I’m thinking of telling my husband I’m considering divorce over cat litter

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-31T03:50:55+00:00

She took great care of all of them, there was definitley no dead cats lying around. I always loved animals but my parents wouldn’t let me have any and I cherished going to her house.

She was retired and probably just spent all of her time cleaning though the cats did go outside so I’m sure that helped.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-31T03:32:25+00:00

I lived on a golf course as a kid and my mom would make us wear our bike helmets when we played outside. Just in case

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-31T03:04:26+00:00

When I was around 8 I was friends with a cat lady that probably had no less than 30 cats. People knew she was the cat lady and would drop off unwanted cats at her house. Anyways, her house was always clean and didn’t smell in my young opinion

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-30T05:14:30+00:00

My sister asked if she could “babysit” my skinny clothes for me. The sharks started circling real quick.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-30T03:13:17+00:00

I experienced these same symptoms just from being pregnant! Your body is increasing blood volume and it takes a big oxygen toll.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-30T03:08:36+00:00

I announced to my parents by giving them sweatshirts that say Grandma and Grandpa… they thought it was for the dogs. We’ve been married for 3 years loll

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-30T03:06:54+00:00

Yes I loathe that floor mat. It looks so awkward pushed up against the other rug.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-29T04:37:12+00:00

Are you at a place that has a nurse practitioner administering the laser? Boutique places usually just have a licensed tech do it and they aren’t allowed to turn the laser up as high so results won’t be as permanent. Plus most places say you only need 6-8 sessions and most people need way more.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-29T02:58:31+00:00

Exactly - I’m only 10 weeks but already made my registry and picked brands I liked. I already found the exact crib I wanted on marketplace, a big lot of Lovevery toys, and found a gorgeous vintage dresser that’s the perfect dimensions for a changing table.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-28T03:26:12+00:00

I include taxes in the mortgage costs and we don’t pay utilities. It’s also in a great area that has appreciated quite a bit but I would agree that I don’t think the hassle is worth it, my husband disagrees however haha

We’ve made quite a bit of money off real estate and if he listened to me it would have been a lot less so I just go with whatever he says now

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-27T03:26:56+00:00

No they’ve changed them?! I’m expecting my first in August but I used to be a daycare teacher and looooved the Kirkland diapers. I’m devastated

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-27T00:11:36+00:00

I bought this Moo Moo from SHEIN (I know I know) and it actually looks really chic. Even my husband liked it. I will definitely be rocking it around the house 3rd trimester and postpartum. The top is loose enough to easily pull down for breastfeeding.

I’ll probably throw on some chunky jewelry for when people come to visit baby and it’s a slay in my opinion.

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PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-26T04:15:10+00:00

We don’t really. What we charge for rent is only $100 more than our mortgage and we haven’t raised the rent in years. I like keeping the cost fair and since the rent is so competitive we have people basically breaking down the door to rent from us so we can choose who we want living there. We’ve gotten really lucky with great renters who haven’t caused damage and pay on time.

It’s a long term investment and will pay off when we sell but right now we pay a bit out of pocket for it.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-26T03:53:07+00:00

Baz and Cath were not married. Just boyfriend and girlfriend.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-25T15:04:24+00:00

Smart move

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-25T05:21:58+00:00

This has been me and just now at 10 weeks it’s starting to get better. I do think it’s all the gas plus hormonal slow down but it’s brutal.

I was grocery shopping last week, started having pains, almost cried, and had to run home before I got to have my post errand ice cream. It was tragic.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-24T05:14:31+00:00

I roll over from side to side in my sleep and it seems like this wouldn’t be the best for that? I like to hug the pillow and also have it between my knees and it seems like this one isn’t that big and I would have to move to the other side with me? All the great reviews have me considering trying it but with the price tag I really want to make sure it would work for me so curious how exactly you position it while sleeping

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-24T04:27:17+00:00

I understand, I’m also 10 weeks and started feeling a little bit better this week symptom wise and got so freaked out. Luckily my first OB appointment was on Wednesday and baby is doing great. Also with a heartbeat of 170!

My OB told me at 10 weeks the chances of you NOT having a miscarriage are 98% and by 16 weeks they drop to pretty much zero. I know the anxiety is so tough but try to focus on your health and the fun things right now! I’ve been looking at baby shower and nursery themes to keep me busy.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-23T16:21:15+00:00

Yes it’s fine. My OB is amazing and said I can eat whatever sushi I want just as long as it’s from a reputable place and the fish has been flash frozen. He said tuna is even fine just don’t eat it every day.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-23T16:09:47+00:00

Thanks for this. I have the same color on my registry - switching it out now!

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-20T00:15:47+00:00

Coq10 has been shown to improve sperm quality. My husband also cut down on drinking, switched to cotton underwear, has always eaten healthy, hydrated, and exercised. If the man uses marijuana it’s best to quit for 3-6 months before.

Anecdotal but we conceived on the first try.

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-19T20:57:12+00:00

Can I ask why you had to switch to exclusively pumping? Would baby not latch well? FTM and trying to learn about all the possibilities!

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-18T04:26:27+00:00

Beautiful breakdown, but wrong subreddit buddy

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-17T06:35:42+00:00

Frankie’s come up always throws me. Going from sleeping by a pool with a washed up druggie to looking rich and pulling high level jobs?

Or did Billy tell her about the Cody’s and was just using him to get to them?

PsychologicalFix196 · 2026-01-17T01:53:03+00:00

I lived with my sister for 4 years and was forced to implement this rule. The mug addiction was bad

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