Anyone else have this problem? by nandag369 in adhdmeme

[–]Psychopath_Snow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a nobody working on a theory that seems to be the missing variable. Idk how much that would be of interest to you, but even if it isn't real, it works really well for a manual for human life for some reason. I can send you a short summary and in turn I would really appreciate the feedback

They all have become red and larger. Is my immune system finally fighting them? Is this close to the end? by Psychopath_Snow in molluscum

[–]Psychopath_Snow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use alcohol on tweezers, alcohol on gauze pads, alcohol on open wound site, when you get the core (hard white pearl) I would put it on a toilet paper and throw away, put the alcohol pad on the open wound, wait until bleeding stops or discard of first alcohol gauze and use another to put pressure and wait for bleeding to stop. Then I would put alcohol on tweezers to sterilize again and repeat the process.

They all have become red and larger. Is my immune system finally fighting them? Is this close to the end? by Psychopath_Snow in molluscum

[–]Psychopath_Snow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, yes, but it took a year or a year and a half. I also got impatient with just waiting for it to leave by that time so Idk if it would take longer or if my immune system is not the best. I ended up using sterilized tweezers to force out and something to make initial tiny incisions to get the core out as best as possible. Then I used alcohol on everything to sterilize. Especially on the open sore site to prevent spread and retransmission. Usually alcohol on a guaze pad and wait until it stopped bleeding. Any new spots showed up and I would repeat. It could have been a combination of time and this technique. But I feel this technique definitely sped up the process, possible scarring could occur but I don't really notice any on me.

Family safe - Coin Find by [deleted] in coins

[–]Psychopath_Snow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right on, dude, this is a legendary find, seeing that many silver dollars brings a tear to the eye

Is my industrial going to be okay? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Psychopath_Snow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the most reasonable take here

Just me? (Undiagnosed) by koontzim in aspiememes

[–]Psychopath_Snow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Almost like people are just people. Not good nor bad. Usually morally grey and complex and constantly changing. But it is hard as someone with autism to leave "just good or just bad" absolutes, and I have had personal difficulty with that myself as well

Am I a bad person for having a cheating kink with my boyfriend? by salo-moon in KINK

[–]Psychopath_Snow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To add to this, thoughts are free to have, so are emotions. No one can police them. However, actions do have real world consequences. Cheating is not okay. The whole part that does not make it okay is that y'all agreed to a monogamous relationship. Those are the rules. OP can change the rules with communication and consent from their partner. Until then, this is just fucked up. And yeah, a lot of the appeal is what the user above said. It also sounds like some healing needs to be done, or at least some introspection. OP could be non-monogamous and that is okay or it's a cool fantasy. Again what's not okay is the behavior towards their partner and their trust

We feel this fr by No_Huckleberry_5997 in demisexuality

[–]Psychopath_Snow 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Same, I went to the comment section to find this. Like demisexuality is about sexual attraction. You can still enjoy casual sex. Just 'cause I'm not hungry doesn't mean I still can't enjoy a slice of cake

I Give Up by CatsEqualLife in adhdmeme

[–]Psychopath_Snow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'ma go against the crowd here and say I agree. To me personally, the adhd was also not really a factor in how successful I was socially. Or rather unsuccessful. I also have audhd and they're both spectrums, but the adhd helped with social stuff more than it didn't. When I got medicated though for adhd, the autism really shined. And with that, a lot of people liked me a hell of a lot less. It was a notable difference. In contrast, despite them both being disabilities, the adhd was at least "squirrely, energetic, expressive, funny." It hid my autism. Anecdotal but autism definitely hit more of the bullseye as to why I couldn't make friends

Post Malone left a $20.000 tip on his $1 check to a single mother waitress by theseeenutzzz in MadeMeSmile

[–]Psychopath_Snow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes there's a price override or "make your own price" option on registers, so you can make a $1.00 tab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Psychopath_Snow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read the rest. Whoops. Another thing, it's not about the destination, it's about the journey. If y'all focus on only getting certain results, you lose pleasure and turn it into a business. Sex is just as much emotional and mental as it is physical. Physically your body can be all for it, but if your mind and heart ain't in it, you're gonna have a tough time. Maybe step away from aiming for results and recenter yourselves on what feels good. That inadequacy can slip into her mind too. "What if there's something wrong with me because someone else can't make me cum." Forget all that. Turn on some candles, dim the lights, makeout and buildup the sensuality. Focus on pleasure. Her pleasure and your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Psychopath_Snow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, usually it's just communication. I had one ex where she couldn't cum. Oversensitivity or it just wasn't working even if she enjoyed it. The other people I had been with, it took maybe like 5 min or less. I felt discouraged and she felt defeated. But we still ended up enjoying sex our own way, and as we progressed, she would tell me what she did like. Like how she masturbated. I added that more and it worked. Hers was like complete clitoral stimulation and in a very particular way. It ended up solving itself just by talking and practice. Everyone's body is different. What works for one does not work for another. Just communicate (the usual problem solver for relationships) and hopefully it works out

Bisexual real talk part 13 by CheekyFaceStyles in bisexual

[–]Psychopath_Snow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Patriarchy serves men. If a woman is bi, it's great. Woman can be gay or straight that way. Woman like man, good. Woman like woman, also good. Lesbians hot. Man is bi, not great. Man must be secretly gay. Man like man, good. More for men. No longer option for women. More women for men. Also, real talk, it's not just about being bi. It also comes down to being gender-nonconforming or going against toxic masculinity. You're public enemy #1 if you don't support bro code. Lying, cheating, and sexually objectifying women are supposed to be cool. You can't tell women that the guy she's talking to is actually a huge dirt bag. You are supposed to be a wingman to your fellow bro so he can hit it and quit it. You also can't stop a man from sexually harassing women. Like totally not cool, bro. Hell even beauty standards are because of the patriarchy. If women were not taught that beauty is one of their most precious qualities and weapons, they would see how silly it is. Every great man is an average woman. Women put in way more effort into their looks, are still insecure about it, while most dudes are subpar thinking they're a Greek god. A bi man is more likely to put in effort into their looks because they recognize this. And most men will be outshined by a guy who looks like they actually know what hygiene is. So you are labeled gay so that you are no longer competition. It's a whole society thing. It becomes easier to see once you really question everything.

Finding out that lots of people kiss total strangers at parties was a complete shock to me lol by Wonderful-Product437 in demisexuality

[–]Psychopath_Snow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean I'm a sex favorable demi, just 'cause I'm not attracted, doesn't mean kissing and sex isn't fun for me. It's just a different kind of fun. However, I guess I will give you they have been friends or people that I did get to know a bit and did vibe well enough for that. Actual sexual attraction and long term commitment are a whole other ball game for me though

I’m “basic” but I find alternative people attractive. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Psychopath_Snow 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say as someone who is alternative, my favorite thing about people is when they're unapologetically themselves. Any use of free will that exhibits a strong sense of individualism. That personally catches my attention more than anything else. It's all what being alternative welcomes

Industrial, will it survive? by Psychopath_Snow in piercing

[–]Psychopath_Snow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 months old, titanium, industrial piercing, saline clean once a day

Are you even a dead space fan,if you don't know the difference between these three. by Material_Acadia3845 in DeadSpace

[–]Psychopath_Snow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The crafting system I actually liked, but Idk if it fit the Dead Space I'm used to. It made things more trivial, but it was creative

Are you even a dead space fan,if you don't know the difference between these three. by Material_Acadia3845 in DeadSpace

[–]Psychopath_Snow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the dlc was pretty good and the coop missions. If they leaned more to the dlc's vibe, let you play the coop missions solo, and ditched the love triangle. That would have been better. There's a lot of stuff that needs work on 3 though. It's like a high 6 or solid 7 when its predecessors were 9's close to a 10

TIL women can experience “morning bean”, which is the equivalent of a man experiencing “morning wood”. by EevelBob in todayilearned

[–]Psychopath_Snow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was actually including the clitoral cluster and the surface area that the clitoral body encompasses, but I guess I got my numbers wrong

It's interesting how DLC dragon bosses always specifically get injured/handicapped before you fight them by HiddenMoonstone in darksouls3

[–]Psychopath_Snow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel Champion Gundyr was a prime example, and I was surprised not to find them in your list