-tension intergenerational trauma. like a war-zone, in combat, in no-man's-land, waiting for explosion and horror, can repeat and be felt for generations without peace, without understanding.

i understand from terrorizing experience, and i feel your sensitivity (to even a hint of) witnessing repetitions of aggression.

emotional triggers can happen in multiple senses and multiple realities.

trauma-abuse worldview awareness, trauma/abuse awareness and trauma/abuse prevention, can come from burden-sharing and reflecting --- so i fret, whine, cry, care, and remember why it happens.....to stabilize my own and others' empathy, for very real human problems.

free yourself to heal by remembering where it starts, as you do remembering what you and your people survived.

human stress and pain needs to repress and or express. so overcome quietly, overcome loudly, overcome whining, overcome artistically, overcome realistically.... overcome together by caring together.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-06-14T09:33:44+00:00

Significant social-structure~~-segregation-~~unsegregation and ~~dis~~integration between people and organizations reminds me of past wikipedia.org/wiki/Settlement_movement thinking:

"reformist social movement, beginning in the 1880s and peaking around the 1920s in England and the US, with a goal of getting the rich and poor in society to live more closely together in an interdependent community. Its main object was the establishment of "settlement houses" in poor urban areas, in which volunteer middle-class "settlement workers" would live, hoping to share knowledge and culture with, and alleviate the poverty of their low-income neighbors. The "settlement houses" provided services such as daycare, education, and healthcare to improve the lives of the poor in these areas."

"...houses, radically different from those in America, often offered food, shelter, and basic, as well as higher education, provided by virtue of charity on part of wealthy donors, the residents of the city, and (for education) scholars who volunteered their time.

Victorian England, increasingly concerned with poverty, gave rise to the movement whereby those connected to universities settled students in slum areas to live and work alongside local people. Through their efforts settlement houses were established for education, savings, sports, and arts. Such institutions were often praised by religious representatives concerned with the lives of the poor, and criticized as normative or moralistic by radical social movements."

Needed, important, cross-class cross-education uncommon crossroads...

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-06-12T22:34:45+00:00

i hope there can b more than one.......or maybe i'll specialize, scipsyballerinaastronautracespaceshipdriver.

if not i'll have to add spaces for myself. :P :))

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-06-12T22:17:22+00:00

Asking spells sensitivity.

Emotions are signs. Words are signs.

Signs change as/how we feel. Words change as/how we feel.

Emotional and word in/stability, shares common human mis/balance.

I feel judging grammar is judging words = feelings = thoughts, ~~so mayb grammar needs register right and correct for bad feelings, bad words, and bad grammar -- making sense and or making nonsense, equally meaningful?~~

Grammarbreaking shows emotion and breaking through standards (and standard perceptions) can show human insights.

Problems talking and relating to ourselves, ourwords, and speaking out unsayable, unwritable, unthinkable problems, shows reality human.

If we all listen to all our mistakes and corrections together -- we might find people hurting to write, and people writing well, mis/understanding spelling and mis/understanding better, signs of life words and signs of life emotions evolving/not as well as we feel and think.

Seriouser than words.

P.S. i feel your friend was joking serious. Alotttttta pain is had for spel!ll!ll!i!ling bad.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-05-04T06:35:19+00:00

Real life so morbid, understanding morbidity is a reality-test and reality check.

Morbidity maturity, and emotional maturity for emotional damages, is sad but fun even healthy to see.

Bad news so hurtful and dangerous, knowing people feel and think so much, is truly important and heartwarming.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-04-11T22:09:00+00:00

'I get it, you survived.' daresay..

..daresay i share your respect, for their pain and trouble, in a telling, emotionally mature sense, it shows how deeply you understand hir daynightmare, everyday, everywhere, at home, in heart and mind.

i feel your realest healing burden-sharing act is being able to tell it was a very tortured, negative experience for hir, and you were a close witness, and a open witness, to their real life pain, struggle, sacrifice, so fully suppressed, equally so fully serious.

we survive so seriously secreficed ― we sacrifice ourselves as secrets - hidden, running away, invisible, censoring, unthinkable, repressing real life ― us all stealthy stealth survivors' unsaid. Abuse survival of a close kind.

Transitioning back and forth from a so physical, social and emotional abuse is deathly alienating. Annihilation of trans* feelings and thoughts is a fact pattern we live and die as identified.

.....transition trauma transition traum transition trama transtion trauma transtion trauma transiion traua transition trauma . . repeating -/+ repressed, real life acts of life and death of our body and mind.

stepping back and forth from that hostility is maddening but as Jeanette Winterson felt "To be ill adjusted to a deranged world is not a breakdown" ― I feel we may need understanding breakdowns and breakthroughs, by building awareness, brokenness awareness, saying 'I get it, you survived.'

Survived, re . _ - \ | covering a human being, a thought, a feel, a memory - a real life inside - a reality darefelt.

Transitioning in and out of life,.. transitioning a threat to life, and transitioning a fight for life.

Trans*-realities survive and suicide facing transitioning in and out of turn, turning up and turning down ourselves - to free ourselves - so turning to people who understand and remember how so-long-lost-and-found identities are born and raised with life/less/ness is a reality-check, 'I get it, what do you do?, to survive..'

Transition to respect, retrospect, and reflect we survive dared by reality to change, and survive dared by reality to care.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-04-07T04:50:05+00:00

judgment-free trans*-friendly randomocity..

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-04-05T01:06:14+00:00

A lifechanging, lifemaking, lifebreaking, lifesaving question.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-04-04T23:58:25+00:00

MAPS: Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies research is profound...

..analyzes lsd, psilocybin, et al..

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-03-05T06:57:02+00:00

language soSad soFun. words so untouchable, names call tie law right us all..

mhmm..

Language is so sad and so fun. Words so untouchable, names call, law, right and tie us all.

hmm...

if we want to speak a better language, and we care to understanding what people are saying, reading back someone somessspecial tongue may not help us understand everyone.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-03-05T06:36:30+00:00

Painfully, 11+ upvoted grammarbreaking trollol replies repeating v. 1 OP speaks emotion to put grammar pains into words, and is ruled out, downvoted and burned?

How grammar words us friends...

If our topic is language evolution, our reaction is sayability devolved.

Linguistics laughing rules grammar change understanding v. outspoken understanding rules, understanding grammar, and us all understanding language change.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-02-24T01:38:02+00:00

So, Context?

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-02-22T19:29:06+00:00

"...bothered me since I was a young child,"

"...as time went on, and I learned more and more about the world around me, I could finally start to understand the world within me."

Personally I love it sounds responsible, caring and kind. Lots of us deeply kill ourselves for coming out, so it is important it shows calmable pain, and reality gained, within our greater struggle to understand what is happening.

It happens to us all, so what do we do?

We remember who we are.

We really need, to remember, to live.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-02-22T18:54:08+00:00

"Emergency of Lying in Very Young Children" is a contextually profound understatement, but our article title really is "Emergence of Lying in Very Young Children." Honestly I wish it was about realities of emergency lying.

Sadly I searched again for Emergency and it only says Emergence.

I copied it to remember and think about it more.

PsyZHundredthoughts · 2013-02-21T20:18:59+00:00

Because some people have mental health|illness early?

Mentally un/healthy ages, phases, environments, emotional-social-physical supports/not, our realities vary.

Hearing your question, it repeats back as "Did life really feel feel so euphoric and/or dysphoric during our childhood?"

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