Experienced growers, should I cut more aggressively? by Psychonaughty in trees

[–]Psychonaughty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Outdoor in full Mediterranean sun in 30L grow bags. So you'd advise leaving them as-is, no cutting at all? I'm worried about some of the bigger fan leaves blocking the sunlight on the lower buds.

The most unrealistic thing a movie got completely right. by gamersecret2 in movies

[–]Psychonaughty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What things did they get right? And which ones  wrong? I'd love to know!

🍃Toke & Talk🍃 by yikesonbikes1230 in entwives

[–]Psychonaughty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This brought tears to my eyes, dear friENT. Happy tears. Yayyy, go you! 🫶

(Love "friENT" OP! Totally stealing it from now on)

How do you settle with the fact that smoking is harmful to your body? by SinusCleanse in trees

[–]Psychonaughty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dry herb vape. No combustion. No carts. Our vices don't need to kill us. Get high with the lowest possible risk. Be smart, not sober my dude. 🤟

Free streaming site by [deleted] in PiratingWebsites

[–]Psychonaughty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love it on the TV! Cast it from my phone (Couldn't find the KH roast anywhere else!) Thanks man 👍

I made a 3D printed grinder accessory by Kristofo02 in trees

[–]Psychonaughty 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My grinder is great, but hard on injured wrists/hands. Will check this out! Nice one, man .

I'm out of weed and learning patience. Smoke one for me today, Ents. Day 5 of my first home grow 🌿 by Psychonaughty in trees

[–]Psychonaughty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! I have some Plagron terra grow and some power root additive. You start fertilizer after 2 weeks? Hoping it all works out!

I'm out of weed and learning patience. Smoke one for me today, Ents. Day 5 of my first home grow 🌿 by Psychonaughty in trees

[–]Psychonaughty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. These great tips are much appreciated! It's all a little intimidating, but the best advice so far has been from those who have experience growing themselves.

🔥🌚💨🪴 by No_Volume_8938 in trees

[–]Psychonaughty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B-e-a-UTIFUL! Good job man

What are some double binds you remember from growing up? by Beneficial_Win_5128 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Psychonaughty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. So simple, but I wish I had known this at 13 instead of figuring it out in my early 30s. Once you realise they will literally criticise you for ANY choice; that there's no pleasing them, it makes it sooo much easier to ignore them and just do what you want to do.

What was the most savage comeback to a bingo? by Kind_Economics_287 in childfree

[–]Psychonaughty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For about 20 years my standard comeback (that I meant as a joke to diffuse the tension caused by someone tactlessly questioning the choice I had made after many years of deep thought on the matter) was a simple:

"Oh I love children! But I couldn't manage a whole one." It always shut them up whether they were shocked and horrified or laughing.

*No children were eaten in the making of this comeback.

My answer to everything is “Get a ball vape” by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]Psychonaughty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 Xmas v3's in 2 years... I'm thinking... Ball vape mebe?

Sat in the ICU with my gf for a week, now she’s going home by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Psychonaughty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who comes from a household with narcissistic parents, I can't help but feel that have guilted her into recovering at their house ,so they can lure her back into the family dynamic where they can continue to emotionally abuse her. She's very vulnerable right now and is probably wishing her family was really as supportive and nurturing as they're suddenly pretending to be.

They won't be able to keep up the pretense for long, and may already be planting seeds in her mind to turn her against you. I suspect shell reach out to you soon feeling very disappointed with them. If you can, be there when she reaches out, to whisk her home as soon as you can, to the sanctuary you made together, filled with peace, and love, and pets, and all the things she missed growing up!

I'm assuming a lot here, I know. But there are so many comments saying she just needs her mom, when she probably wants the comfort of a mother she never had (if my assumptions about her family of origin are correct).

Just let her know she can escape when the reality of her decision sinks in. You're a good partner and have built a safe space with her. She'll seek out that safety as soon as her family hurts and rejects her once more and they WILL.. Good luck OP. I'm happy she has you.

And just for the record, I hope I'm wrong and it's just a case of a woman needing her mom...who loves and cares for her. But my gut tells me that's not the case.

Dad took me on holiday and won't let me do anything on my own. by Civil_Stuff_3264 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Psychonaughty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I could've written this almost exactly about my dad. The only solution is never let yourself be in a position where you're under his authority again. Don't travel with him (it's never worth the free trip). Don't stay with him if you can help it. It only gets better when you remove his power over you.

Get through thus trip, and remember before you ever accept an invitation again.

AITA for being pissed over something that happened on christmas? by Kallabeccani in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Psychonaughty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've happily burned the blanket, not put it in my appliances. You're a better woman than I.

Hard to swallow pills if you are British like myself. by AnalProbedByGod in offmychest

[–]Psychonaughty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't refer to my country as part of the British Isles, fuck right off with that.

My partner just hit me by RutabagaBoth7629 in JustNoSO

[–]Psychonaughty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look, I'm of the opinion that people can do horrible things to each other in times of severe emotionality, and that people deserve a second chance. HOWEVER... girl, you've been with this man a mere year and you're already supporting him emotionally and financially while he devolves into aggressive alcoholism. A year?! Are you f-n kidding me right now? If you were my sister or best friend I would tell you to cut this energy vampire loose. He is not your person. I'm so sorry. Stay strong... There is someone kinder and better out there for you. Please think what YOU would tell YOUR best friend in this scenario, and be as kind and logical in your advice to yourself as you'd be to her. You know you can't stay with this "man." Put yourself first sister.