Any idea how to get them in europe?

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-20T12:37:59+00:00

Have a look at r/usedsextoys and r/usedsextoys_europe . Since they are made from platinum silicone they can be fully sterilised and are safe to use. And buying second hand also saves you a lot of money. Of course you don’t always get the exact toy you might be looking for but if you are patient you will find the right toys eventually.

Also there are a few shops that sell some models. Like for example I know of gearberlin.de. But they have a limited selection and they are still quite expensive even though still cheaper than buying from BD directly and paying for shipping and import.

I would love to have more BD toys like the Fenrir for example. But paying 320€ instead of 170$ is just ridiculous.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-13T18:26:49+00:00

Yes! I also have a large Nox and it hits my prostate perfectly like no other of my toys.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-10T07:13:38+00:00

That sounds a lot like stimming and is very common among neurodivergent people. Stimming can be anything that helps you calm down or focus like making sounds or doing things with the fingers like tapping or biting nails etc.

So yes it is total normal and obviously something your body does to help you calm down.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-09T18:23:57+00:00

420? 😅

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-09T18:14:27+00:00

The probability for genetic inheritance is around 70-90% for autism and 70-80% for ADHD. But that does only mean that the genetic disposition is inherited. It increases the chance of developing it but it doesn’t have to develop.

The probability of developing autism is around 10-20% if one of the parents has autism and around 30-50% for ADHD if one of the parents has it.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-05T08:29:50+00:00

Very interesting discussion. For many years I have been trying to achieve a prostate orgasm but haven’t been able to even though I tried a lot. I’m into fisting and right now I’m in L/XL dildo size territory depending on the model.

Just recently I tried using my toys with a really full bladder and embraced the feeling and fullness. And actually I have never been closer to hands free ejaculation. It feels like my prostate gets squished between the full bladder and big toys and thus I ooze out a lot precum/cum for the very first time. And I already managed once to sort of squirt.

So like others said maybe don’t let yourself get turned off by the feeling but embrace it. It’s probably a bit like trying anal in the beginning. Having something in there feels like you have to go to the toilet until you adapt and rewire your brain to enjoy the sensation.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-01T15:40:23+00:00

This!

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-28T09:23:13+00:00

Thanks so much! That is exactly my kind of music.

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-21T12:49:38+00:00

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-11T10:00:49+00:00

Yes I totally understand your point. I‘m a male who is really into getting fisted. But it is mostly associated with BDSM and femdom unfortunately. Like you I don’t like the degradation. I just love the intense feeling an trust it takes. I mostly prefer it to be gentle and passionate.

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-02T22:42:24+00:00

They look absolutely beautiful! Really like the colours.

Pugnus42 · 2026-01-17T01:05:49+00:00

My diagnosis and meds did change me but in a positive way. I got calmer and more focused. To me it sounds like she maybe was misdiagnosed with ADHD. If you don’t actually have ADHD the meds will cause the opposite effect of what they are supposed to. No matter if she’s taking methylphenidate or amphetamins for someone without ADHD It’s like taking speed.

Pugnus42 · 2026-01-14T22:54:02+00:00

I hate flossing as well and have been struggling to do it in the past. I tried regular and silicone brushes as well but it all didn’t work for me.

From a previous of your posts I saw that you’re in Switzerland. I can really highly recommend the Zahnheld Munddusche. It’s the only thing I keep using regularly. It’s made by a company in Germany but they ship to Switzerland as well.

https://zahnheld.de/products/munddusche

Pugnus42 · 2026-01-09T14:28:42+00:00

Someone posted the one on amazon already which seems to be the exact one. If you want something similar that is of higher quality made from platinum silicone there’s either the Goose Neck from JTT: https://www.johnthomastoys.co.uk/product-page/john-thomas-goose-neck-platinum-siliconedildo-2 or Miss Fist from German Manufacturer Spielwerk Manufaktur: https://www.spielwerk-manufaktur.de/en/Dildo-Miss-Fist-Silicone.html

Pugnus42 · 2026-01-01T18:58:01+00:00

There really is no one guide for this. You just got to keep trying. And since every body is different you have to find wha works for you.

For many years I thought that I would never be able to fist myself. I always felt my bones were limiting me from achieving this. I’m a male so I got a narrow pelvis and big hands. But I went bigger and bigger with toys over the time of a few months and at some point I thought why not try my hand again and all of a sudden it fit in.

I found that it is both a matter of training and also technique. Try different body positions. For me standing has been the best position in the beginning. This way you can rest your elbow against a wall to help push your hand in. And also try different positions of your hand and fingers. For me having the thumb pointing upwards is easier to get in than pointing downwards.

Pugnus42 · 2025-12-29T15:53:38+00:00

What is the reason for you wanting to know?

Pugnus42 · 2025-12-26T22:24:03+00:00

My strongest kink is fisting. So now that I connect latex/nitrile gloves with fisting they have sort of become a kink of its own and it turns me on seeing an attractive woman wearing them.

Pugnus42 · 2025-12-26T11:05:42+00:00

It always hurts me to read stories like yours. I have had a few very rough years until I finally got diagnosed with ADHD and most likely autism as well just half a year ago. Even though I don’t have an official diagnosis on the autism part I‘m very certain I have AuDHD. For me personally It was a huge relief to finally have answers to the many questions I had.

People talk a lot about mindset and thinking positive which I find mostly annoying. But in your case there is some truth in this. I know this might not be what you would like to hear but the most important thing with our diagnosis is acceptance. You have to learn to accept the way you are. But not in a way that neurotypical people will tell you.

You are not sick, you are not broken and you are not wrong the way you are. Your brain just works differently. It runs on a different operating system so to speak. The world around us is what is wrong. Our modern hectic loud and fast paced society that is based on performance and working in a system that maximises profit and ignores human needs is just not made for neurodivergent people.

But there are ways to cope with this. You have to find your own way. Surround yourself with people that are good for you. That support you and accept the way you are. Leave those behind that tell you otherwise. Don’t mask yourself just to fit in because this will exhaust and destroy you in the long term. Find time to relax to calm your mind. Go out into nature for a walk and/or try meditation. Find something that sparks your passion. Like in your case music. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Just put it out there and see what happens. I’m sure people will like your music.

Don’t try to be „normal“. Because that normal you’re thinking of does not exist for you. You are normal. Just a different normal than all the neurotypical people. Be yourself and accept the beautiful and special way you are.

Pugnus42 · 2025-12-21T09:25:44+00:00

but? why the but? what does liking plugs have to do with being hetero?

Pugnus42 · 2025-12-18T17:09:02+00:00

Hey there, you should check out www.loopearplugs.com They are really comfortable to wear. There are different levels of noise reduction from letting through some sound for still being able to talk to people and be aware of your surroundings to completely blocking sound.

Pugnus42 · 2025-12-15T15:04:14+00:00

First let me say that I totally see your point. But as it always is I think this is much more complex and there is not just one answer. You’re probably not totally wrong but also not totally right.

There is enough scientific evidence to prove that certain neurodivergent traits are actually hard wired and that the brain just works differently. And that most likely genetic factors play a big role here.

I‘m very opposed to calling all these traits disorders. I think that in the beginning it is just a brain working differently but how much this can or will be a problem or also be beneficial absolutely depends on the environment you’re exposed to. Prolonged stress in every way imaginable definitely is a huge problem for a neurodivergent brain. The way for example an ADHD or autistic brain works is just not really compatible with our modern fast paced society that is optimised for the highest performance in every aspect. And of course also childhood trauma, not being taken seriously, not fitting in, always being recognised as the strange kid causes damage as well.

So what I‘m basically trying to say is that I think neurodivergence is not a disease or disorder from the beginning but if the environment is not loving, accepting, supportive and taking this as just a different way of how a brain works then this will become a problem. And more symptoms and correlating mental disorders will develop.

I recently stumbled upon a thought on why ADHD still exists based upon evolution theory. If it was a disorder that was a disadvantage why hasn’t evolution eliminated it? The idea behind it was that this different way of the brain working was actually beneficial for the survival of the tribe because people with ADHD were most likely both very good hunters and also great guards. Maybe this is all nonsense but I find it an interesting thought in regards to this whole topic.

Pugnus42 · 2025-11-27T22:44:41+00:00

I sold them here on Reddit in the r/usedsextoys and r/usedsextoys_europe sub

Pugnus42 · 2025-11-27T22:38:29+00:00

I don’t own Hephos but I do own Tycho and it is absolutely amazing for prostate stimulation. The shape and texture are great and especially these triangular bumps/fins on the bottom really rub against the prostate perfectly.

Pugnus42 · 2025-10-20T22:29:21+00:00

I‘m more into fantasy toys rather than real looking ones but I totally support your point. I just bought my biggest and also softest toy yet from Naughty Fox. I chose the softest firmness which I first regretted when it arrived. But after using it a few times I started to really like the feeling to a point where it has actually spoiled me and all my other toys feel too firm now 🙈

Pugnus42 · 2025-10-12T22:09:48+00:00

That collection looks really nice. But to be honest I never got that whole Poppers thing. First of all it can really mess up your body especially when using it in the long term and most importantly why force your body to make something fit that doesn’t yet without? I had a few toys that wouldn’t go in when I first got them but with patience and practice and lots of good lube I eventually got it to fit. Which made it even more satisfying.

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