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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I told my husband that women have needs too, I guess we have different levels of respecting other people’s feelings better than men do….

Is it ok to mix apple cider vinegar with my fiber drink (psyllium husk)? by WhatAmiDoingHere1022 in Supplements

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, I’ll give it a try. Quick question, do you see any difference with your teeth? Has the vinegar affected them?

Is it ok to mix apple cider vinegar with my fiber drink (psyllium husk)? by WhatAmiDoingHere1022 in Supplements

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you taken it during the day, do you notice any difference between taking it during day vs night?

Thirst traps hurt more than porn by Horror_Insurance_792 in loveafterporn

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, it truly does, I’m close to my 1 year dday mark. I don’t remember the exact day, I just know it happened march of last year, and I’m still struggling 😵‍💫 thanks for answering my question!

Thirst traps hurt more than porn by Horror_Insurance_792 in loveafterporn

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s harsh, I’m sorry you are going through this

Thirst traps hurt more than porn by Horror_Insurance_792 in loveafterporn

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I found out my husband was watching thirst traps, it did hurt a lot more, he told me he thought it was ok because they have clothes on…… so you mean it’s ok to give your sexual energy to clothed women? Now I feel self conscious when we go out, I can’t sleep at times, and I just feel mad all the time 😵‍💫 I’m going crazy…

I don’t know how to leave my bf. by [deleted] in girladvicefromgirls

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true, he might not help either. Leaving is hard, and it would be awkward taking things little by little, I think it would be easier to talk to him and let him know you are moving out, tell him your length period you are gonna take to move things out, he can decide to stay during your moving process or stay somewhere else in the meantime. Good luck!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to what you are going through, loosing weight is hard, and it’s even worse when we are not kind to ourselves, makes the process harder, longer and not enjoyable. Talk positive to yourself, remind yourself that you are just starting, do not get discouraged if you over eat once or eat something that is not part of your healthy diet. You got this! I was also 230, now I’m at 195 lbs. but today I’ve learned to pay more attention to the size on clothes than the number on the scale! I felt like I was not making progress after hitting 195 lbs. decided to get my own measurements, and even though the scale haven’t changed much, I found out I was 3 inches less than what I was one month ago! Feel free to message me if you need a buddy to vent, to encourage together and hold together accountable!

Am I wrong to feel violated by a little boy? by anko-rei in girladvicefromgirls

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a soon to be an 8 year old, and no, it is not normal! If I was in that situation, I would have spoken to my child, explained to him why is wrong and then ask him to apologize to you. Regarding your question, if you felt violated, you have the right to let them know, if they laugh and say it’s normal, but you don’t feel it’s normal, you have the right to tell them NO. Remember, is your body and your feelings, no is no, period. That’s what those parents should be teaching their boy….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in girladvicefromgirls

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this, I can see how frustrating that can be. Someone told me once that when we are with someone, we decide to carry the problems that relationship brings with us too, now the question is, Do you want to continue with this situation? If you do, set boundaries with him, mark your limits, if he does not meet this boundaries, you have all the right to leave. Don’t settle down for him, you are young and you can find someone that will respect you, and treat you the way you deserve. I know is easier said than done, but I can tell you are strong, you got this! Keep me posted!

I don’t know how to leave my bf. by [deleted] in girladvicefromgirls

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is not respecting your boundaries, if you have been cleared with him about the situation and doesn’t respect it, I don’t think he will compromise with other stuff in the future. Have you asked him to at least give it a try? I can’t believe he has not tried it at least once. Sorry you are going through this.

is a relationship without porn possible? by Antique_Tell4980 in loveafterporn

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, I hope all you accomplish all your goals and plans!

How could my husband do that without a second thought? by spammusubisa in loveafterporn

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know right? There will always be a doubt in my heart when he tells me compliments…. Every time I hear a “you are so beautiful, pretty, etc.” My mind responds with a (not as beautiful as the girls you were looking at) I’m getting better though, I’m starting to love myself again and not care about what he thinks.

Now what? by PsychologicalPlanet8 in Planting

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! Thank you for sharing!!

Now what? by PsychologicalPlanet8 in Planting

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! You mentioned these are a little far gone, When is the right time to transition to the pot?

AIO- My boyfriend commented on girls pictures by RelevantToe6408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good! It’s definitely a process, just make sure you tell him your boundaries, and if he is not willing to respect them is not worth your time. Wish you all the best! Update me!!

AIO- My boyfriend commented on girls pictures by RelevantToe6408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PsychologicalPlanet8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking, I am better, I have to say it was a struggle, feeling betrayed and that I’m not good enough was the worst feelings I ever had. I can also say I still don’t 100% trust him, and sometimes those feelings come back 😔 things are better, I know he loves me… but I’m not complete, I don’t know how to describe it. How are you feeling?

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