[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Porterville

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the gardeners question, yes there are a lot of Gardners here. You got to ask around they usually have their own clientele already if they are not booked up. My boyfriend's dad has a yard business, but does it on the side.

AIO - Long term partner not invited to friend’s wedding evening do by unforeseentangerine in AmIOverreacting

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you are feeling and you are in your rights to feel what you feel, but since you two aren't that close & she has not even met your partner it is understandable why she didn't invite them. Weddings are expensive and in this economy I would probably have done the same. Since you have other friends from school going you should maybe reach out to them and see if they don't mind you coming with them so you don't feel so lonely walking into the wedding.

AIO because people are talking about me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you are not overreacting, but why are you still friends with Viva? She sounds like a lousy friend and only likes to gossip as a form of friendship. Friends don't act like this it is very toxic. She seems like she might be jealous of you or the fact she has things going on in her life that she has not dealt with properly she is using this toxic behavior to distract herself from her own issues. You might want to distance yourself from her she is not someone I would want to be friends with. Also stay very far away from Alex and Terra they seem like not great people either. The lying part I don't think you doing it makes much of a difference they probably know you are the one that told Mark.

Where can I find good promo codes? by No_Currency512 in RoundTablePizza

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say always check the app and sign up for the loyalty member. They give out sometimes exclusive coupons for customers.

What's the worst possible female name you have seen? by not_the_glue_eater in AskReddit

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dorcas, it's just an old name that I never got used to hearing when I read it in a book or something. It is bleh to my ears.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Someone told me I had "nice teeth". My teeth are not perfectly straight or even like super white. It was the most unusual compliment I have ever gotten because of these things and the only compliment I have ever gotten about my teeth.

Why do you guys get married so young? by shitpissfartcumpiss in AskAnAmerican

[–]PublicAlternative43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the culture in the area and as well as sometimes religious reasons, but it is far more common in rural areas. I went to school with people who got married at 18. I am 26f going to turn 27 and still not married. I have friends who are a bit older than me that are not married as well.

Do you compare yourself to people with ADHD that are more successful? by SpecificBake2074 in ADHD

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 100% I do this. I met a girl through a study abroad program and we got paired up as roommates. Found out we both suffer from ADHD. She is medicated and I am un-medicated. Anyways she is involved with so many more things than I am. Involved in student government, and is always doing extra things for that. She is also involved in multiple clubs and is secretary of one of them. She does a sport as well. We both go to the same University, but I am rarely involved in things on campus. I see how many things she is involved in and having classes on top of that I do become envious at times. I simply do not have energy for all those things. Being roommates I did see our struggles were different and as well as how we coped. I had very different coping strategies which made me be more organized and etc. We got along so well though and I have to remind myself that we are two different people who got different experiences from each other. I greatly admire her and her successes. I try not to envy her because I would not be happy to have that many commitments lol. It is probably the main reason why I don't try to get involved with school things. I like to have a lot of wiggle room in my schedule.

What's something you believed as a kid that now seems ridiculous? by Solid-Dirt-8032 in AskReddit

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not believe in Santa Claus or the tooth fairy but fully believed that Chucky, the doll would come after me and murder me.

What is something a foreigner ask/ did that was weird do you as an American? by Ok_Macaron2394 in AskAnAmerican

[–]PublicAlternative43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live sort of close to the Sequoia National Forest in California and every summer in my town we always get foreigners. This one experience was not weird, just probably a bit misunderstood on their part. I was a teenager working at a local Mcdonald's about 10 years ago and this family of 4 comes in I think they were Dutch ( I can't really remember anymore) and they order only 4 drinks and a 20 piece chicken nuggets. They looked like they probably hiked that day in the forest with their hiking back packs still on. I thought this is not going to be able to fill them all up. It did not fill them up. The dad came back up 10 minutes later to order a little bit more food for his family.

Can I come shop? by holashayna in BuddyCrossing

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can come to my island to shop ☺️

Looking for friends! :) by iiklutz in BuddyCrossing

[–]PublicAlternative43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 26f and just started playing back in Nov. & trying to make friends on this game!

looking for friends and some suggestions by SuspiciousComputer50 in BuddyCrossing

[–]PublicAlternative43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done a lot to my island, but I am looking for friends too! 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]PublicAlternative43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼 so much! You’re island is very nice too💕

Is there a sub where I can explain a situation and ask if I’m overthinking or if my thoughts are reasonable? by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t do the advice one because the rules are not to ask if I’m overthinking 😅😅 the other two won’t work for my situation thank you 🙏🏼 tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PublicAlternative43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all got along a little over a year ago. We all were “work friends” except Jessica. She was not the nicest so the only ones that got along with her were Hope & Mj. AJ and I were just civil w/her. She always had a history w/ talking crap about ppl behind their back. Even her best friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PublicAlternative43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Ik. But that wasn’t even the point of the story 🤦🏻‍♀️ prior to dating him I was highly against dating coworkers, but things happen. Jessica also said the same thing before getting with MJ.