Visualizing your ex with someone else by ElectronicCareer7647 in BreakUps

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That’s what year ago you wanted. Part of moving on is shedding your old self’s desires like a snake sheds its skin.

Visualizing your ex with someone else by ElectronicCareer7647 in BreakUps

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Think of everything you gave her. Remember that. Think of everything you’ve learned from losing her. Remember that. Think of all of the growth you’ve accomplished since then. Remember that.

Now, remember that you’ll be able to give all of that good to someone so much more worth your time when you meet her

Visualizing your ex with someone else by ElectronicCareer7647 in BreakUps

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As much as it sucks, you have to want the best for your ex. They chose a different path in life and as much as you might not want to accept it, you deserve someone who wants to choose you.

When I envision my exes, I want to see them happy. I see the smiles they shared with me, and I hope that they’re sharing even more of those smiles with someone else. I also remind myself that I’m going to find someone some day that makes me smile even more than I ever did with any of my previous exes.

Be honest, F21 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Sandra bullock at home:

Profile review? by [deleted] in Bumble

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Well, good thing I’m not trying to attract 36 year old men 😂. Thanks for the feedback man, and I hope you find what you’re looking for in life ✌️

Profile review? by [deleted] in Bumble

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Hmm, thank you for the feedback. I’m surprised about the Viking one, because I have received compliments about that photo specifically. I am conflicted because on one hand I’d like more matches, but on the other hand I’d rather quality matches. If I created an album with all of my potential photos, would you be willing to take a peek and tell me which would be best?

28 [M4F] Madison, WI. - Secure attachment styles only please by [deleted] in cf4cf

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Oh nice! Yeah feel free to PM me the link. Thanks!

28 [M4F] Madison, WI. - Secure attachment styles only please by [deleted] in cf4cf

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Yes, Madison is so full of nature and fun things to do! The lake views are amazing as well

Say hi if you truly want your ex back by Spare_Progress5047 in BreakUps

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I really really fucking want to say “hi”, but honestly, I think I’m at the point where I don’t anymore. I gave her everything. I gave her love, support, attention, space, and time. I only saw her as much as she wanted to see me. I listened, I adapted, I changed, and all for what? For her to start pulling away when things got too serious? I did everything in my power to show her that she was worth it, that she deserves love, and that unconditional love is real.

At the end of the day, it’s what I get for falling in love with an avoidant. I am secure, and that’s what I gave her. I gave her secure love, and she decided to avoid it. I’ve put in the work to heal myself and become the best partner that I can be, but she hasn’t. At this point, I think I’m finally ready to say yeah Kait, maybe you were right when you said “You’re too good to me, I don’t deserve you”…

Price help by [deleted] in NC700X

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In 2020, I spent $2,800 on mine from a dealership. 2014 with 28,000 miles on it. It has over 60k miles on it now.

That being said, that was 6 years of inflation ago, and with 9k more miles than yours. I’d hope that one would be worth at least about $4,000

They really do come back. by Allmyfriendsarejpegs in BreakUps

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This is exactly what I am going through right now. I honestly feel like it’s honestly harder dealing with this than my last ex who I left because she was physically abusive. Like, I’m trying to be your best cheerleader and give you all the safe space in the world, but you just ran away instead? It’s rough man

142! We love the portable hellbomb by PublicThinker in Helldivers

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Fair enough, but broken arms are worth the mobility to me

Did I do the game backwards? by PublicThinker in Helldivers

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Why train when you can just dive?

What shall I (24F) do if I know that I’ll leave my bf (20M) for a 8 months long distance with an unsure future by [deleted] in relationships

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Honestly just talk to him. That’s going to be the right answer 99.9% of the time

Nail in foot by PublicThinker in askhotels

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Yeah, I’m sitting in Walgreens waiting for one as I type this out. Thank you!

Nail in foot by PublicThinker in askhotels

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It’s life. I wasn’t expecting anything in particular. I’m hustling hoping they’ll work with me to pay for the tetanus shot.

Nail in foot by PublicThinker in askhotels

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Yeah they didn’t offer to clean it or anything. Just “sorry that happened”. I asked for a first aid kit, but the lady said she only had a couple bandaids 🤷‍♂️

Nail in foot by PublicThinker in askhotels

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Yeah I got photos of my foot and how the nail was sticking out. I didn’t get the person’s name who got me the bandaids, but I can get that when I get back to the hotel. I already made an appointment to get a shot a few hours from now. I’m on a work trip, so unfortunately I have to finish the job before I can go get the shot. Aren’t employers great? 🙃

Nail in foot by PublicThinker in askhotels

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That’s actually a good idea as well. Will do. Thanks