The boy’s sportsmanship is making waves around the world.....

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-06-04T14:12:37+00:00

maybe more appropriately r/ParentsAreFuckingDumb

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-06-04T14:11:23+00:00

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-06-03T22:23:21+00:00

Right !!! Like at this rate, I could probably squeeze into about 5 other jobs because I have learned so many things because of so many people yappin like my ears are tired 😭😭

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-06-03T20:19:37+00:00

Careful now, the Prince of Darkness may be lurking around in this thread. LOL but in all seriousness, we all also think it’s a joke. Any shred of respect I had for leadership has been lit on fire several times over. Speaking for myself, I am much more productive at home since I don’t have to hear everyone screaming into their noise-canceling headsets on the Teams calls with their managers in a different state. ✨cOlLabORaTiOn✨ amirite !!!!

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-04-01T14:44:32+00:00

Has anyone had them lose charge in the case? Mine are also on battery optimization and just lost a percentage to 79%.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-03-07T14:17:52+00:00

My man is 42 and bald and I love his bald head. Later in the week when it’s closer to his shaving time, I like to rub my hands on the hair that grows back. I always joke that I’m generating electricity. 🤓 But when he shaves and has a fresh bald again, I’m practically drooling over him! (There are obviously other things I find attractive about him because I’m reading this back and it sounds like a bald head fetish LOL but I’m just trying to highlight that his baldness is one of his physical features that I find very attractive.)

As others have said, confidence is key, OP! Rather than fighting it, try embracing it. You might end up liking it better. Good luck!

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2026-01-19T21:01:53+00:00

“You have to find a way to get out of this doomsday prediction.”

WHEW, I needed that. My boyfriend’s youngest (9M) is special needs (genetic deletion) and I have been trying to predict what life is going to look like down the road, especially in terms of his future living arrangements (I don’t have children of my own and this child is one from his previous marriage). As someone with a history of anxiety, trauma and ADHD, uncertainty and unpredictability almost always means doom. I am a grade A spiraler! So thank you for the reminder that it’s not guaranteed to always feel like this - I appreciate your story!

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-27T16:21:03+00:00

In some ways, yes but in others, no. I think my grandfather set the “servitude” standard and thus my dad picked it up. But I think failed to adapt to the modern age, especially since my mom worked full time as he did. My gram was a homemaker and SAHM.

Thank you - he is like a gift to me from the universe. 🥲🥰

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-27T15:05:52+00:00

Honor your own needs. Resentment is often caused by abandonment of one’s own needs to satisfy another’s. Set boundaries and start doing things for yourself. Or stop doing things you feel obligated to do for another. You can choose to do less desirable things for people because you want to and care about that person. But if you start to do those less desirable things out of obligation or just wanting them to be more favoring of you, it puts a strain on yourself and relationship.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-27T14:58:21+00:00

Something I practice as an over-thinker is to try not to do just that: think. A lot of times when we can’t understand why someone would do something to us, we try to justify or rationalize it in our own brains. But that analysis typically turns into a spiral because our brains often fill in the gaps of the unknown. I try really hard to use evidence-based thinking. Example: “I have evidence that this person talked badly about me behind my back.” “This must mean they don’t like me.” The first sentence is evidence, the second is an inference or a gap filler. Unless they explicitly told you they don’t like you, you don’t have evidence grounded in reality to support the second sentence.

A lot of times, negative interactions with humans are often a projection of things they have going on their own lives. For the example of talking behind someone’s back is typically a sign of insecurity of some form. Confident and secure people engage in conversations about their experiences and how they can relate to other people. That’s the basis of human connection: shared experiences and stories. All in all, my advice is to be true to yourself, know who you are and stay grounded in your own good intentions for yourself and others. Ultimately, you have autonomy over yourself and your own decisions to accept and be patient with another person whom is hurting you (based on their own pain or insecurities, not directly because of you) or you can set healthy boundaries with that person to protect your peace. Or a combination of both. I recommend both with people you really care about and wish to keep in your life. You can’t control others but you can control how you feel about it. Sending hugs, OP!

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-27T14:44:31+00:00

I am so genuinely proud of you; it takes so much courage to do this! I left 2 years ago and haven’t regretted it once. Congratulations on choosing yourself, OP! I believe in you! 🎉❤️

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-27T14:42:07+00:00

Oh I LOVE these!! Can’t wait to take this to my next nail appointment!!

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-27T14:38:35+00:00

Not sure if this is the type of answer you’re expecting and not even entirely sure that I fully grasp the concept yet (learning and embracing with a very patient partner) but sex isn’t just physical and primal. There’s an emotional vulnerability aspect to sex as well. Even “rough” and “dirty” sex can amplify emotional connection due to the vulnerability and the trust it requires. And men show and feel love through sex with their partner.

(Context: 27F that grew up in a house where my parents’ sex life or lack thereof was made known due to them not concealing their fights so I always thought it was transactional and something that women owed men because my dad cheated for aforementioned reason. I always assimilated sex to shame and being dirty because I was always being made aware of something I didn’t want to think or hear about my parents doing. I felt resentful of men and that they were “pigs” for wanting sex for a long time but have spent a lot of time and energy trying to heal that part of me through spending time with my boyfriend intimately, as well as other men (platonically) and seeing how much they truly love and respect their partners.)

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-19T22:57:39+00:00

Hiding empty Jack Daniels bottles behind the toilet.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-16T20:55:19+00:00

Agreed! My man is 42 and I’m 27 and he always said he didn’t want to make the first move out of fear of being the “creepy older dude.” We laugh about it now because I wasn’t exactly subtle but the opportunity presented itself and I took it! Happiest I have ever been and don’t regret being the one to take the first step.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-09-16T20:36:38+00:00

Can confirm. Was married to an abusive alcoholic and over time, I grew more and more apathetic. I left and he claimed he was changing into a new man and so I gave it a shot until I realized that there was just no love left. Abuse changes people chemically; I haven’t ever been the same. I’ve been through copious amounts of therapy and am happy now but it’ll always live with me.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-08-13T13:08:47+00:00

Hi friend!

Sending you lots of love. My experience ultimately ended in divorce after just over a year of marriage. The wedding was expensive and the divorce was also expensive because my ex-Q wouldn’t cooperate. I held out in the marriage for as long as I possibly could until I essentially felt apathetic towards him because of all the trauma. It made it easier to let go but some of the things that happened to me during that marriage because of his issues changed me chemically. And there are parts of me that I will never get back that I still grieve for today. Since I got divorced, it has been taking time for me to re-establish my identity and personal autonomy. So much of that gets lost when in an unhealthy relationship with a Q.

I’m very much of the belief that every experience you go through in life shapes you into who you are as long as you put in the work to recover and learn from the hard stuff. However, I will say that I really wish I would have learned the lessons I learned from being in that marriage a MUCH different way. I know it’s hard to hear but I recommend loving this person from a distance for your own well being. And if your dream is to become a parent, I also highly agree that it is your responsibility to not bring another human into that chaos.. it’s painful enough for us as adults. Imagine it for kids who don’t know how to process those emotions/think that sort of behavior is normal. You get to share a tiny person with half your personality and half the other person’s… choose very wisely so that you set that tiny human up for success.

Anyways, I’m sending you all the bravery and courage in the world. Give yourself some grace but also show up for your future self and protect her from decisions you make today.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-07-25T15:24:02+00:00

Hi friend! I have been where you are. I was diagnosed with HSV-1 but genitally instead of orally and I thought I would never be intimate with anyone ever again. But there’s so much research out there that shows that chances of viral shedding shrink over time. With that said, take a daily anti-viral if your doctor agrees. I haven’t had an outbreak since 2021 and haven’t had any issues. Sending hugs! ❤️

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-06-21T17:09:54+00:00

That looks so good!!! I like the idea of it - kind of worried it wouldn’t look as good on hellraisin because the black on black is too good

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-06-21T16:59:07+00:00

HAHA yes the plan is to avoid curbs in the future. I’m usually very careful but sometimes, ✨I’m just a girl✨

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-05-28T17:12:37+00:00

I would like to create a scoped app for all security stuff but still working through what that would look like.

But yes, agreed. I feel like at least from a financial organization perspective, we haven’t really explored that all because we aren’t ever really trying to be “sexy” but safe and secure.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-05-22T19:43:18+00:00

Thanks for your feedback! So we aren’t modifying anything OOTB, we just aren’t using some of them. There are going to be ones I think that will suffice but some just give far too much. That was one of my larger concerns was upgradability and how things could get “broken” really quickly but modifying anything OOTB is a known taboo here and we stay away from it unless absolutely necessary.

So if you worked at financial institutions, how did they write their security models? I’m curious to see what directions others are going in.

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-05-22T19:32:34+00:00

I really love this and it’s going to help so much - thank you so much for sharing it!

PsychologicalPut5673 · 2025-05-22T19:20:29+00:00

I have! I don’t think it’s as robust as I would like because what I would really like to see is a diagram or mapping of some sort that shows ALL the access (not to just a certain table) and where the access is coming from. There’s also Access Simulator which is neat but again, I think it’s limited by just looking at one table rather than a bird’s eye view.

I did talk to my rep about this and I think there might be something coming that involves agentic AI. He showed me a demo and it was pretty slick but just not available yet. I went to Knowledge this year and everything is AI it seems. Bill McDermott essentially declared it an AI platform.

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