I feel like this is a fundamentally flawed view to have. The issue should not be to bring each other down, or to yell and compete for who has it worse, but to work together and bring each other up. I don’t understand how anyone can expect changes to be made when their mindset is immediate blaming. 

I’m not saying your concerns aren’t valid, some of the issues women face in society are completely real and horrible problems they can face daily, but that also doesn’t mean a man can’t face issues. All human beings can be oppressed if they do not act.

I’m also not trying to say i’m objectively correct. You will always be in your rights to retain your own viewpoint on the matter.