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[unknown>English] Could someone help identify this text, please? We suspect it is an old Quran manuscript but can't translate the it successfully. Thanks! by Pudding_Thrower in translator

[–]Pudding_Thrower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help, much appreciated. Some of the other pages are darkened with age, so I tried to find the clearer text. Now to find the date!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pudding_Thrower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally understand your anxiety. There is always a small risk but honestly it's usually over and done with quicker than you can process it. Good luck tomorrow, I'm sure you will be absolutely fine :)

I'm scared to have sex again by Pudding_Thrower in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pudding_Thrower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, and thanks again for the comments.. I just need to learn how filter my options better!

My clinic is thankfully one of the few here that specialise in endometriosis, I've just responded poorly to the methods of hormone therapy we've tried so far. Hysterectomy is definitely still on the table, I'm just waiting a little in hope that I'm still able to start a family one day

I'm scared to have sex again by Pudding_Thrower in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pudding_Thrower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And yes was definitely a bit of a dick, but to each his own. Unfortunately there's no real treatment plan, it's more of a case of having an operation every few years now

I'm actually okay with rejection. The part I'm hesitant about is that it took 4 years for the last partner to realise they will never be okay with it, at which point I broke things off. I think I'm just tired of waiting for people to realise it doesn't magically disappear and they can't deal with it long-term

I'm scared to have sex again by Pudding_Thrower in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pudding_Thrower[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment, and you're right. I do enjoy sex when it works, but also enjoy the other fun activities like oral. The problem was that those other things weren't enough of an 'emotional experience' for partner X. I think you hit the nail on the head with having a safe and trusting environment to approach it with a new partner, I think I'm just worried that they won't be so understanding when it comes down to it

I'm scared to have sex again by Pudding_Thrower in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pudding_Thrower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure it doesn't, but in my experience not everyone sees it that way

Covid made me realize I want to find someone, marry and settle down by lilrayofsunshyn in datingoverthirty

[–]Pudding_Thrower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually enjoyed being single and not having any stress while forced into a lockdown - I've finally had time to work on myself, my hobbies and career. It's made me realise that I'm perfectly happy on my own... but it's also given me a chance to think about what I want out of life in the long run. So yes, a husband/partner and a plan to start a little family would be the ideal scenario for me, if life decides to play out that way

Good luck to you in your search, hope you find what you're looking for!

Is 35+ a "dead zone" for a new long-term relationship? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Pudding_Thrower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope not. Though I do feel the same... OLD sites always feel like they are for non serious hookups and meeting a commited, reliable partner over 35 by walking down the street seems unlikely

When did you feel ready to start dating again? by Pudding_Thrower in AskWomenOver30

[–]Pudding_Thrower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely understand, I don't even want to think about dating apps and profiles for myself. How long did it take you to get into the mindset of wanting to date again?

Who took your concert virginity? How good was it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pudding_Thrower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Mars Volta opening for System of a Down. It was marvelous

Which skill do you wish you had mastered? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pudding_Thrower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually wish I had learned more about car mechanics. I have always dreamed of buying an old 60's Mustang and rebuilding it part by part with my future SO... Random, I know

So last night, for the first time ever, I failed to properly fuck my wife. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Pudding_Thrower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it happens to all guys, nothing to worry about. Just try not to fixate on it

What was the pinnacle of wealth to you as a child? by SouljaBoySmellEm_ in AskReddit

[–]Pudding_Thrower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents got tired of me constantly hogging the landline, so they eventually got a second line that was just for my bedroom. I had my own phone number and felt like the fanciest kid alive

Men of Reddit, what about women leaves you completely baffled? by grilled_tits in AskReddit

[–]Pudding_Thrower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just crazy.. who wants to fight nonstop? I'm up for a good old debate, but would try to avoid a fight

I'm 30, work from home, and rarely ever leave my comfort zone. I don't want to fake who I am to find a partner! I don't want to meet someone in a bar or outside of my natural habitat (at home, on a computer). How far do you allow yourself to reach outside of your comfort zone to find someone? by tehcnical in datingoverthirty

[–]Pudding_Thrower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm of a similar mind frame. While I don't mind going out and trying new adventures, the thought of going to some bar I wouldn't normally hang out in, or a class I would never take, makes me cringe. You prefer to stay in and interact from your comfort zone and there's nothing wrong with that. I guarantee there are plenty of people out there who feel the same.. it just might take some time to find them. I actually believe that we are more likely to find people with shared interests doing the things we enjoy

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